Originally posted by zacken99:
yozzzzzzzzzzzz bro n sis...please...butch r nt er xin.....they r human tooo,its jus that their likes r different..i can tell u this no butch or gays fell good.some of them born to b like this while some due to great blows they becum wat they r...they r very very ke lian!!!!!try to help them if u can....
im nt dispiseing them but,being lesbian or gays in our normal social life is consider as a bit outcast....they r nver blissful ending in this (i think so cos till nw all my Les n Gay friend nver c any good endings)
so y go into something when there is no happy ending? its nvr easy to go against the norm y stress urself by doing this?
i noe that butch r very very sensitive,caring,nice to b wif ,cos they themself r ger ,they noe wat a lady wants but a guy will nver b able to....i hope ladies dun go into tis...nt wat but dun find trouble for urself,,,,,life is already tough enough....dun make it worst jus becos a moment of happiness...
they, to me, not exactly considered er xin. As you had said, they may be pitiful but i dun think they are as pitiful as the African refugees. And i dun care much abt the refugees though(haha, may seem cold-hearted here).
1. They may have suffered some emotional pain before but i don't thnk that's the reason for them to change their whole outlook into 'guys'. I mean if they were deeply hurt in a r/s b4, they wun even enter a r/s, needless to say one with a gal. Gals do dumped guys also, they are not tt much diff from guys..
2. Yap, they know what a gal wants therfore some gals will choose them. Yah, it's true but the gals being 'targetted' are always chio, nice personality, good background. Then sometimes when they r sick of the gals, they break up. Although there dun seem to hvae much of a happy ending, the gals will still treat them as a long time partner. Thus, when they breakup, these gals also was emotionaly hurt, and they either refrain fr r/s or become a butch themseves. So wher does that leaves us guyS??
In Short, i dun like them.