If your stead is stubborn and strong willed .....

• mooncloud

  28 Jan 03, 16:26

  What will you do if your stead argue with you one day and no matter what you tell him/her and what wrong he/she does, he/she stills fights back like lawyer beating you down to your knees ...and you bark with your tail looking down....you lose... K.O 10/10 , fight 10 times, lose 10 times....
• sgboy2004

  28 Jan 03, 16:27

  The line between stubborn and strong-willed is veri thin onli.
  
  beware..................
  
  
• zacken99

  28 Jan 03, 16:27

  si le shun le.......
• Peppermint

  28 Jan 03, 16:28

  depends on what the issue is abt really..
• kohanson

  28 Jan 03, 16:28

  cannot do anything if she's so stubborn..
  can only wait till she calm down first before talking to her..
• sgboy2004

  28 Jan 03, 16:29

  Originally posted by mooncloud:

  What will you do if your stead argue with you one day and no matter what you tell him/her and what wrong he/she does, he/she stills fights back like lawyer beating you down to your knees ...and you bark with your tail looking down....you lose... K.O 10/10 , fight 10 times, lose 10 times....

  then she no longer mi gf liao, she will be known as mi ex.
  
  
  
  
• mooncloud

  28 Jan 03, 16:35

  but thing is.....she is chio bu.... and good girl type, rare in singapore... in most times, sooo sweet and cute.... but if i play game neglect her........ my god... i always need to get ready to battle the final boss---- the chio bu .. i believe not just me lor, even other ppl will suffer same case, where their stead is too devoured in doing somethings and forget about their stead for a while.... PANG~ here comes the fight!! oh my.....
• sgboy2004

  28 Jan 03, 16:40

  Originally posted by mooncloud:

  but thing is.....she is chio bu.... and good girl type, rare in singapore... in most times, sooo sweet and cute.... but if i play game neglect her........ my god... i always need to get ready to battle the final boss---- the chio bu .. i believe not just me lor, even other ppl will suffer same case, where their stead is too devoured in doing somethings and forget about their stead for a while.... PANG~ here comes the fight!! oh my.....

  then u hav to ask yourself if u enjoy being wif her or u are just fascinated by her looks onli.
  
  looks will attract pple initially, but it is the nature of the person, plus the fit to your character that makes the relationship to work out.
  
  Do reconsider.
  
  Best regards to you, pal
  
  
• mooncloud

  28 Jan 03, 16:45

  thanks bud, things will work out fine, we been together for 2 years and so far, only game is the obsticle between us, besides that, we are so fine...... every couple will definely have somethings between them, thats why relation will not get bored...at least once awhile you can train up your communication skills - quarrel -
• mooncloud

  28 Jan 03, 16:50

  anyway, i wasnt attracted to her when we first met, her looks is so normal.... but as time goes by...she started to look more and more pretty.... not sure how but she really is very femaline now,,, maybe that time she is only 16... now 18 ... thats what everyone says,,, nu da si ba bian ... magic from god thank god i love you ...hahahaha
• Si|verGer

  28 Jan 03, 18:12

  Originally posted by mooncloud:

  What will you do if your stead argue with you one day and no matter what you tell him/her and what wrong he/she does, he/she stills fights back like lawyer beating you down to your knees ...and you bark with your tail looking down....you lose... K.O 10/10 , fight 10 times, lose 10 times....

  how old is ur gf 1st? eh think ur gf just njOy the winning feeling mah just like to bully u and c u give in to her lor...
  but if u cannot tk it den mayb u shld try tell her in a nice n cool way...
• Si|verGer

  28 Jan 03, 18:14

  Originally posted by mooncloud:

  thanks bud, things will work out fine, we been together for 2 years and so far, only game is the obsticle between us, besides that, we are so fine...... every couple will definely have somethings between them, thats why relation will not get bored...at least once awhile you can train up your communication skills - quarrel -

  aiyah is like dat 1 even 4 me i sumtime will oso if my bf too over focus on his tv or wadever rather then me... but dat only when he always tis pattern lar...
  coz couple shld oso hv their own time too...mayb try to work out a timetable?
• mooncloud

  28 Jan 03, 20:32

  hehe we tried that before and i dun like it... i want relationship to be enjoyrable.... not like in sch and have to follow rules and sorts.... life become so boring..... i beat hundreds of games in my life and this boss is the hardest of all.... i always game over one.... hahaha girlfriend got cheat code, too strong to beat hahaha
• fumih_81

  28 Jan 03, 21:03

  i think have a r/ship is just a prep thing....very much like marriage except that you wont have to worry lagi more things...
  
  basically if u like her for what she is.....then you got to figure out how are you going to tackle her weak points... sometimes got to make compromises. so that both of you can compliment each other as in one is more stubborn and the other more flexible...
  
  i think if u know she is very rare girl.....give yourself more tries to understand her...coz who knows once you break off with her you wont be able to find another person that is as rare as her. its hard to find a person that is able to 'fit' with you like a jigsaw puzzle.
  
  you can also figure out how is your method of handling issues after marriage...