Originally posted by cloud^dreamer81:
Hmm...really sad to hear your story.

I think for a gal...what matters more is the company of the guy when she needs him rather than a new house & stuff. Gals need guys to shower them with love and care rather shower them with things. Of course there r gals who r materialistic who likes guys to shower them with things.

There r quite a few cases whereby the wife cheated on the husband bcos the husband neglected the wife due to work. I guess both parties must b responsible as if the wife loves the husband deep enuff...she will resist the temptation.
Hope that if u ever start a new relationship...u will not make this mistake again. Best wishes.

Thansk for the advise, the worst and dumdest things was my wife have before hand told me that she does not like this type of expensive stuff liao , i did not listen and kept working harder and harder thinking wa lao this guy buy this for his gf , i must buy better and let her have the best life she can enjoy

damd stuip of me

I really love my wife very deep , and i am really very worry of her

guess what is not mine no point forcing it too much

To-date i have yet to think of getting in a new relationship , but if i can recover and there is one , i'll never make this dumd mistake.
Cheers