Nan ren bu huai...
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hihi welcum n rem to post more often~Originally posted by mooncloud:thanks man, i will definately enjoy staying here, it looks cool, nice website you have,,,,, at least NYP havent ban me from getting into here.... haha, whenever i am having break i will come and see you guys... have fun~
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welcome to sgforumOriginally posted by mooncloud:hi, i am new member , fresh one.... 1min ago.... greetings all
hav fun
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many ppl get the wrong idea of tis phrase liaoOriginally posted by cloud^dreamer81:nu ren bu ai? Why? Why do gals like guys who r bad?
2 meanings
A: when making love
B:guess???? -
bad guy image is just to impress young girls who are out to have fun and adventures..ultimately when they grow up..they still look for someone who cares for her..for their future and stuff like that
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What's B?Originally posted by windwizard:many ppl get the wrong idea of tis phrase liao
2 meanings
A: when making love
B:guess????
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Hi there. Welcome. I m new too.Originally posted by mooncloud:hi, i am new member , fresh one.... 1min ago.... greetings all
By the way...me from NYP too.
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There is also this saying......Nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai..... nu ren bu jian , nan ren bu ai........
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Hi folks, come across this from MSN. For ur lesisure reading yeah.
Nice guys: Born to lose?
by MP Dunleavey
from Lifetimetv.com
Dear MP:
I'm a nice guy, and I've gone out of my way to be nice to the women I've dated —all of whom ended up dumping me for someone else. I'm sick of it! You reported in a recent column that many women are staying with boyfriends who treat them badly. I think that should be a wake-up call for all men: If you want to maintain a relationship with a woman, you should be mean.
—Sad Chad
Dear Reader:
I received several letters like yours after I wrote that column. Men wrote to me complaining that "nice guys get left on the shelf" and that women just want "bad boys." One guy wrote this harrowing description (female readers, take note!):
"I have co-workers who are, frankly speaking, unambitious, pretty-boy slobs. Every week they tell us about these outrageous sexual exploits with a variety of women. The sad thing is that at least half of these stories are true. I've gone to bars with them and watched, with a mixture of awe and horror, as they played their games with women, each one hypnotizing his target with a unique, calculated, well-practiced con."
If that cold-blooded description doesn't send a shudder up your turtleneck sweater, I don't know what would. Sadly, I can't doubt what he says because I know too many men who have either admitted to being players, or given me graphic descriptions of other men who were.
Honestly, I find it so depressing I don't know what to say. Especially since you're right. I know women (heck, I've been one myself) who stick it out with guys who treat them badly. And not just once. Over and over again. It's sickening.
But for every letter I get from a lonely, nice guy like you, I swear to you, I've gotten a hundred times as many from women who are genuinely looking to date a sweetheart.
I wish we had some numbers, because I bet they'd be eye opening. Imagine the headline:
"HARVARD STUDY FIND 25 MILLION NICE GUYS AND 25 MILLION GREAT WOMEN EXIST ON THE SAME PLANET YET CAN'T FIND EACH OTHER! Scientists, deeply puzzled, go back to studying asteroids."
The good-boys-in-peril phenomenon keeps me up at night. OK, not quite, but it does creep into my mind while I'm stuck in traffic. I know many women who are sick of dating jerks. I also know nice guys who feel overlooked and unappreciated. Why does it seem that never the twain shall meet?
To be honest, one big reason is maturity. If you've been meeting a lot of women who throw themselves at schmucks, it's a sad reflection of their high-school mentality. Brash, arrogant guys seem desirable when you're too immature to recognize that they make lousy partners. Women who lack confidence are particularly drawn to narcissistic nincompoops because they subconsciously believe some of that bravado will rub off. They want a boost to their self-esteem. It takes a few years to realize that only nice guys, who are capable of providing true love, care and support, can do that.
So take heart, oh sad and cynical one. Every 30 seconds some woman finally gets it: Nice guys are the juice. You just have to stay on the dating scene so you can eventually meet them. Too often, nice guys get discouraged, so they stay home and watch the game rather than get shot down, rejected or blown off by some babe who can't see their charms. Don't do that! Grab all your nice guy buddies and hit the bars, take dating seminars, start a revolution! Women everywhere will thank you. -
Originally posted by EmbaSSy:Hi folks, come across this from MSN. For ur lesisure reading yeah.
