BF/GF dun acknowledge you?!
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Raintree - your story seems shorter this time..
Shirurinu - Hmm you sure about this? meeting up for satay? luckily i am only a herb so i cant do anything bad to you
whats your age? -
thats good lor... actually things have been going pretty well .. except for this incident which have been affecting me quite a bit... i dun mind him going out with gals... if he tell me they are jus frenz or sch mates or what... if u tell me i won't even suspect if there is anything wrong... but... by going with a girl whom u tell her that i'm only a "fren" Thats a bit too far rite......Originally posted by rain_tree:well well.... got this period of time pretty bad... alot of misunderstanding... he is erm... shy and dun say out his feelings one... so sometimes i will be wondering whether he really wanna hold on to the relationship or it is juz me yi xiang qing yuan... so when i feel insecure... i get abit demanding...
.... cannot help it de... will start to pick on small things like... why recently nv msg me tat he miss me liao... stuff like tat... hehehe *blush*
but after all tat nonsense... me will be fine again... hehe... its like the rubberband thingy peppermint tok abt in some old threads.... perhaps he can explain to u again.....
in relationships... both parties need to be there to help each other get out of their moody and insecure period bah... if not the nonsense will nv stop de... most guys tot tat leaving the gal alone for a while the gal will be alrite liao... WRONG!! the gal will get worse... haha... luckily i got a very sweet bf... tats why can hang on till now bah
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hmm shouldnt you be asking yourself, *do i have the right to be suspicious?* why should you be fearful of him being angry.Originally posted by shirurinu:how should i ask him as not to sound like i'm suspicious.. or how should i start telling him?
just ask and see how he reacts, it will also be a good reflection for thr future with regards to how u 2 settle differences. -
erm... me and my bf always ask each other like police ask thief like tat wor... grap collar... head lock or snatch hp... hehehhee.... all playfully one lar...Originally posted by shirurinu:how should i ask him as not to sound like i'm suspicious.. or how should i start telling him? .... although the motive is to noe who is the caller and the purpose of the call... and if guy call me or gal call him we both will get jealous... but its quite harmless loh... cuz humour is involved u see... more like small children sulking with jealousy den really got angry at each other....
if ur bf is those need alot of freedom one den u can gently tell him tat
u: i tell u something u dun get angry can? (give a concern and scared he angry face... something like tat
)
him: ok... why?
u: u noe tat day got a gal call u on my hp....
*pause*
him: yar... why?
u: i was quite hurt when u told her tat we were juz friends
him: blah blah blah......
den come back we discuss his ans and see how it goes *wink* -
cuz u already hear it liao mah.... i dun really bother to repeat stories.... if i did... they get shorter and shorter and shorterOriginally posted by Peppermint:Raintree - your story seems shorter this time..
Shirurinu - Hmm you sure about this? meeting up for satay? luckily i am only a herb so i cant do anything bad to you whats your age? -
Originally posted by rain_tree:erm... me and my bf always ask each other like police ask thief like tat wor... grap collar... head lock or snatch hp... hehehhee.... all playfully one lar... .... although the motive is to noe who is the caller and the purpose of the call... and if guy call me or gal call him we both will get jealous... but its quite harmless loh... cuz humour is involved u see... more like small children sulking with jealousy den really got angry at each other....
if ur bf is those need alot of freedom one den u can gently tell him tat
u: i tell u something u dun get angry can? (give a concern and scared he angry face... something like tat )
HHmmmmzzzz... not a bad idea huh... expert sia..
him: ok... why?
u: u noe tat day got a gal call u on my hp....
*pause*
him: yar... why?
u: i was quite hurt when u told her tat we were juz friends
him: blah blah blah......
den come back we discuss his ans and see how it goes *wink* -
i'M 20 le..Originally posted by Peppermint:Raintree - your story seems shorter this time..
Shirurinu - Hmm you sure about this? meeting up for satay? luckily i am only a herb so i cant do anything bad to you whats your age? -
Ok hmm so funny...talk one time only and meet for satay got tell your bf
i will err PM you later... -
actually i also tot abt other possibility on why he say u are his fren....Originally posted by shirurinu:thats good lor... actually things have been going pretty well .. except for this incident which have been affecting me quite a bit... i dun mind him going out with gals... if he tell me they are jus frenz or sch mates or what... if u tell me i won't even suspect if there is anything wrong... but... by going with a girl whom u tell her that i'm only a "fren" Thats a bit too far rite......
