A true life story =(
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i got a fren she younger den me but she oreadi hv a 1yr old baby. . . she not those ah lian or bad ger but rather a v guai & innocent ger who alway stay at hm one.
she got a bf who is an ah beng but they together 1 yr. . . den last yr she was shotgun & she hide the truth frm her family till the 5mths so abortion is a nono coz it risky. . .
but the sad part is the guy abandon her & flirt ard wif other ger left her alone wif the baby. he din even care 4 her & din even giv any $ to support the ger. . . den still got call my fren up when he need dat 'tin'. . . he beat her up when he 1 2 vent out anger. . .
although we told her not 2 b so foolish but she reli blind by luv den tis yr she kana baby again but abort. . . we duno wad to do coz she got commit sucide a few times den we dun dare to make her any more upset. . .
but i reli v angry w dat guy. . . when she was w the baby the guy go ard flirt & zz wif other guy. . he so irresponsible!!! wad u all tin abt tis guy?
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i think u suppose to mean.. shotgun?Originally posted by Si|verGer:i got a fren she younger den me but she oreadi hv a 1yr old baby. . . she not those ah lian or bad ger but rather a v guai & innocent ger who alway stay at hm one.
she got a bf who is an ah beng but they together 1 yr. . . den last yr she was shoot gun & she hide the truth frm her family till the 5mths so abortion is a nono coz it risky. . .
but the sad part is the guy abandon her & flirt ard wif other ger left her alone wif the baby. he din even care 4 her & din even giv any $ to support the ger. . . den still got call my fren up when he need dat 'tin'. . . he beat her up when he 1 2 vent out anger. . .
although we told her not 2 b so foolish but she reli blind by luv den tis yr she kana baby again but abort. . . we duno wad to do coz she got commit sucide a few times den we dun dare to make her any more upset. . .
but i reli v angry w dat guy. . . when she was w the baby the guy go ard flirt & zz wif other guy. . he so irresponsible!!! wad u all tin abt tis guy?
the best way is to consult a counseller.. we are not in this kinda of line.. so.. if any wrong information given... both parties will regret...
and also.. everything needs 2 hands to clap.. Both parties are at fault from what i see... the best idea is to... inform the parents or counseller to seek for a better advice...
SEnd my regards to her... *sMiLeS* -
i'm not surprised there are such stories around.
i guess i feel sorree for the girl, and hope there would be less of such guys around, but back to my first statement: it happens.
i guess the best is to hope it doesn't happen to our family and frens? we can't change the world, we can only change ourselves. -
hmmmm, do i know the girl tat u are refering to ? I like guai girls, can intro to me.. hehe !Originally posted by Si|verGer:i got a fren she younger den me but she oreadi hv a 1yr old baby. . . she not those ah lian or bad ger but rather a v guai & innocent ger who alway stay at hm one.
she got a bf who is an ah beng but they together 1 yr. . . den last yr she was shotgun & she hide the truth frm her family till the 5mths so abortion is a nono coz it risky. . .
but the sad part is the guy abandon her & flirt ard wif other ger left her alone wif the baby. he din even care 4 her & din even giv any $ to support the ger. . . den still got call my fren up when he need dat 'tin'. . . he beat her up when he 1 2 vent out anger. . .
although we told her not 2 b so foolish but she reli blind by luv den tis yr she kana baby again but abort. . . we duno wad to do coz she got commit sucide a few times den we dun dare to make her any more upset. . .
but i reli v angry w dat guy. . . when she was w the baby the guy go ard flirt & zz wif other guy. . he so irresponsible!!! wad u all tin abt tis guy? 
I have no evil intentions hor. . . 
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the ger u duno 1 u nv c her b4. . . but she got a 1yr old baby. . . do u mind dat?Originally posted by Celi7Celi:hmmmm, do i know the girl tat u are refering to ? I like guai girls, can intro to me.. hehe ! I have no evil intentions hor. . . 
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Doesn't matter if she has a baby anot .. Just ask her out with the baby too man.Originally posted by Si|verGer:the ger u duno 1 u nv c her b4. . . but she got a 1yr old baby. . . do u mind dat? 
Friday at meetup k ? But u sure guai ? If not later i get bomb. 