Nice guys: Born to lose?
by MP Dunleavey
from Lifetimetv.com
Dear MP:
I'm a nice guy, and I've gone out of my way to be nice to the women I've dated —all of whom ended up dumping me for someone else. I'm sick of it! You reported in a recent column that many women are staying with boyfriends who treat them badly. I think that should be a wake-up call for all men: If you want to maintain a relationship with a woman, you should be mean.
—Sad Chad
Dear Reader:
I received several letters like yours after I wrote that column. Men wrote to me complaining that "nice guys get left on the shelf" and that women just want "bad boys." One guy wrote this harrowing description (female readers, take note!):
"I have co-workers who are, frankly speaking, unambitious, pretty-boy slobs. Every week they tell us about these outrageous sexual exploits with a variety of women. The sad thing is that at least half of these stories are true. I've gone to bars with them and watched, with a mixture of awe and horror, as they played their games with women, each one hypnotizing his target with a unique, calculated, well-practiced con."
If that cold-blooded description doesn't send a shudder up your turtleneck sweater, I don't know what would. Sadly, I can't doubt what he says because I know too many men who have either admitted to being players, or given me graphic descriptions of other men who were.
Honestly, I find it so depressing I don't know what to say. Especially since you're right. I know women (heck, I've been one myself) who stick it out with guys who treat them badly. And not just once. Over and over again. It's sickening.
But for every letter I get from a lonely, nice guy like you, I swear to you, I've gotten a hundred times as many from women who are genuinely looking to date a sweetheart.
I wish we had some numbers, because I bet they'd be eye opening. Imagine the headline:
"HARVARD STUDY FIND 25 MILLION NICE GUYS AND 25 MILLION GREAT WOMEN EXIST ON THE SAME PLANET YET CAN'T FIND EACH OTHER! Scientists, deeply puzzled, go back to studying asteroids."
The good-boys-in-peril phenomenon keeps me up at night. OK, not quite, but it does creep into my mind while I'm stuck in traffic. I know many women who are sick of dating jerks. I also know nice guys who feel overlooked and unappreciated. Why does it seem that never the twain shall meet?
To be honest, one big reason is maturity. If you've been meeting a lot of women who throw themselves at schmucks, it's a sad reflection of their high-school mentality. Brash, arrogant guys seem desirable when you're too immature to recognize that they make lousy partners. Women who lack confidence are particularly drawn to narcissistic nincompoops because they subconsciously believe some of that bravado will rub off. They want a boost to their self-esteem. It takes a few years to realize that only nice guys, who are capable of providing true love, care and support, can do that.
So take heart, oh sad and cynical one. Every 30 seconds some woman finally gets it: Nice guys are the juice. You just have to stay on the dating scene so you can eventually meet them. Too often, nice guys get discouraged, so they stay home and watch the game rather than get shot down, rejected or blown off by some babe who can't see their charms. Don't do that! Grab all your nice guy buddies and hit the bars, take dating seminars, start a revolution! Women everywhere will thank you.
somehow no one has defined 'huai' yet... -
will like to ask what is your definition of bad?Originally posted by cloud^dreamer81:nu ren bu ai? Why? Why do gals like guys who r bad? -
mayb those huai nan ren beli gao xian....
u know good in toking sweet things...even gals listen oso cant stand one....some got money...some super yan dao...but is huai nan ren... -
I feel bad means the guy is wild, sweet-talking, hua xin, etc. Just the opposite of a nice guy. A bad guy will be fun to be wif while a nice guy may be boring to be wif.Originally posted by mr_cool:will like to ask what is your definition of bad?
However, being wif a nice guy got an chuan gan. U dunno when the bad guy will dump u for another gal.
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B is much more complicated here r some....Originally posted by cloud^dreamer81:What's B?
basically means naughty(funny/gd way) , teasing yet exudes charm(may not be the outer charm but the inner within depends) and ........
trying 2 get across ===it doesn't mean that a guy who is a jerk will attract op sex k