Originally posted by SingaporeTyrannosaur:In my 18.5 years I have yet to be attatched, and have passed up chances to be, the reason being I want my first relationship to be my last relationship.
splendid well said a big round of applause 4 uOriginally posted by whiteillum:i jus got hitched
and seriously
i feel the same as u when i was single
but then good things (and partners) must wait awhile one
play hard to get
it works
not your all your fault, if the woman is unfaithful no matter hw she will go wan loh but 1 thing i am really sure of is certain amoubt of time r really needed to spend with with them care 4 them no mattar hw buz uOriginally posted by trouper:my wife left me to be another guyi was also in the damd damd wrong always working and not been with her as i want to faster earn more $ so she will be easy and not work and get scold by the bad bosses , wrong as i were i do not really to lan her that much till as i really miss her and very vry worry that guy is a playboy then she will surly cry like hell in a corner
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I'm really sorry to hear that.Originally posted by trouper:my wife left me to be another guyi was also in the damd damd wrong always working and not been with her as i want to faster earn more $ so she will be easy and not work and get scold by the bad bosses , wrong as i were i do not really to lan her that much till as i really miss her and very vry worry that guy is a playboy then she will surly cry like hell in a corner
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i did nit be a stalker this tiem and i really mean it , i really still love her very much , i know some guys will think , yucks this man really is a shit but from my heart i really still love her as i did not ask her to marry me because i wanted her to live with me , i marry her because i can't live eithout her.Originally posted by windwizard:not your all your fault, if the woman is unfaithful no matter hw she will go wan loh but 1 thing i am really sure of is certain amoubt of time r really needed to spend with with them care 4 them no mattar hw buz u
if this is so y dun u woo her bk but dun be a stalker if she refuses u then give her ur blessing
This is very sad.... btw how old your wife?Originally posted by trouper:i did nit be a stalker this tiem and i really mean it , i really still love her very much , i know some guys will think , yucks this man really is a shit but from my heart i really still love her as i did not ask her to marry me because i wanted her to live with me , i marry her because i can't live eithout her.
days and nights i am drinking and drinking even when i work i am also drinking , i should have woke up and carry on with my life , but to-date it damd hurts a lot![]()
i am 26 and she is 25Originally posted by Capricorn:This is very sad.... btw how old your wife?
Well just treat it like a normal broke off though, all that you are in now is what I was in 3 years back broke-off wif my ex, except that I dun drink. I totally understand your feeling now, and also understand that no matters what we say here, you would not gonna absorb it! But think again, is this worth it? For that someone who is enjoying her life at the expand of your agony!!! Please take this advice and I gonna only say it once---- You had already suffer so badly for 3 days, are you going screwed up your life this way? You are still young my friend. Remember what our friend said? " True love is also about willing to let go relationship if it doesn't work out."Originally posted by trouper:i am 26 and she is 25damd i don't use to drink so much ,last time even if i were to go out with my friends for drinking session , i would only takes 1cup or not ,just drink coke.Nowadays i drink at least more then 6 cans of carlsberg a day and today alond i drink 6 cans and 1/4 of the whisky ,thought that i could get drunk and go to sleep but i think it does not seems to work
me for the past 3 days slept less then 10 hour for the total 72 hours , went jogging , weight training ,but still can't sleep![]()
i use to give friends a lot of advise when they are in relationshop problem , it was a relief to me to find this site and got help by people here. ThanksOriginally posted by Capricorn:Well just treat it like a normal broke off though, all that you are in now is what I was in 3 years back broke-off wif my ex, except that I dun drink. I totally understand your feeling now, and also understand that no matters what we say here, you would not gonna absorb it! But think again, is this worth it? For that someone who is enjoying her life at the expand of your agony!!! Please take this advice and I gonna only say it once---- You had already suffer so badly for 3 days, are you going screwed up your life this way? You are still young my friend. Remember what our friend said? " True love is also about willing to let go relationship if it doesn't work out."
i think it is really sad that such things had happened to you as you pursue your goal by working so hard everyday.. you always wanted your wife to have a good life but you did not balance out between your work life and love life and causes her to leave you.. sometimes i think that it's really hard to maintain an everlasting friendship or relationship in my life..Originally posted by trouper:my wife left me to be another guyi was also in the damd damd wrong always working and not been with her as i want to faster earn more $ so she will be easy and not work and get scold by the bad bosses , wrong as i were i do not really to lan her that much till as i really miss her and very vry worry that guy is a playboy then she will surly cry like hell in a corner
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it was a goal for me and the aim was for her to be happy , yes u r right , i did not learn to balance work life and love life that was why one side have to give wayOriginally posted by kohanson:i think it is really sad that such things had happened to you as you pursue your goal by working so hard everyday.. you always wanted your wife to have a good life but you did not balance out between your work life and love life and causes her to leave you.. sometimes i think that it's really hard to maintain an everlasting friendship or relationship in my life..