confuse.....
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well....
me really got prob le la...
erm... me n my x stead broke up long time ago le...
but we 2 still keep in contact lo... like toking over the fone, going out, sms.....
Well.. after we break up not long ago, he did ask me for patch. He asked me for abt 3times... but i rejected him coz.. i was really confused lo...
During one of the chalet that i had after the break up... i bring him along.. coz... he wanted to go wif me... den.. when those ppl there ask him.. "eh, that ger ur stead ar?" He reply, "yesh" and hold my hands. Since me n him broke off le, why he want to tell ppl that me n him still together as a couple??? i really dunno y...
He told me that he still love me... but y he dun wan to ask me for a patch le?? And he tell me that if i got stead le... rem to tell him and he sae... that rem to find somewan better den him... and if i had any quarrel wif my future stead, juz tell him n he will be there lo.. i dunno wad the hell is happenin....
To sae the truth, i still love him as b4 lo...
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wah..like dat also can ah...but i think he cant be trusted...should have asked u to patch loh...rather than like wat u mentioned above...Originally posted by [gEr]^_^:well....
me really got prob le la...
erm... me n my x stead broke up long time ago le... but we 2 still keep in contact lo... like toking over the fone, going out, sms.....
Well.. after we break up not long ago, he did ask me for patch. He asked me for abt 3times... but i rejected him coz.. i was really confused lo...
During one of the chalet that i had after the break up... i bring him along.. coz... he wanted to go wif me... den.. when those ppl there ask him.. "eh, that ger ur stead ar?" He reply, "yesh" and hold my hands. Since me n him broke off le, why he want to tell ppl that me n him still together as a couple??? i really dunno y...
He told me that he still love me... but y he dun wan to ask me for a patch le?? And he tell me that if i got stead le... rem to tell him and he sae... that rem to find somewan better den him... and if i had any quarrel wif my future stead, juz tell him n he will be there lo.. i dunno wad the hell is happenin....
To sae the truth, i still love him as b4 lo...
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wtf....?
i thot u said he asked u to reconcile the reln 3 times?
anyway maybe i'm not a good person to answer this question. i believe that once a couple breaks.. there's no point getting back together. -
yah..i tot u said he wanted to patch back 3 times, n u rejected him??
anyway, u should make up your mind and decide for yourself. Whether u can live without him or not, wat will happen if u dont tok to him, call him or sms him for 1 -2 days or wks or mths...can u do it?? if ur ans is 'NO' after trying the above then i think u 2 should sit down n tok...
Ask him whether he wants to be with u...tell him how u feel abt him...n ask him how he feels abt u! Communication between the 2 is very important!
If he is not ready to commit himself in this relationship....then...(u shd noe wat to do rite )
gd luck.....
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eh if he dun1 2 make the 1st move mayb u can hint him?? but frankly speaking do u luv him? if u do u can make the 1st move. . . anyway u say u reject him 3times dat y mayb he too afraid to ask againOriginally posted by [gEr]^_^:well....
me really got prob le la...
erm... me n my x stead broke up long time ago le... but we 2 still keep in contact lo... like toking over the fone, going out, sms.....
Well.. after we break up not long ago, he did ask me for patch. He asked me for abt 3times... but i rejected him coz.. i was really confused lo...
During one of the chalet that i had after the break up... i bring him along.. coz... he wanted to go wif me... den.. when those ppl there ask him.. "eh, that ger ur stead ar?" He reply, "yesh" and hold my hands. Since me n him broke off le, why he want to tell ppl that me n him still together as a couple??? i really dunno y...
He told me that he still love me... but y he dun wan to ask me for a patch le?? And he tell me that if i got stead le... rem to tell him and he sae... that rem to find somewan better den him... and if i had any quarrel wif my future stead, juz tell him n he will be there lo.. i dunno wad the hell is happenin....
To sae the truth, i still love him as b4 lo...
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If u still love him, then be sincere and get back together, and cherish the best of it.
Life is short..
Who knows when the nuclear war will start, who knows suddenly a major disaster happen to earth and all die??? And so u hav to enjoy each other now, be it in making love or just being in love...cherish the little time u are left wif
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ehh did i answer this b4......sense of deja vu....
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maybe you should first get your feelings straight first, think whether if he he asks you again would you go back to him? if it is yes, i think you should ask for a 'patch' instead, i think he gave up in asking liao since you rejected him three times.. he dun dare to ask liao loh
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Case: Break long ago, ex once ask for patch, but you rejected 3 times. Tell people say both still an item, never ask for patch already instead acts as a good friend. You still love him.Originally posted by [gEr]^_^:well....
me really got prob le la...
erm... me n my x stead broke up long time ago le... but we 2 still keep in contact lo... like toking over the fone, going out, sms.....
