WEIRD BF/GF
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thanxsOriginally posted by snowf|akes*:tis is a nice one...
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but i dun like long distance relationship leh, i dunno can trust myself boOriginally posted by Si|verGer:dat depends hw muc u luv him if u reli luv him u might go. . .but then if ur heart dun feel like going juz tell him & discuss abt it. . .if he reli luv u he will understand too & both of u cum up with a win win solution 
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nobody likes long distance.Originally posted by nismoS132:but i dun like long distance relationship leh, i dunno can trust myself bo 
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Originally posted by www:nobody likes long distance.
of coz !!! -
eh there r many prob when going in long dist luv. . . muz reli hv a lost of trust, patience & determination . . .Originally posted by nismoS132:but i dun like long distance relationship leh, i dunno can trust myself bo
it gd u honest abt urself -
so if i long distance hw arhz>Originally posted by www:nobody likes long distance. 
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i abit pesstimistic...nver believe in long distance relationship...so near also gt problem liao...imagine...need to cross the ocean,,,?
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Dont go...here is why:Originally posted by zacken99:i abit pesstimistic...nver believe in long distance relationship...so near also gt problem liao...imagine...need to cross the ocean,,,?
> > >>A man going abroad to work leaves his fiancée crying.
> > >>
> > >>"Don't worry, I will write you everyday," he said.
> > >>
> > >>For years he did write her. But since he was happy with his job,
> > >>he
> >had no
> > >>immediate plans of going home.
> > >>
> > >>One day, he received a wedding invitation. His girlfriend was
> >scheduled to
> > >>be married.
> > >>
> > >>To whom? To the mailman bringing regularly the letters of her
> >boyfriend!
> > >>Indeed, distance does make hearts flounder. The poor boyfriend
> > >>surely explained, "What went wrong? I sent her letters,
> > >>chocolates, and
> >flowers."
> > >>
> > >>When relationships go wrong, the list of things given and done for
> > >>the person usually crops up. We say, "I have given you this and
> > >>that... I
> >have
> > >>done these things for you." It seems that love is simply proven by
> > >>the bestowal of gifts and favours. But while presents are
> > >>important, love demands what is: 'presence of the beloved'.
> > >>
> > >>I have observed for instance, the orchids of my mother's. When
> > >>she's
> >away
> > >>for a long time, they are unhealthy and many of them wither. But
> > >>when
> >she
> > >>is around, they bloom with beautiful flowers. My mother does
> > >>nothing exceptional. She just spends much time talking and
> > >>caressing them. I
> >guess
> > >>persons all the more require a caring presence.
> > >>
> > >>Love is fundamentally a commitment to a person. We may be
> > >>committed to
> >our
> > >>business, job, hobby, sports and clubs, but strictly speaking,
> > >>they
> >cannot
> > >>love us back. Only a person can love us in return, and for that
> > >>matter
> >the
> > >>highest commitment as human beings is spending time with those
> > >>persons
> >we
> > >>love. And since people need affection and nourishment, material
> > >>things
> >can
> > >>only help up to a certain degree in fostering love. But it can
> > >>never replace the greatest gift of presence because everyone needs
> > >>someone -
> >be
> > >>it friends, parents, siblings or simply that 'special' one.
> > >>
> > >>Being there for someone need not necessary mean having to say a
> > >>lot.
> >Words
> > >>are sometimes redundant. Remember that 'presence' (to be there for
> > >>someone)
> > >>is more than enough. -
i like tis story...
They have been married for two years. He loves literature and often posts his work on the net, but nobody ever reads them. He is also into photography, and he handled their wedding photos. He loves her very much and likewise with her. She has a quick temper, and always bullies him. He is a gentleman, and always gives in to her. Today she’s been “wilful” again.
Her: “Why can’t you be the photographer for my friend’s wedding? She promised she’d pay.”
Him: “I don’t have time that day.”
Her: “Humpf!”
Him: “Huh?”
Her: “Don’t have time? Write less of those novels, and you will have all the time you need.”
Him: “I…someone will definitely recognize my work some day.”
Her: “Humpf! I don’t care you’ll have to do it for her.”
Him: “No.”
Her: “Just this once.”
Him: “No.”
NegotiationÂ’s broken.
So, she gave the final warning: “Give me a Yes within three days, or else…”
First day. She “withheld” the kitchen, bathroom, computer, refrigerator, television…Except the double-bed, to show her “benevolence”.
Of course, she has to sleep on it too. He didnÂ’t mind, as he still has some cash in his pocket.
Second day. She conducted a raid and removed everything from his pockets, and warned, “Seek any external help, and you bear the consequences.”
HeÂ’s nervous now. Night. On the bed. He begs for mercy, hoping that sheÂ’ll end this state. She doesnÂ’t give a damn. No way is she giving in, whatever he says. Until he agrees.
Third day. Night. On the bed.
HeÂ’s lying on the bed, looking to one side.
SheÂ’s lying on the bed, looking to the other side.
Him: “We need to talk.”
Her: “Unless it’s about the wedding, forget it.”
Him: “It’s something very important.”
She remains silent.
Him: “Let’s get a divorce.”
She did not believe her ears.
Him: “I got to know a girl.”
SheÂ’s totally angry and wanted to hit him. But she held it down, wanting to let him finish. But her eyes already felt wet. He took a photo out from his chest.
Probably from his undershirt pocket, thatÂ’s the only place she didnÂ’t go through yesterday. How careless.
Him: “She’s a nice girl.”
Her tears fell.
Him: “She has a good personality too.”
She’s heartbroken, because he puts a photo of some other girl “close to his heart”.
Him: “She says that she’ll support me fully in my pursue for literature after we get married.”