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dun tin will b bringing the baby out coz it v troublesome it not as easy as u tin ok? but ur family wum mind meh? hmm. . . i try bah dun tin she will come 1 lar. . .Originally posted by Celi7Celi:Doesn't matter if she has a baby anot .. Just ask her out with the baby too man. Friday at meetup k ? But u sure guai ? If not later i get bomb. -
Silver, E-mail me her pic can ? My icq got problem ...
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her pic? me dun hv leh. . .Originally posted by Celi7Celi:Silver, E-mail me her pic can ? My icq got problem ...
muz c chiO ant ezit? duhzzz!!! -
No lah, just to see 1st incase i get bomb jialat lialat by them at the meetup.Originally posted by Si|verGer:her pic? me dun hv leh. . .
muz c chiO ant ezit? duhzzz!!! keke -
bomb by whO??? duhzzz u 1 the ger 4 urself or wad??Originally posted by Celi7Celi:No lah, just to see 1st incase i get bomb jialat lialat by them at the meetup. keke
if it 4 urself juz say. . . 1 bad point abt urself always beat ard the bush. . . not honest enough abt urself & not straightforward enough. . .
sorry if i abit too frank. . .
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I love babies.
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actually the most ke lian party is the two babies lor... then the girl.. imagine she found a guy really love her but then the guy's family object or anything like that due to the baby what is she going to do man?? haiz.. i think its very hard to bring up a child..... is she still studying?? how sis she manage to give birth if she is still studying.. ? actually her parents also very wei da.. can accept this truth..... didn't the parents went to tell the guy off or something? how about the guy's parents? do they know about this thing?? ask her not to commit suicide ok?? ask her to think abt her baby and her wei da family who has already accepted the truth and willing to help her.. and also her 'friends' her in this forum all willing to help her if she wants...
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should have let good familes adopt the child....
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hmm since u say she blinded by love n love that heartless guy so much.. hiazzz.. something we ladies can be stupid at times...
why not intro more frens to her... widen her social circle?? or intro some real gd guys...
think that guy is not mature enough to take care of a famiy somemore it is a shotgun marriage..
help me send to regards to her... -
/me take out her chopper....
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there goes ah ma... wanna chop pple.. ah ma need my help?
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Think you meant flirt with other *gals* right.Originally posted by Si|verGer:when she was w the baby the guy go ard flirt & zz wif other guy. .
Anyway, 17 is a young age an age of innocence. We may all think it foolish etc to stick with the guy. But perhaps the guy is all that the gal has for support.
Will her family want her back? Likely but very hard. Will other guys want her? This one even harder?
Most likely, your friend wanted the baby for the sole purpose of keeping this guy. To make the guy committed.
I mean just recently there was this 17 yr old gal also commited sucide because of such circumstances.
And what is it with younger gals as in 16 - 18 (not bashing anyone here) liking all those ah bengs? -
ask dat idiot come to my office 2mrw morning... KNS!!!!!!! he's been a very BAD BAD boy...i wanna see his parents... Originally posted by Si|verGer:i got a fren she younger den me but she oreadi hv a 1yr old baby. . . she not those ah lian or bad ger but rather a v guai & innocent ger who alway stay at hm one.
she got a bf who is an ah beng but they together 1 yr. . . den last yr she was shotgun & she hide the truth frm her family till the 5mths so abortion is a nono coz it risky. . .
but the sad part is the guy abandon her & flirt ard wif other ger left her alone wif the baby. he din even care 4 her & din even giv any $ to support the ger. . . den still got call my fren up when he need dat 'tin'. . . he beat her up when he 1 2 vent out anger. . .
although we told her not 2 b so foolish but she reli blind by luv den tis yr she kana baby again but abort. . . we duno wad to do coz she got commit sucide a few times den we dun dare to make her any more upset. . .
but i reli v angry w dat guy. . . when she was w the baby the guy go ard flirt & zz wif other guy. . he so irresponsible!!! wad u all tin abt tis guy? -
i belive in retribution
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Back to this debate about good guys versus bad guys
The bad guys can will win the battle or even the campaign,but in the long term,they will lose the war....decisively...
It never pays to be bad...what goes around will come around...Your Past will catch up with you some day.Retribution exists. -
I hate ah bengs -
i think you should hate that guy not all bengs are like that...there are some responsible one...like me?
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lao beng??Originally posted by sugardaddy:i think you should hate that guy not all bengs are like that...there are some responsible one...like me? -
Some act style only. Real trouble come run away.