True Love Story...
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There was a girl, who never had a bf before. When one day, a guy she knew well proposed to her to be his gf, she smiled and gladly accepted him.
But day by day, she began to feel a little stressed and worried. The guy had been good to her, but strangely she can't make herself commit to loving the guy. She felt bad in her heart. Alas, when she could hold no more, she brought the guy out, and asked for a break-up.
The guy was shocked. He tried his very best to salvage the relationship. He tried to console the girl that things can be worked out. But the girl replied with red watery eyes, that she felt it was unfair for him, and it made her felt guilty and heavy.
Finally, when the last shimmer of hope was gone, both of them parted hands, with a promise, to remain as friends.
Yet day by day, the guy thought of the girl, wondering secretly, if there'd ever be a miracle. But he knew that, it'd be up to the girl.
Qn : If you were the guy, what would you do? -
everyting is fated
bt fate lies in ur hands
go chase her lor -
Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu: everyting is fated
bt fate lies in ur hands
go chase her lor
Me go chase HER? -
u r the guy ahOriginally posted by xavier1979: Me go chase HER?
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kor....
already said what i've to said last night...
its all up to that guy what he wanna do..
is it worth waiting for that gal? and she might not even be the right one for you...
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sometime..................even REN DING SHENG TIAN is also a kind of fate.....
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Originally posted by zacken99:sometime..................even REN DING SHENG TIAN is also a kind of fate.....
you wanna help him analysis?
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In that case, maybe e guy should just let it go lor. E gal might like e guy but just doesn't wanna be in a relationship and cannot be committed. Give e gal some space to breathe. If they are fated to be together, they will be together. No point forcing e gal, will just make her feel worse
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dat guy have difficulties letting go leh
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if shes urs, she will come back to u one day
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Since the gal is guilty and felt its unfair to e guy. She is already feeling very bad. So i suggest e guy just back off lor. If he persist on this, it will only make e gal worse. Love someone is let them feel sad again. So if e guy love her, don't make her sad.
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y nt? n also wif ur reconmend...ofcos my dear...Originally posted by e|mo:
you wanna help him analysis? -
like dat also got my probOriginally posted by zacken99:y nt? n also wif ur reconmend...ofcos my dear...
call me sun nu er -
Originally posted by e|mo:like dat also got my prob
call me sun nu er 
zack is my sun nu xu -
/zacken shake hi head.....die die also dun call elmo sun nu er..Originally posted by e|mo:like dat also got my prob
call me sun nu er
he will oni call her DARLING.................. -
no hor...Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:
zack is my sun nu xu
zack is my ah gong
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once again...zacken hv becum an human ball being kick around again................
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ok dn crap liao ppl's topic twisted till lidat
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ah ma and ah gong.. gang together n bullied me againOriginally posted by zacken99:/zacken shake hi head.....die die also dun call elmo sun nu er..
he will oni call her DARLING.................. 
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haha ya loh my kor kor's thread somemoreOriginally posted by Xiao Long Nu:ok dn crap liao ppl's topic twisted till lidat -
sorry sorry sorry...Xiaver bro...
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She never had a bf before - it is virtually impossible for her to know what she actually wants unless she has gone through relationship phrases. You know it deep within you that 99.99% nobody could last their first relation to the end of time - you must realise that your arrival in her life is not just because YOU wanted to be together - rather you came into her life - taught her the meaning of love and what its actually is - that's the most important thing.Originally posted by xavier1979:There was a girl, who never had a bf before. When one day, a guy she knew well proposed to her to be his gf, she smiled and gladly accepted him.
But day by day, she began to feel a little stressed and worried. The guy had been good to her, but strangely she can't make herself commit to loving the guy. She felt bad in her heart. Alas, when she could hold no more, she brought the guy out, and asked for a break-up.
The guy was shocked. He tried his very best to salvage the relationship. He tried to console the girl that things can be worked out. But the girl replied with red watery eyes, that she felt it was unfair for him, and it made her felt guilty and heavy.
Finally, when the last shimmer of hope was gone, both of them parted hands, with a promise, to remain as friends.
Yet day by day, the guy thought of the girl, wondering secretly, if there'd ever be a miracle. But he knew that, it'd be up to the girl.
Qn : If you were the guy, what would you do?
