Originally posted by suntzu:
Hi all,
I am pretty new here. Brief into of myself.
26/M/SG/Chinese
My question is: what kind of relationships do you ppls looking for? and if you are in a relationships, are you in the condition to give your love to him/her.
i see most ppls are just satifying themselve by satisfying their own feelings and needs.
I hope i can hear some mature comments and share it out together.
Thanks and have a nice day
If you are a guy then the 1st sentence should be like this...
I am handsome and new here.

Your observation on the self-satisfying part is true.
But is the feelings and needs happens to be the feelings and needs of the other party... then happiness.