u first lah, darlingOriginally posted by aHGer^83:on tribute to our up-comin Valentine's Day, our couples and non-couples...singles...and buddies...brothers and sisters...of the forum,
care to share any love story? be it the worst..the best or the most sad...even share ur joy of your most wonderful r/s wif us...![]()

me? better not...cos too many to share ler...any way...just wanna tell you all dat my most sad r/s was exactly one yr ago...he brk wif me on the 1st day of CNY...and the other one was during my ite time...haiz...both got very sad ending...Originally posted by sgboy2004:u first lah, darling
take care and dun be too sad... u cant predict what will happen in the future... so changes are bound to occur..haiz, no matter wat u haf to accept the fact.. dun brood over it and spend more time wif yr partner next time...Originally posted by trouper:we been together for 9 years ,i have built my world around her and for her. i was dumd and was suck into my work in the end i lost her to a guy who knows her for only 6 week
Life is like these , u don't take things for sure .One sudden change and it will be gone. Take gd care of what u have and don't think it will forever be there
i will do that , ThanksOriginally posted by Ah^ken:take care and dun be too sad... u cant predict what will happen in the future... so changes are bound to occur..haiz, no matter wat u haf to accept the fact.. dun brood over it and spend more time wif yr partner next time...![]()
Bro, be strong and steady... life goes onz....Originally posted by trouper:we been together for 9 years ,i have built my world around her and for her. i was dumd and was suck into my work in the end i lost her to a guy who knows her for only 6 week
Life is like these , u don't take things for sure .One sudden change and it will be gone. Take gd care of what u have and don't think it will forever be there
Sis Ahgerl... that's kinda sad wor... but watever pls let the bygones be vanished forever... you are still yourself..Originally posted by aHGer^83:me? better not...cos too many to share ler...any way...just wanna tell you all dat my most sad r/s was exactly one yr ago...he brk wif me on the 1st day of CNY...and the other one was during my ite time...haiz...both got very sad ending...
but...this yr diff liaoz...im a new me...and i just wanna keep to my new yr resolutions...![]()
Originally posted by trouper:we been together for 9 years ,i have built my world around her and for her. i was dumd and was suck into my work in the end i lost her to a guy who knows her for only 6 week
Life is like these , u don't take things for sure .One sudden change and it will be gone. Take gd care of what u have and don't think it will forever be there
All I can say is... it may be a tragic outcome for anybody to go through, but I have to say you are lucky. Why?Originally posted by trouper:we been together for 9 years ,i have built my world around her and for her. i was dumd and was suck into my work in the end i lost her to a guy who knows her for only 6 week
Life is like these , u don't take things for sure .One sudden change and it will be gone. Take gd care of what u have and don't think it will forever be there
chimOriginally posted by Yunhaier:All I can say is... it may be a tragic outcome for anybody to go through, but I have to say you are lucky. Why?
'She who doesn't treasure a man of nine years will never learn to treasure another man of 6 weeks.'
You dint married her - which is a good thing. Every relationship is a blissed - its how you preceive it. Gald to know that at least you knew the *real* her before settling down - by the time, it could be more than just regrets and kids may be in the picture.
Cheers
aiseh~~Originally posted by Yunhaier:All I can say is... it may be a tragic outcome for anybody to go through, but I have to say you are lucky. Why?
'She who doesn't treasure a man of nine years will never learn to treasure another man of 6 weeks.'
You dint married her - which is a good thing. Every relationship is a blissed - its how you preceive it. Gald to know that at least you knew the *real* her before settling down - by the time, it could be more than just regrets and kids may be in the picture.
Cheers
Originally posted by Yunhaier:All I can say is... it may be a tragic outcome for anybody to go through, but I have to say you are lucky. Why?
'She who doesn't treasure a man of nine years will never learn to treasure another man of 6 weeks.'
You dint married her - which is a good thing. Every relationship is a blissed - its how you preceive it. Gald to know that at least you knew the *real* her before settling down - by the time, it could be more than just regrets and kids may be in the picture.
Cheers
nice story..Originally posted by XXX Virus:We were together since our college days, back in 1992...
ROM in year 2000 and customary last year...
It was never easy to run the marathon...
She nearly left me when she just started working when she graduated from U, I was then in year 2, got to know a group of friends, got over active in school, neglected her. She got to know a colleague in the office, told me about him but I too confidence of myself that she won't leave me. At that time when we nearly breakup, she told me that even without that gy, she might leave me also becos I have neglected her and being insensitive to her... I beg her to give both of us the chance to try once more, she agreed and I am glad that I beg her to stay then... Well, that guy is her good buddy now, she stilll meets up with him quite often, but I am no longer that worried
For me, I was tempted when I started working when I graduated. Got to know this girl from office, a very sweet girl, got attracted to her on the first day of work... as day goes by, got to know each other better, often go out dinner or movies and she becomes a very close buddy to me... I know that I really like her then and know that she likes me too but we didn't say anything. It was till the time before I am getting ROM that we confess our feelings to each other... I made a choice then, I chose the one who go through my college days, my NS days, my Uni days, sunshine and raining days... Its was sad and heartbreaking for her... I didn't give in to her though I know deep in my heart I likes her as much as my galfriend.
Well, she attended my ROM and my wedding dinner, can see that she feels sad but I told her that she will sure find someone better than I am. We are still very close friends, she know that we can never be together so why not just be buddies. Told my girlfriend about it before our wedding, and I am so glad that she is matured enough to take it.
Now me and my wife are happily married, don't know why, find myself love her even more nowadays... no plans for kids yet, maybe another 2 years time, enjoy our "er ren shi jie" first
Just my love story...
its a loving and a very real life experiance for u to share with the forums ppl here.... love is always like tat... there will always be ups and downs..... but as long as u stay and dont start hoping ard.... actually u will realised that those who been thru alot with u are more suitable then those i regard them as "passerby" .....Originally posted by XXX Virus:We were together since our college days, back in 1992...
ROM in year 2000 and customary last year...
It was never easy to run the marathon...
She nearly left me when she just started working when she graduated from U, I was then in year 2, got to know a group of friends, got over active in school, neglected her. She got to know a colleague in the office, told me about him but I too confidence of myself that she won't leave me. At that time when we nearly breakup, she told me that even without that gy, she might leave me also becos I have neglected her and being insensitive to her... I beg her to give both of us the chance to try once more, she agreed and I am glad that I beg her to stay then... