What should I do with this 'friend' of mine?

• sgboy

  2 Jan 03, 20:29

  I got a friend whom I known for very long (about 6-7 years). Everytime when go out with him sure got to wait for him one. Sometimes meet him at 11am, he 11am still in bed.
  
  Then if I am late for about 5-15minutes, he will call at my handphone and say he going home. I don't want to urge with him otherwise later I lose out. He will ignore me and I got to try all ways to be nice to him. Then this way then he happy.
  
  Got one time, I SMS him and ask him out. He SMS me back and tell me to call him. When I called him, I ask him what he wants and he said that I am the one looking for him. He is damn rude.
  
  I don't know what I can do.
  
  I now got a girlfriend and he knows about it. Everytime when I try to do something he don't like, he will threaten me and say that he will tell my girlfriend this and that.
  
  When I drive to pick him up, everytime got to wait for him at his house car park for at least 15minutes. Very angry u know.
  
  Each time I called him to ask whether he is ready, he will say soon. But sure delay for very long time one. Tell him I waited for him so long, he say that then next time don't ask him out lor, or say I go back la.
  
  Saying he got a new girlfriend, I really don't believe. With his this type of attitude and characters, will a girl like him? Please advise me girls.
  
  Should I really stop being a friend to him? Should I tell him that I no longer want to be his friend?
  
  We have been good friend for so many years, should I still stop the friendship? Is it worth it?
  
  Everytime go out to play, eat and watch movie, I pay. I got to say if he go out with me, he don't even need to bring his wallet out. Even my girlfriend need to pay somethings for our movie or meal. Any advise?
  
  WHAT SHOULD I DO???????
  
• edLow

  2 Jan 03, 20:33

  Originally posted by sgboy:

  I got a friend whom I known for very long (about 6-7 years). Everytime when go out with him sure got to wait for him one. Sometimes meet him at 11am, he 11am still in bed.
  
  Then if I am late for about 5-15minutes, he will call at my handphone and say he going home. I don't want to urge with him otherwise later I lose out. He will ignore me and I got to try all ways to be nice to him. Then this way then he happy.
  
  Got one time, I SMS him and ask him out. He SMS me back and tell me to call him. When I called him, I ask him what he wants and he said that I am the one looking for him. He is damn rude.
  
  I don't know what I can do.
  
  I now got a girlfriend and he knows about it. Everytime when I try to do something he don't like, he will threaten me and say that he will tell my girlfriend this and that.
  
  When I drive to pick him up, everytime got to wait for him at his house car park for at least 15minutes. Very angry u know.
  
  Each time I called him to ask whether he is ready, he will say soon. But sure delay for very long time one. Tell him I waited for him so long, he say that then next time don't ask him out lor, or say I go back la.
  
  Saying he got a new girlfriend, I really don't believe. With his this type of attitude and characters, will a girl like him? Please advise me girls.
  
  Should I really stop being a friend to him? Should I tell him that I no longer want to be his friend?
  
  We have been good friend for so many years, should I still stop the friendship? Is it worth it?
  
  Everytime go out to play, eat and watch movie, I pay. I got to say if he go out with me, he don't even need to bring his wallet out. Even my girlfriend need to pay somethings for our movie or meal. Any advise?
  
  WHAT SHOULD I DO???????
  

  Ask him to fook off or show him the middle finger. Frd.... for this type of ppls..... dont waste ur time on him... He is taking u for granted. I suppose without him ard... u can find better frds elsewhere. But if he urs childhood frds for yrs.... HE IS TOO MUCH liao! Anyway... are u sure he a guy or a ger?
• xavier1979

  2 Jan 03, 20:35

  Next time don't go out with him.
• startrightnow

  2 Jan 03, 20:37

  
• L3nn

  2 Jan 03, 21:08

  Originally posted by sgboy:

  I got a friend whom I known for very long (about 6-7 years). Everytime when go out with him sure got to wait for him one. Sometimes meet him at 11am, he 11am still in bed.
  
  Then if I am late for about 5-15minutes, he will call at my handphone and say he going home. I don't want to urge with him otherwise later I lose out. He will ignore me and I got to try all ways to be nice to him. Then this way then he happy.
  
  Got one time, I SMS him and ask him out. He SMS me back and tell me to call him. When I called him, I ask him what he wants and he said that I am the one looking for him. He is damn rude.
  
  I don't know what I can do.
  
  I now got a girlfriend and he knows about it. Everytime when I try to do something he don't like, he will threaten me and say that he will tell my girlfriend this and that.
  
  When I drive to pick him up, everytime got to wait for him at his house car park for at least 15minutes. Very angry u know.
  
  Each time I called him to ask whether he is ready, he will say soon. But sure delay for very long time one. Tell him I waited for him so long, he say that then next time don't ask him out lor, or say I go back la.
  
  Saying he got a new girlfriend, I really don't believe. With his this type of attitude and characters, will a girl like him? Please advise me girls.
  
  Should I really stop being a friend to him? Should I tell him that I no longer want to be his friend?
  
  We have been good friend for so many years, should I still stop the friendship? Is it worth it?
  
  Everytime go out to play, eat and watch movie, I pay. I got to say if he go out with me, he don't even need to bring his wallet out. Even my girlfriend need to pay somethings for our movie or meal. Any advise?
  
  WHAT SHOULD I DO???????
  

  i got a friend like that also...take advantage of me got 1 day he give me big shot attidude i FUCK him real hard now no more contact liao...
• Mazohyst

  2 Jan 03, 21:54

  kill him.
• TaDA

  2 Jan 03, 22:29

  Originally posted by edLow:

  Ask him to fook off or show him the middle finger. Frd.... for this type of ppls..... dont waste ur time on him... He is taking u for granted. I suppose without him ard... u can find better frds elsewhere. But if he urs childhood frds for yrs.... HE IS TOO MUCH liao! Anyway... are u sure he a guy or a ger?

