Haiz..Lose a friend on last day of year 2002

• Parka

  1 Jan 03, 11:54

  Originally posted by startrightnow:

  can't accept the reason from her that ended friendship

  I also find it hard to take. Just like that. End means end. kaoz.
• sgboy2004

  1 Jan 03, 11:55

  Originally posted by e|mo:

  me guy leh

  lol
  
  
  e|mo is a guy
  
  hahaha
  The one at seasame street is...u ?
  
• sgboy2004

  1 Jan 03, 11:56

  Originally posted by startrightnow:

  can't accept the reason from her that ended friendship

  do u exactly know the reason for the termination of the friendship?
  
  Or was it an assumption?
  
  
• startrightnow

  1 Jan 03, 11:59

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  Does she matter so much to you? It is not nice feeling to lose a friend like her though.
  
  Let her cool down first, then maybe hear her out for the reasons...maybe it is just as simple as a privacy issue, of infringing on her personal staff like her hp no.
  
  The more u call her now, the more piss she will be.
  
  Write her a letter or card to say sorry.
  
  

  as a friend nia...Not the girl i love...It's just stupid why she feel like that...I can't accept it loh.
• sgboy2004

  1 Jan 03, 12:05

  Originally posted by startrightnow:

  as a friend nia...Not the girl i love...It's just stupid why she feel like that...I can't accept it loh.

  it just goes to show that the friendship wif her matters a lot to you...and that "betrayal" by you to her might hav undermined the friendship in her perception too.
  
  We c things differently, we behave differently in front of differnt pple (u might hate it, but it is a fact).
  
  guess, it matters quite a bit to you about her, and hence explains your upset behaviour... probably she is equally upset too.
  
  just dont do it again, write her a card, and if she persists, then so be it lor
  
  
• startrightnow

  1 Jan 03, 12:13

  why she have to use mean word like saying 'im a failure in my life'
• e|mo

  1 Jan 03, 13:18

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  lol
  
  
  e|mo is a guy
  
  hahaha
  The one at seasame street is...u ?
  

  dat is me.. but i'm unisex when i'm over at sesame streets
• Wild_Cow

  1 Jan 03, 14:08

  Originally posted by startrightnow:

  Because of me giving out her number to her secondary schoolmate !
  
  I dun understand why she so angry as to end our friendship becoz of the above reason !
  I dun understand why she dun wan that guy to know her number where that guy din offend her in anyway !
  She alway seem to avoid that guy whenever topic of him bring up !
  But seem eager to meet that guy but give the reason her friends not going out with her so she dun wan !
  I dun understand why she can give those ppl online whom she dunno her number !!But cannot give her number to someone she know in the past !
  She tell me she was in good term with him but after certain time lose contact with her !Seem sad over this matter when she talk !
  After i give this guy her number hoping that this will surprise her coz i wanted old fren to meet up again !
  But ended up she call me up ask me why u give him her number without asking her first !I know i was wrong without asking her thus lead to no respect for her privacy !But i know that was a excuse only !I dun understand why she mind him having her number !
  Becoz of this small matter..She get so pissed up and tell me dun find her anymore..We cannot be friends !!!
  I was finding it ridiculous now why why why !!!
  it's sad to lose a friend especially on new year eve where it suppose to be happy for everybody !Haiz !
  What is on u gals mind !!!
  I already apologise to her but she so pissed up !
  I call her !
  I sms her !
  same answer from her !
  Why

  hey man theres only one way you can fix this up and that means going into DAMAGE CONTROL
  
  muahahahahah i dun think she care about the phone number but its maybe the fact that she likes the guy or soemthing.... and maybe everyone knows it except you....and what u did may have destroyed their relationship (or so she thinks) OR have embarassed the shit out of her and she now too scared to approach him....because who doesnt like to get a phonecall or sms from friends?????
  
  you said she avoids talking about him....maybe you could have assumed she liked the guy......
  
  put yourself in her shoe and maybe u know what i mean cause my english is so fucken shit, i angry proof reading what i wrote...
  
  ok so you stuffed up.... now what????
  well first of all is to let her cool down......i say about 3 months should do it.... cause girls...you know they like to throw HISSY FITS.....ahahahaha dam i am cruel sometimes
  
  next you should get off your ass and get my a drink or something cause im thirsty...
  
  ......
  
  now go and talk to her friends to get more info about the incident OR more info about the guy...maybe u might learn more.....
  
  once u get the info and found out what u can.....if u end up in square 1 pack up your shit and go seek help from a professional....
  
  After finding out the truth where to next?? go and explain everything to her thats what...
  