SheÂ’s very jealous, because she said the same thing in the past.
Him: “She loves me truly.”
She wishes to sit up and scream at him: “Don’t I?”
Him: “So, I think she won’t force me to do something that I don’t want to do.”
SheÂ’s thinking, but the rage wonÂ’t subside.
Him: “Want to take a look at the photo I took for her?”
Her: “…..!”
He brings the photo before her eyes.
SheÂ’s in a total rage, hits his hands away and leaves a burning mark of a slap on his face.
He signs. She cries.
He puts the photo back into his pocket. She pulls her hand back under the blanket.
He turns off the light and sleeps.
She turns on the light, and sits up.
HeÂ’s asleep. She lost sleep.
She regrets treating him the way she did.
She cried again, and thought about a lot of things.
She wants to wake him up.
She wants to have an intimate talk with him.
She doesnÂ’t want to push him anymore.
She stares at his chest. She wants to see how the girl looks.
She slips the photo out. She wanted to cry, and she wanted to laugh.
ItÂ’s a nicely taken photo of herself. A photo he took for her.
She bends down, and kissed him on his cheek.
You learn to love, not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. -
Luckily she looked at the photo .. else in a rage, she might just kill the husband...phew.
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hahaha................Originally posted by sgboy2004:Luckily she looked at the photo .. else in a rage, she might just kill the husband...phew. -
Originally posted by sgboy2004:Luckily she looked at the photo .. else in a rage, she might just kill the husband...phew. hahahhahaa but the husband oso quite sweet hor. . .
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ya lor ya lor...at first i still tot who's tat girl in the picOriginally posted by Si|verGer: hahahhahaa but the husband oso quite sweet hor. . . -
It's just a STORY....? Or maybe the guy PLAIN LAZY don't wanna write and can't find ANY excuse...?? ~WAHAHahahaha...Originally posted by Si|verGer:this guy v gd but seldom guys r like tis
sumtin meaningful to share:
|uv isn't about becoming sum1's 'perfect partner' It's about finding sum1 who help u become the best person u can be. It's also isn't about finding the perfect person to |uv but how to |uv an imperfect person. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you... " -
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ya v sweet but v risky 4 the husbandOriginally posted by snowf|akes*:ya lor ya lor...at first i still tot who's tat girl in the pic -
if plain lazy den u shld suit moreOriginally posted by Devil1976:It's just a STORY....? Or maybe the guy PLAIN LAZY don't wanna write and can't find ANY excuse...?? ~WAHAHahahaha... " -
Originally posted by Si|verGer:if plain lazy den u shld suit more >
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i guess it really takes alot out of a person to be able to achieve what the guy in the story did.
In life, nobody's is perfect and we're bound to do something that'll annoy each other. It's only human and really inevitable for being in close and constant contact. Annoyances and arguments will always be there...its's only whether ur partner want to work it out.
And that, a story will always remain as one...
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Story always has a moral behind it...like wat Tan Ah Teck says...Originally posted by lyonen3:i guess it really takes alot out of a person to be able to achieve what the guy in the story did.
In life, nobody's is perfect and we're bound to do something that'll annoy each other. It's only human and really inevitable for being in close and constant contact. Annoyances and arguments will always be there...its's only whether ur partner want to work it out.
And that, a story will always remain as one...
Happy finding that person( doubt u will find it)!!!
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from the experiences around my friends, nowadays youngsters dun like their boyfrd or girlfrd to be very religious.
i have one example to share. i have a grilfrd due to certain type of yuan, sprits or god always possess her to convey message.it is not within her ability to reject.after long negotiation, they come to an agreement. she will have to tiao dang at a temple during guan im's birthday.but she got to be a vegetarian.
she is a shenton way girl, work in a bank, from a nice family previously who dun believe in tis type of thing.
when she hav a new boyfrd, she dun dare to tell them, bcos everytime she tell the truth, her boyfrd will leave her. she cannot hide the secret either, bcos after she tiao dang, her body will leave a lot of bruises and scar.
will you accept a person with these responsibility? -
from the experiences around my friends, nowadays youngsters dun like their boyfrd or girlfrd to be very religious.
i have one example to share. i have a grilfrd due to certain type of yuan, sprits or god always possess her to convey message.it is not within her ability to reject.after long negotiation, they come to an agreement. she will have to tiao dang at a temple during guan im's birthday.but she got to be a vegetarian.
she is a shenton way girl, work in a bank, from a nice family previously who dun believe in tis type of thing.
when she hav a new boyfrd, she dun dare to tell them, bcos everytime she tell the truth, her boyfrd will leave her. she cannot hide the secret either, bcos after she tiao dang, her body will leave a lot of bruises and scar.
will you accept a person with these responsibility? -
personally i think it's all bull crap and i'll ask her to stop believing all that stuff.Originally posted by gigi:will you accept a person with these responsibility? -
hi...sorry to prob in..but bro..there are really such things going on n its nt crap...sorry i noe as an educated person..u find it hard to accept...but but..its genuine case...jus ignore mi if u still refuse to believe,....Originally posted by nismoS132:personally i think it's all bull crap and i'll ask her to stop believing all that stuff. -
not really educated or not, i'll believe it if i see it, till now i've never seen a single instance of it, only "my fren's fren's mother's father's uncle's cousin's nephew's daughter's son's fren's".Originally posted by zacken99:hi...sorry to prob in..but bro..there are really such things going on n its nt crap...sorry i noe as an educated person..u find it hard to accept...but but..its genuine case...jus ignore mi if u still refuse to believe,....
i do think there's a ghost world or watever out there, just now the way we think it is. i don't even know how to describe, or would even want to bother to think about it, i'll know when i get there, if i get there.