Ways to cheer up?

• shaunlaw

  23 Jan 03, 09:16

  Hi guys n gers...
  
  got a case here tt needs some advice..
  
  I haf a fren (ger) who juz beoke off wif her bf of 2 years...
  She gave up alot of things for him (more than u can imagine..)
  I was cheering her up these few days so any ideas to help chere her up
• sgboy2004

  23 Jan 03, 09:22

  bring her to sentosa to play...maybe i will join u 2
  
  
• kohanson

  23 Jan 03, 09:23

  Try to crack some jokes, but not too much..
  Try to spend more time with her, as she has just lost her partner of 2 years.
  Try to occupy her mind with other things like asking her to read a book, log on to irc, or do other things which will make herself busy.
• wee (aka danger)

  23 Jan 03, 11:58

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  bring her to sentosa to play...maybe i will join u 2
  
  

  good idea. bring her to sentosa play beach volley wif us this sat. i'll cheer her up
• toothie

  23 Jan 03, 12:58

  give her some time...
• WinBoi84

  23 Jan 03, 12:59

  Bring her to me...
• XXX Virus

  23 Jan 03, 13:41

  Originally posted by shaunlaw:

  Hi guys n gers...
  
  got a case here tt needs some advice..
  
  I haf a fren (ger) who juz beoke off wif her bf of 2 years...
  She gave up alot of things for him (more than u can imagine..)
  I was cheering her up these few days so any ideas to help chere her up

  Sometimes when couples break up, they just can't accept the fact that they are all alone again because they are too used to having each other. Human are just like that, always refuse to change to adapt the environment. Tell her that 2 years relationship is nothing if that guy doesn't know how to appreciate and treasure her, then he wouldn't worth her love, but then I doubt all these can enter her ears now.
  
  When they are attached, they tend to neglect their friends, so when they are alone again, they will worry that whether their friends will still be there for them again. As a friend, you will just have to play your part by supporting her when she needs one.
  
  From my experience, your friend will just need some times by herself to straighten out her thinking, as she is getting better, try occupy her time with activities so that she wouldn't have time to think of the past, and don't bother to introduce any new guys to he cos its won't help her at the present stage. Some take days to recover, some will take weeks and some may even take months or years. Time can heal her wound
• GIJOE

  23 Jan 03, 19:35

  There's no way to cheer a person up unless that person is willing to forget. If she is constantly thinking of e past with her bf.. even though u console her and cheer her up, its all temporary. She must give herself sometime to sort things out and live on. But to temporary ease her pain. Bring her out.. spend some time with her... don't bring her drinking..mabe dinner...just normal outings..go shopping or wat
• sgboy2004

  23 Jan 03, 19:56

  Originally posted by GIJOE:

  There's no way to cheer a person up unless that person is willing to forget. If she is constantly thinking of e past with her bf.. even though u console her and cheer her up, its all temporary. She must give herself sometime to sort things out and live on. But to temporary ease her pain. Bring her out.. spend some time with her... don't bring her drinking..mabe dinner...just normal outings..go shopping or wat

  
  
• trouper

  27 Jan 03, 02:25

  best is to play sport as u are going to be very tired then when ones is tired they sleep and no more think
• edLow

  27 Jan 03, 02:34

  Originally posted by trouper:

  best is to play sport as u are going to be very tired then when ones is tired they sleep and no more think

  But have u though of... after u woke up.. Things will come to ur mind again? It's just like getting drunk...... But at least sport is healthier n cheaper way. But drunk make u go crazy... can cry as much as u wan. Can go as crazy as u wan too.
• trouper

  27 Jan 03, 02:37

  Originally posted by edLow:

  But have u though of... after u woke up.. Things will come to ur mind again? It's just like getting drunk...... But at least sport is healthier n cheaper way. But drunk make u go crazy... can cry as much as u wan. Can go as crazy as u wan too.

  alamak ,me also in damd bad mood because shits happen , now almost daily got drunk and like my skill of drinking have improve but this is dumd la , waste $ , i also try going jogging and weight training , c if it will help me for the new few weeks
• edLow

  27 Jan 03, 03:12

  Originally posted by trouper:

  alamak ,me also in damd bad mood because shits happen , now almost daily got drunk and like my skill of drinking have improve but this is dumd la , waste $ , i also try going jogging and weight training , c if it will help me for the new few weeks

  pal, dont think too much... Hai.. I noe how to comfort u but I also moddy too.. But not becos of bgr.... sian. Somemore new yr is this weekend......
• Hamster3

  27 Jan 03, 08:27

  Keep herself busy at all times.. Or leave her alone.. Maybe, she doesnt want to talk abt it and wants to be alone.. Well, it really takes her quite sometime to forget the relationship..
• trouper

  27 Jan 03, 10:35

  Originally posted by edLow:

  pal, dont think too much... Hai.. I noe how to comfort u but I also moddy too.. But not becos of bgr.... sian. Somemore new yr is this weekend......

  Thanks for the advise , i'm trying very hard to stop thinking and start to regain my heath. CNY is along the way , really very important as they have supported me thought this...
  
  u take care too bro,cheers