• dotsg

  1 Jan 03, 14:10

  Originally posted by e|mo:

  dat is me.. but i'm unisex when i'm over at sesame streets

  
• highflyer

  1 Jan 03, 15:30

  Originally posted by e|mo:

  hey! sggirls.. got alot of girls hor

  sgGirls got alot of girls ?
  I know la.. in the photo page..
• kim_hwoarang

  1 Jan 03, 16:52

  SRN u noes wat the reason 4 both of ur friendship 2 break up ? coz ans is u didn't respect her ! girls usually have much more privacy than we guys loh. & by jus giving her hp or contact 2 anyone she don't like may resulted in this lah. remem. k ! an advise !
• Ah^ken

  1 Jan 03, 17:36

  Originally posted by startrightnow:

  Because of me giving out her number to her secondary schoolmate !
  
  I dun understand why she so angry as to end our friendship becoz of the above reason !
  I dun understand why she dun wan that guy to know her number where that guy din offend her in anyway !
  She alway seem to avoid that guy whenever topic of him bring up !
  But seem eager to meet that guy but give the reason her friends not going out with her so she dun wan !
  I dun understand why she can give those ppl online whom she dunno her number !!But cannot give her number to someone she know in the past !
  She tell me she was in good term with him but after certain time lose contact with her !Seem sad over this matter when she talk !
  After i give this guy her number hoping that this will surprise her coz i wanted old fren to meet up again !
  But ended up she call me up ask me why u give him her number without asking her first !I know i was wrong without asking her thus lead to no respect for her privacy !But i know that was a excuse only !I dun understand why she mind him having her number !
  Becoz of this small matter..She get so pissed up and tell me dun find her anymore..We cannot be friends !!!
  I was finding it ridiculous now why why why !!!
  it's sad to lose a friend especially on new year eve where it suppose to be happy for everybody !Haiz !
  What is on u gals mind !!!
  I already apologise to her but she so pissed up !
  I call her !
  I sms her !
  same answer from her !
  Why

  haiz this type of gal chap xiao her lah.. so petty...
• e|mo

  1 Jan 03, 18:04

  Originally posted by highflyer:

  sgGirls got alot of girls ?
  I know la.. in the photo page..

  hahaha
• Si|verGer

  1 Jan 03, 18:24

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  1) Give her time to cool down
  2) Not good to give other's hp to others without permisson
  3) Give her more time to cool down
  
  Take care
  

  ya i agree to wad u said. . . sumtime although she might 1 2 contact dat guy hwever mayb sumtin happen make them in a difficult position dat y they dun keep in contact so it better to ask den act on ur own 1st
• Si|verGer

  1 Jan 03, 18:26

  Originally posted by startrightnow:

  sggirls no girls one lah

  who say?? .............
• Si|verGer

  1 Jan 03, 18:29

  Originally posted by startrightnow:

  why she have to use mean word like saying 'im a failure in my life'

  did she say dat>?? dat nt v nice of her saying dat to u. . . mayb she do it juz bcoz she angry 4give her i guess mayb she dun meant it let her cool down 1st lor
• snowf|akes*

  1 Jan 03, 18:31

  nu ren xin, hai di zhen
  translation: to understand wat a ger is thinking, its juz like finding a needle in the sea
• startrightnow

  1 Jan 03, 20:40

  Originally posted by kim_hwoarang:

  SRN u noes wat the reason 4 both of ur friendship 2 break up ? coz ans is u didn't respect her ! girls usually have much more privacy than we guys loh. & by jus giving her hp or contact 2 anyone she don't like may resulted in this lah. remem. k ! an advise !

  wo zhi dao lah...suan le ba
• startrightnow

  1 Jan 03, 20:41

  Originally posted by snowf|akes*:

  nu ren xin, hai di zhen
  translation: to understand wat a ger is thinking, its juz like finding a needle in the sea

  u let me understand u first loh
• whiteillum

  1 Jan 03, 21:08

  never attempt to understand women....
  in times of doubt
  jus smile and nod
• startrightnow

  1 Jan 03, 21:15

  Haiz...Hope she read this thread and ring me up...Coz she also from forums one !!!
• whiteillum

  1 Jan 03, 21:18

  Originally posted by startrightnow:

  Haiz...Hope she read this thread and ring me up...Coz she also from forums one !!!

  all the best then
  but know this
  goodness will always prevail
• EmbaSSy

  1 Jan 03, 22:03

  Originally posted by startrightnow:

  why she have to use mean word like saying 'im a failure in my life'

  Heya, in life there are lots of regrets..
  
  The main thing is u tried ur best to salvage ur friendship, u diminished one regret, cos u TRIED... If it didn't worked out, then it's her regret cos she losing a friend...
  
  Every1 is bound to make mistakes, but True Friends shd understand one another.. tats how relationships work...
  
  Not solely alone but 2 parties. Cheer up dude...
• aHGer^83

  1 Jan 03, 22:08

  men just dun get it~!
• nick34

  1 Jan 03, 23:54

  that why i dun give out numbers even though they know each other for a long time liao ...
  
  L3nn know what i mean ...
  
  all numbers will end going round when it reach me ...