She learned, she grew - you must and should be happy for her because she grow along with you until when its time to move on. You shouldn't hold yourself back either.
She ask for a break - because in the first place love doesn't really took place - it was nutured, or at the very least she did tried on her part, found that she couldn't because it din't last. To be fair for you, she spoke with frank honesty and the both of you renewed the promise of friendships again.
Think about this - if you think love exist in her right in the beginning - at least in unseen feeling's quantity, she could be the one expressing herself instead of you being her good friends first - I assume that you both knew each other for a period of time already.
She wanted to try for a relation.
Love can be nutured, but it cannot be delivered forcefully. She couldn't feel the same way you are feeling. Even as a good friends, empathy tells her she is being unfair to you because she don't feel the same deep way as you do.
You have to move on, because she did moved on. What this relation taught her is alot - the lessons and experience, therefore is must be the same to you.
P.S: Not being able to be together only meant one thing - both of you can't spend the rest of your life together *BECAUSE* this special someone belongs to a future person, and he/she will be very much better than him/her position and status to do that.
Prays -
respect her decision.
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there will always be someone out there waiting for you and vice versa......just have to be patient.......i also agree cant possibly last forever in a relationship.......whenever it ends, do learn something from it so tat u wouldnt repeat the same old mistake again........each relationship will be better and better till u are ready for marriage........those tat are not in relationship wont appreciate the fact that being in a relationship takes time and comittment and love in order for it to nurture.......whenever any factors arent there, its time for both parties to move on..........good luck!!!!Originally posted by Yunhaier:She never had a bf before - it is virtually impossible for her to know what she actually wants unless she has gone through relationship phrases. You know it deep within you that 99.99% nobody could last their first relation to the end of time - you must realise that your arrival in her life is not just because YOU wanted to be together - rather you came into her life - taught her the meaning of love and what its actually is - that's the most important thing.
She learned, she grew - you must and should be happy for her because she grow along with you until when its time to move on. You shouldn't hold yourself back either.
She ask for a break - because in the first place love doesn't really took place - it was nutured, or at the very least she did tried on her part, found that she couldn't because it din't last. To be fair for you, she spoke with frank honesty and the both of you renewed the promise of friendships again.
Think about this - if you think love exist in her right in the beginning - at least in unseen feeling's quantity, she could be the one expressing herself instead of you being her good friends first - I assume that you both knew each other for a period of time already.
She wanted to try for a relation.
Love can be nutured, but it cannot be delivered forcefully. She couldn't feel the same way you are feeling. Even as a good friends, empathy tells her she is being unfair to you because she don't feel the same deep way as you do.
You have to move on, because she did moved on. What this relation taught her is alot - the lessons and experience, therefore is must be the same to you.
P.S: Not being able to be together only meant one thing - both of you can't spend the rest of your life together *BECAUSE* this special someone belongs to a future person, and he/she will be very much better than him/her position and status to do that.
Prays -
i think sumtime when a person treat u too gd u feel v pressure even though u like the person.Originally posted by xavier1979:There was a girl, who never had a bf before. When one day, a guy she knew well proposed to her to be his gf, she smiled and gladly accepted him.
But day by day, she began to feel a little stressed and worried. The guy had been good to her, but strangely she can't make herself commit to loving the guy. She felt bad in her heart. Alas, when she could hold no more, she brought the guy out, and asked for a break-up.
The guy was shocked. He tried his very best to salvage the relationship. He tried to console the girl that things can be worked out. But the girl replied with red watery eyes, that she felt it was unfair for him, and it made her felt guilty and heavy.
Finally, when the last shimmer of hope was gone, both of them parted hands, with a promise, to remain as friends.
Yet day by day, the guy thought of the girl, wondering secretly, if there'd ever be a miracle. But he knew that, it'd be up to the girl.
Qn : If you were the guy, what would you do?
coz it make u guilty to c him treat u sooo gd coz frm the way he treat u, u can knw u meant alots to tis guy & it oso shown tis guys reli reli luv u alots but then sumhw wad the guy did might make tis ger hv fear & withdraw herself coz she knw at tis moment she cannot return the same amount of luv dat the guy hv 4 her.
dat when she began to feel so confues & guilty. . .but if tis guy is those v gd character den treat relationship v serious n has v few gf den she feel even more pressure coz she dun1 2 hurt tis guy.