this is my comments about this topic......no doubt the one u love deeply has a bf is a very hurting thing......but think......when u know her bf treats her well as u do , why not ? i know its very very tough to forget her... this is real thing happening to me......i like a gal deeply and waited for her for almost 3 years...... in the end , she found a bf and she told me her bf treats her well.......so i told myself if she's with me , maybe she will suffer , who knows ? i know ppl may say me crappy..... but its true...... till now i had still been waiting for her..... i just treat her as a friend for the time being.....cause hoping too much will hurt you more..... "Xi Wang Yue Gao , Shi Wang Yue Da".... So just leave it as is it..... i always wish them happiness..... cause i know her boyfriend will treat her very well...... she is a good gal........while i am a shy and useless guy , if she is with me , i will ruin her happiness....... the most happiest thing is that u learn from the gal u like is happy.......Originally posted by duotiga83:except now is in different form.....![]()

haiz.......let's hope so........maybe a year , maybe forever she will never be mine.......but it's okie.....as i know she is happy with her bf.....maybe in a few years time , they are planning to get engaged......who knows.....Originally posted by snowf|akes*:![]()
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but one day jun hao will realise how much u haf done for her...ni de yong xin liang ku...
Originally posted by Wen^Chu:haha. apparently, there will only be two outcomes:
[b][b][b][i]if there's a person whom you waited and liked for years , and she/he got a bf/gf le......you are shy to tell him/her you liked her , what would you do ?[/i][/b][/b]![]()
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Originally posted by www:if for me , i will certainly give up cause i know she's not for me....
haha. apparently, there will only be two outcomes:fair competition. win her from her current bf.
leave her alone. let her be with her current bf
in the first place, you gotta know what you want.
many times, we already know what we have in mind. it's how and when you execute it. and by the time we [b]finally take the first move, its too late.![]()
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ya i know the chances is slim silverger.......... i know i wun have a chance even through she is not with her bf..... cause she will go on with her life and find other good guys.....i just want to be her support whom she can rely on when she is down or she has anything happy to share with her.......no matter what decision she makes , me will support her and no matter what , i wun go up to her to tell her i like her anymore.........even she got no bf......... i really think me wun stand a chance anymore........Originally posted by Si|verGer:haiz if she reli v long wif the other partner den mayb the chance might b slim unless during the time she quarrel wif her bf lor. . .
if not u like dat say she will get confuse. . . duno who to choose not v nice rite? so even if u wana tell it better during she & bf not so gd. . .
if she like u, u might b wif u but if she dun either will b frenxs or she wum tok to u so muc liao![]()
eh not v gd. . . esp if she got children. . . no matter wad muz tin of the childrenOriginally posted by jOhO:wat if she's married??![]()
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it gd u tin tis way but can u reli do tis ant? hmm if u reli feel like trying u can go ahead coz who knw mayb she like u too but even if u wana try or act anytin u muz find the rite time. . . dat mean mayb when she hv no bf den when u confess dat nutin wrong~ gd luck to ya~Originally posted by Wen^Chu:ya i know the chances is slim silverger.......... i know i wun have a chance even through she is not with her bf..... cause she will go on with her life and find other good guys.....i just want to be her support whom she can rely on when she is down or she has anything happy to share with her.......no matter what decision she makes , me will support her and no matter what , i wun go up to her to tell her i like her anymore.........even she got no bf......... i really think me wun stand a chance anymore........
if she is married , there are no rights for me to think of her anymore..... i will just wish her happiness .......she will have her own family and children........so there is nothing i can do already.......maybe i will just concentrate on my career which is important to me..... as guys we must put it on top of us....
Originally posted by Wen^Chu:
[b][b][b][i]if there's a person whom you waited and liked for years , and she/he got a bf/gf le......you are shy to tell him/her you liked her , what would you do ?[/i][/b][/b]![]()
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okie thanks silvergal...... anyway of course if she is married , me got no rights to think of her anymore........my friends always tell me to go ahead and snatch from her bf.....but love is not selfish......i cannot be so selfish to make myself happy than never think of ppl ..... her bf will be very sad........no matter what , i still wish her happiness with her bf.......hope her bf treat her well........she is a kind and good gal although she always suan me......heee.....Originally posted by Si|verGer:it gd u tin tis way but can u reli do tis ant? hmm if u reli feel like trying u can go ahead coz who knw mayb she like u too but even if u wana try or act anytin u muz find the rite time. . . dat mean mayb when she hv no bf den when u confess dat nutin wrong~ gd luck to ya~
but if she marry i dun support u to confess. . .![]()
hmm gald u tin tis way coz no many ppl can tin tis way & able to do it. dun ask 4 more b content wif wad u hv & u will v happierOriginally posted by Wen^Chu:okie thanks silvergal...... anyway of course if she is married , me got no rights to think of her anymore........my friends always tell me to go ahead and snatch from her bf.....but love is not selfish......i cannot be so selfish to make myself happy than never think of ppl ..... her bf will be very sad........no matter what , i still wish her happiness with her bf.......hope her bf treat her well........she is a kind and good gal although she always suan me......heee.....![]()