How does guys like their gf to behave
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Originally posted by nismoS132:me very MCP one.
she gotta obey what i say. she wan go out wif guy, must tell me, i will let her go one, just that she must tell me. unless i know that guy got ulterior motives, that i will never let her meet him without me there. not that i don't trust her, its him i don't trust.
if i go out wif my frens, i will ask her along one, she wan come or not up to her, but i would prefer if she come.
no flirting.
must have dinner wif me everyday.
"she wan go out wif guy, must tell me, i will let her go one, just that she must tell me"
i hav came across many bfs....telling me e same old ting, but wen i told dem, dey hesistate, n keep calling me wen im gg with guys...
it's true tt alot of guys wan their gfs to obey dem ..another word is giv them 'face'...sure guys wan 'face' so dey wan their gf to agree almost everyting they say~ -
I like my girlfriend to be independent.I want some freedom also.I allow her to go out with whoever she wants,but on the other hand I would not feel easy if she mixes around with too many guys.But then again,if she ends up with another guy,that just shows that we are not mean to be together.
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it's not about whether or not you're meant to be together, but about basic respect; whether she has it for you or not.
it also depends on the situation, if the 2 of u have been together for quite a while, the foundation has already been laid, your SO is less likely to run off with someone new all of a sudden. also, since it's been that long, she'll be more obedient now.
assuming you've only been together for maybe... 1-2 months, some new fella comes along, doesn't show you any respect at all and goes all out to chase your ger, what then?
i feel usually this is a lose-lose situation for the us.
you restrict the ger, tell her not to go out with him, she say you possessive, that she only treats him as a 'fren'. but the guy doesn't give up and continues, you get angry more and your relationship is strained. the other fella wins, unless the ger get that it into her bloody head that she's not just a fren to him.
you don't restrict the ger, you let her go out wif the guy both of you knowing very well that the guy is interested in her. she thinks you're taking her for granted, you lose as well.
that's the fault with gers as well. you know damn well that fella is interested in you, you keep insisting you're "just frens" but you continue going out with him. why?
just becoz you think of him as a fren, doesn't mean he does too. -
sigh!how come our life become more n more complicated.life is damm short.just behave wat you want youself to be.if we worry too much of how other ppl feel, our life will be very diifcult
all of us are either early 20s or teenager,how many 20 year we have in life.stop worrying about all tis small matter.
like wat i always like to say,if you cannot take his or her way.leave and find someone else.dun suffer together.not worth it! -
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pat pat anna dun b sad there always tins like tis to happen. . . juz tell him not to do tis again. . .Originally posted by *AnnA Ev.*:yehh true...
just like me...bf took me to bbq party...allhis frens were there...he was busy doing smth for bbq....i was with his frens...all of them speak hokkien....but i don...at all....dammm...i felt so lost....
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hAHAHAHAH... MaID aR???Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:Guy: go get for me.................
Girl: Orh
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ok... lets just say that you are working at a nite spot and you know that she will be going today. But when u saw her, its like she's the only gal there... will u be like jealous or angry?Originally posted by gogogogo:
my galfriend...... firstly i like chinese girls, her Nationality must be Singaporean - born and raised here
she can be shorter than me or around my height. She need not be sexy, pretty or charming...as long as i find her to my liking
we can do many things together, our hobbies, go for picnic,walk down the beach, chat or do som stuff dat we like to together, we can go over to her place or my place....and the list goes on....
she must be warm and caring towards me, nag at me....and i wouldn't mind her SMS me or calling me over the phone.
off course i would be jealous if she gets too close with some other of her male friends or colleagues
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Originally posted by nismoS132:it's not about whether or not you're meant to be together, but about basic respect; whether she has it for you or not.
it also depends on the situation, if the 2 of u have been together for quite a while, the foundation has already been laid, your SO is less likely to run off with someone new all of a sudden. also, since it's been that long, she'll be more obedient now.
assuming you've only been together for maybe... 1-2 months, some new fella comes along, doesn't show you any respect at all and goes all out to chase your ger, what then?
i feel usually this is a lose-lose situation for the us.
you restrict the ger, tell her not to go out with him, she say you possessive, that she only treats him as a 'fren'. but the guy doesn't give up and continues, you get angry more and your relationship is strained. the other fella wins, unless the ger get that it into her bloody head that she's not just a fren to him.
you don't restrict the ger, you let her go out wif the guy both of you knowing very well that the guy is interested in her. she thinks you're taking her for granted, you lose as well.
that's the fault with gers as well. you know damn well that fella is interested in you, you keep insisting you're "just frens" but you continue going out with him. why?
Coz gals are just as egoistic as guys... Knowing that some1 is interested in u.. that kinda of feeling is very good... but of coz... u can enjoy the feeling.. but still know what u r doing.. cannot go overboard. Just like guys when they know that some gals are interested in them.. they will like in 7th heaven... so happy.. coz boosting their ego ma... gals also have go de hor..
just becoz you think of him as a fren, doesn't mean he does too.