to let go or not to let go?
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Don't worry....we all understand!!!
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2 earli 2 say regret yet.. lok far ahead n u wil knw wheter its worth makin de decisions
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now i can see y u post in the other thread dat u are so upset abt...and as i mentioned onthe other thread...its the same thing...cheer up man!!Originally posted by aHGer^83:i dunno...tokin to my fren now...but im pretty sad...controlling myself...
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but he means alot to me dun mean i mean alot to him rite? so even if i wanna go back to him...its gonna be a one sided love and its gonna be painful to either of us rite? but i just cant...Originally posted by TuTu_Car:tHis Show hE meaNt a loT to u....
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I agree.. Its not easy to forget your ex-bf.. But if your ex-bf doesnt love you at all, I tink you shouldnt patch back with him.. No doubt, you still Like or Love him, but if you decide to carry on like this(patch back), this will lead you to more pains and hurts.. Maybe its time for you to let go this relationship and carry on with your life..Originally posted by xavier1979:Think : Why did you break up with him in the first place?
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He meant a lot to U...doesnt that answer everyThing?
lIke i saY..tHinK siMplY..sOmetIMes tHingS arenT so ComplIcated....
dUn thInk too Much abouT thE woRth...tHink abOuT thE proCess....
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hMm...iF u DecIde to leT gO...thEn takE a deeP breatH and Let of pa.... dun Think too much le.... think simply...
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since u already have a bf now, you should treasure him now right.
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yoz.... kinda got ur story liao also..... since i can see that the final decision will lies in ur hand.....Originally posted by aHGer^83:as the topic goes...u saw ur ex..but u actually still love him/her...will u let him/her go? or patch back wif him/her?
i can only tell u..... a r/ship had gone thru a break up had to put in more effort in order to keep both partied faith alive and positive...
but dont ever feel despair if u wanna try, cos nutting is impossible.. i do hv frens who got a bad break up.... but in the end both are willingly to put in alot of efforts and they are already married with one kid now..... so dont worry.... u see wat is the best for u, and if u wanna try dont be afraid.... u hv us a frens behind u... -
but then do u still hv feeling 4 him anot?Originally posted by aHGer^83:my heart says, break wif the current guy and patch wif him...cos last nite i saw my ex like...abit tok to other gers...i not happy lydat...
or u juz unhappy when u saw him tok to gers? if he nv tok to gers will u b unhappy too? sumtime when u c ur xbf u will hv those kind of clinging feelings 1 but then it might juz b temp nia -
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Ah gerl, whether you believe or not, couples that broke up b4, will break up again as they cannot be tested if again!!! Would you dare to try?Originally posted by aHGer^83:as the topic goes...u saw ur ex..but u actually still love him/her...will u let him/her go? or patch back wif him/her? -
it is easy to be say than doneOriginally posted by aHGer^83:as the topic goes...u saw ur ex..but u actually still love him/her...will u let him/her go? or patch back wif him/her?
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erm...thanx all... i noe wad's the rite thing to do after one day of deep thinking...THANX~
and for those who told me to treasure my current one...abit hard...cos he's totally...haiz...too disappoitin ler... -
We DO?Originally posted by M©+square:Don't worry....we all understand!!! -
Can't just entertain me Boh??Originally posted by Devil1976:We DO? 
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most importantly u muz ask urself r u happy wif wad u hv now if u r not den mayb u can juz start afresh again
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OkieOriginally posted by M©+square:Can't just entertain me Boh?? Hiak Hiak! 
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starting afresh wif dat gambler? -.-Originally posted by Si|verGer:most importantly u muz ask urself r u happy wif wad u hv now if u r not den mayb u can juz start afresh again -
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dun get confused by this kind of jealousy that you have in your heart. do you know why you not happy when you see him talking to other gals... that's becoz he used to be yours and now he sort of belongs to everyone and that is why you will have the feeling of uneasy and unhappiness. try leaving him in a corner of your heart and think of him only when you feel that's a need. that is only the time when you reali need a fren, then you bring him out from that corner and give him some air. if not, keep him there in the corner till he suffocate and die in your memory. in this way, you know yourself that you already forgot abt him and start your life without his existence at all. but let me tell you, this will not take a day or a night to succeed. this will take umple of your time to get this come true so be patient k... good luck...Originally posted by aHGer^83:my heart says, break wif the current guy and patch wif him...cos last nite i saw my ex like...abit tok to other gers...i not happy lydat... 
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i totally agree with your saying but it's reali easier to be said than done. some ppl thought that they can actuali forget their ex by getting themself another new love but in the end, all 3 ppl will get hurt. you, the one who you love, and the one who love you. so which one will you choose in the end... im sure yourex instead of your current one. this is human's nature. no one can go against it. im sure everyone has tried to let go their present relationship for the sake of old love. they know it's wrong but in the end they stil do it. they know in the end they will get nothing but hurt and tears but stil they go for it. why? are there reali no alternatives but to go back to old love???Originally posted by Hamster3:I agree.. Its not easy to forget your ex-bf.. But if your ex-bf doesnt love you at all, I tink you shouldnt patch back with him.. No doubt, you still Like or Love him, but if you decide to carry on like this(patch back), this will lead you to more pains and hurts.. Maybe its time for you to let go this relationship and carry on with your life.. -
good tok.. i agree!!Originally posted by kabelgir|:dun get confused by this kind of jealousy that you have in your heart. do you know why you not happy when you see him talking to other gals... that's becoz he used to be yours and now he sort of belongs to everyone and that is why you will have the feeling of uneasy and unhappiness. try leaving him in a corner of your heart and think of him only when you feel that's a need. that is only the time when you reali need a fren, then you bring him out from that corner and give him some air. if not, keep him there in the corner till he suffocate and die in your memory. in this way, you know yourself that you already forgot abt him and start your life without his existence at all. but let me tell you, this will not take a day or a night to succeed. this will take umple of your time to get this come true so be patient k... good luck...