1. he might say gal friend with the word gal very soft
2. tat gal is interested in him and as a friend he didnt wanna upset her further as he might haf already rejected her... plus he might wanna protect u from the gal in case she crazy one... keep calling u on ur hp
3. he used to be interested in the gal den kana reject so is pai seh to tok to her on this topic
4. she gossip alot.... he wanna avoid being the hot topic and if he tell her u are his gf and u are one years older... she can spin alot of stories u noe
5. he used to haf quite a no. of gfs.... so to avoid the question of..."u gf's hp ar? orh... which gf ar???"..... hehe.... so he decided to say u are his friend
erm.... i noe some of these quite lame lar but erm.... i juz state some possibilities mah... -
^5Originally posted by shirurinu:i'M 20 le..
same age!!!!
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actually... me and my bf also got mention each other as friends b4.... as in we tok to other ppl den they ask us who we are with... den we juz say with friends loh.... after tat if i overheard him telling his friends tat i am a friend... i will poke poke him and suan him loh... who is ur friend ar?? who? me issit??
(pretend to be angry liao)
den he will come coax me lar... hehehe... -
aCtually .. i 'm looking for this kind of possibilities lor.. so i am mentally prepared what he wanna say.. coz he's very good in jiao bian lol.Originally posted by rain_tree:actually... me and my bf also got mention each other as friends b4.... as in we tok to other ppl den they ask us who we are with... den we juz say with friends loh.... after tat if i overheard him telling his friends tat i am a friend... i will poke poke him and suan him loh... who is ur friend ar?? who? me issit?? (pretend to be angry liao)
den he will come coax me lar... hehehe... -
maybe u wana try sms if u wish to avoid confrontation...ehh wait his hp kena barred hor..nm
try to choose a time whereby hes quite free as in not working, not studying not watching soccer, not playing games, bacially ask when he is kinda idle so he wun feel irritated. -
I hate people who always JIAO BIAN... ANyway, I usually don't waste my breath on them....?Originally posted by shirurinu:aCtually .. i 'm looking for this kind of possibilities lor.. so i am mentally prepared what he wanna say.. coz he's very good in jiao bian lol.
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hw sure r u it a ger? hmm mayb best if u call back & c if it ger or boy. . . but can understand u feel bad. . . & hurt by wad he said. . . mayb u shld juz ask him. . .Originally posted by shirurinu:My bf's hp was barred from making outgoing calls and msg coz he did not pay his bills.
So he used my hp to return a msg and this person calls back to my hp. I've seen this number on his fone b4 and i know its a gal. i did not pick up and jus pass the fone to my guy for him to pick it up himself. I guess the gal must have asked him y using other number to msg her and his ans was "My hp low batt and i'm using my fren's fone" He doesn't wan her to know that he has a gf... so he must have special feelings or something is not right lor....
What the hell is that.... when did become his fren without knowing... i was so upset that i didn't wan to talk to him...
What should i do? i tot i will feel better after a good night sleep... but god knowss... i'm still bothered by it....
when he say it fren did u look at him? wad his expression? -
den k siao ask another fren call dat hp lar c if it a ger or boy den say dial wrong num lor. . .Originally posted by shirurinu:I dun wan to jeopardise our relationship like that and i'm also not that kind of person who will call that girl and ask her... i've already lost half of the battle le.. and if i ask her, i lost everything
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yaya dat v v fishy liao. . . confrim v obvious he dun1 u 2 call back dat person -.-"Originally posted by shirurinu:ANd i forgot to add in.. after the call he erase the person's phone number from my call register list!! Something fishy rite!! -
me use to stay 209... now shift liao.....Originally posted by shirurinu:HAHAHA.. I stay 210. -
hmm...Originally posted by sugardaddy:Aiya...tell you the true lah...he wanted both the fish anf the bear's paw..... I use to do that too...