Well.. after we break up not long ago, he did ask me for patch. He asked me for abt 3times... but i rejected him coz.. i was really confused lo...
During one of the chalet that i had after the break up... i bring him along.. coz... he wanted to go wif me... den.. when those ppl there ask him.. "eh, that ger ur stead ar?" He reply, "yesh" and hold my hands. Since me n him broke off le, why he want to tell ppl that me n him still together as a couple??? i really dunno y...
He told me that he still love me... but y he dun wan to ask me for a patch le?? And he tell me that if i got stead le... rem to tell him and he sae... that rem to find somewan better den him... and if i had any quarrel wif my future stead, juz tell him n he will be there lo.. i dunno wad the hell is happenin....
To sae the truth, i still love him as b4 lo...
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Reason of breaking? Not stated.
Firstly, your ex is just being execising the human guy nature of selfishness. You may ask what the hell does it got to do with selfishness - I am going to explain it now.
When he ask for patch and you didn't - you heed your womanly instinct because your inner self TOLD you not to. This confusion and delusion is there and you know that history is most likely going to repeat itself if you re-accepted him again.
There are two reasons why he never ask for a patch anymore.
1st reason (18% prediction): He gave up - reason against it is that if he gave up, he would gave up contacting much with you - but he didn't.
2nd Second (82% prediction): He already lost that kind of feel and passion of wanting a actual relation with you. The next best thing is being a good friend - he acts like a bf to you - flirt with his words saying that you are still his gf, holds your hand. In the Art of Seduction - seducing process, third law - he is sending mixed signal.
So what the hell does it got to do with selfishness? Think about this: you can't let go - and he enjoys the best of both world - being single and knowing that someone would be out there for him - a mistress (to me it means not real gf - xiao laopo kind of thing). He says when you get a new bf must tell him, then if any quarrel he will come console you. He can go xian girls - you can't complain/rant a single shit.
Trust me in this - if you get a boyfriend, you will have to go through one problem i already foresee in you - your ex hurdle. On the surface, it seemed he never do anything, but you will definitely have feelings for him because of his *actions* and it will never die unless you kept minimum contact with him. Problems will rise because of him indefinitely and it will *seemed* as if your relation have problem (but of course it is because of him partially) - you will end up even worst than your present situation.
Consider properly about the course you want to steer and the decision you want to make. Don't just go blindly with emotions that will *kill* you.
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well he did ask u to patch back ^^
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yup... he did...Originally posted by ZeroCold:well he did ask u to patch back ^^
on christmas day lo..
keke... i was wif him on Chrismas eve lo..
den after 12mn.. he asked me... whahaa...
we patch back le...
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........Originally posted by [gEr]^_^:yup... he did...
on christmas day lo..
keke... i was wif him on Chrismas eve lo..
den after 12mn.. he asked me... whahaa...
we patch back le... 
i don't know is it good for you, but all da best. 
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Congratulations...Originally posted by [gEr]^_^:yup... he did...
on christmas day lo..
keke... i was wif him on Chrismas eve lo..
den after 12mn.. he asked me... whahaa...
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kekee.... thankz...Originally posted by M?square:........ i don't know is it good for you, but all da best. 
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juz hope u know wad you sre doing....
we wont wanna see another post of this... anymore in future... -
x|e x|e n|....Originally posted by xavier1979:Congratulations... -
ok la...Originally posted by toothie:juz hope u know wad you sre doing....
we wont wanna see another post of this... anymore in future...
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Good for you, best christmas gift for you I guess...Originally posted by [gEr]^_^:yup... he did...
on christmas day lo..
keke... i was wif him on Chrismas eve lo..
den after 12mn.. he asked me... whahaa...
we patch back le... 
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no comments for you ... just wish you all the best ... since you have already make up your mind ... treasure it ...
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damn another gal taken but oh well all the best ^^
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Originally posted by ZeroCold:damn another gal taken but oh well all the best ^^
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u interested in her ahOriginally posted by ZeroCold:damn another gal taken but oh well all the best ^^ -
Originally posted by SuRfBoY:
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best wishes 4 u! anyway choices lies in u, once u make it u feel happy den go ahead k?Originally posted by [gEr]^_^:yup... he did...
on christmas day lo..
keke... i was wif him on Chrismas eve lo..
den after 12mn.. he asked me... whahaa...
we patch back le... -
a happi ending