  Cool response man, thats what i will do too.
• Si|verGer

  2 Jan 03, 22:29

  Originally posted by sgboy:

  I got a friend whom I known for very long (about 6-7 years). Everytime when go out with him sure got to wait for him one. Sometimes meet him at 11am, he 11am still in bed.
  
  Then if I am late for about 5-15minutes, he will call at my handphone and say he going home. I don't want to urge with him otherwise later I lose out. He will ignore me and I got to try all ways to be nice to him. Then this way then he happy.
  
  Got one time, I SMS him and ask him out. He SMS me back and tell me to call him. When I called him, I ask him what he wants and he said that I am the one looking for him. He is damn rude.
  
  I don't know what I can do.
  
  I now got a girlfriend and he knows about it. Everytime when I try to do something he don't like, he will threaten me and say that he will tell my girlfriend this and that.
  
  When I drive to pick him up, everytime got to wait for him at his house car park for at least 15minutes. Very angry u know.
  
  Each time I called him to ask whether he is ready, he will say soon. But sure delay for very long time one. Tell him I waited for him so long, he say that then next time don't ask him out lor, or say I go back la.
  
  Saying he got a new girlfriend, I really don't believe. With his this type of attitude and characters, will a girl like him? Please advise me girls.
  
  Should I really stop being a friend to him? Should I tell him that I no longer want to be his friend?
  
  We have been good friend for so many years, should I still stop the friendship? Is it worth it?
  
  Everytime go out to play, eat and watch movie, I pay. I got to say if he go out with me, he don't even need to bring his wallet out. Even my girlfriend need to pay somethings for our movie or meal. Any advise?
  
  WHAT SHOULD I DO???????
  

  so long liao u still haven solve tis prob wif him??
  eh best is try to find another frenx lor he treat u so bad u still so gd wif him. . .
  i guess dat other ppl more worthy to b frenx than him. . .
  aiyah if u reli scare no frenxs can join our outing 1
• jUnee-(^^)/

  2 Jan 03, 22:32

  if i were u..i wont let him treat me tis way. really too muCh. a true frd wun treat u like tis loh. ask him face the wall n tink hard if he really worth ur frdship. if yes..ask him go die lor~~ tis kind of ungrateful thing..dun die oso no use arh. hate those pple who r alwiz late n yet complain pple make them wait when they r late for awhile only. siao ah!!~~ ur tis frd really cannot make it~~
  take care..
• DaWuGui

  2 Jan 03, 23:44

  Originally posted by sgboy:

  I got a friend whom I known for very long (about 6-7 years). Everytime when go out with him sure got to wait for him one. Sometimes meet him at 11am, he 11am still in bed.
  
  Then if I am late for about 5-15minutes, he will call at my handphone and say he going home. I don't want to urge with him otherwise later I lose out. He will ignore me and I got to try all ways to be nice to him. Then this way then he happy.
  
  Got one time, I SMS him and ask him out. He SMS me back and tell me to call him. When I called him, I ask him what he wants and he said that I am the one looking for him. He is damn rude.
  
  I don't know what I can do.
  
  I now got a girlfriend and he knows about it. Everytime when I try to do something he don't like, he will threaten me and say that he will tell my girlfriend this and that.
  
  When I drive to pick him up, everytime got to wait for him at his house car park for at least 15minutes. Very angry u know.
  
  Each time I called him to ask whether he is ready, he will say soon. But sure delay for very long time one. Tell him I waited for him so long, he say that then next time don't ask him out lor, or say I go back la.
  
  Saying he got a new girlfriend, I really don't believe. With his this type of attitude and characters, will a girl like him? Please advise me girls.
  
  Should I really stop being a friend to him? Should I tell him that I no longer want to be his friend?
  
  We have been good friend for so many years, should I still stop the friendship? Is it worth it?
  
  Everytime go out to play, eat and watch movie, I pay. I got to say if he go out with me, he don't even need to bring his wallet out. Even my girlfriend need to pay somethings for our movie or meal. Any advise?
  
  WHAT SHOULD I DO???????
  

  u r perverted/buaya king, but u not gay,
  u dun need him, he's the one who need you.
  Tell ur gf, tell loh. Just say he's bluffing, wif this attitude, easy to believe.
  
• edLow

  3 Jan 03, 00:29

  hav he gone thru ns?
• p3r

  3 Jan 03, 03:53

  
  Wad kind of a "FRIEND" is this?!
  
• toothie

  3 Jan 03, 04:06

  hahaaaa... the story about the same as me.. Lolx..
• Wild_Cow

  3 Jan 03, 07:48

  just dont speak to him anymore....dun give him any reason why......you are probably his only friend now..... sooner or later he will realise what a great friendship he had lost.....
  
  
• misswho

  3 Jan 03, 08:15

  If u find it hard to end this friendship then try telling him wat are his problems...and let him know that u are not able to "tahan" his kind of way of living, but do it tactfully. Give him one last chance to repent, if he is those one kind ah......"suan liao" juz spend less time on him lor....then u can save some $$ too!!
  No big deal if u were to lose such a friend...maybe u are not even a friend to him?
  
  But still give him a chance to say his "last words"....b4 u decide whether to call it off or not.....
  good luck
• sugardaddy

  3 Jan 03, 09:42

  too bad...next time find yourself a better friend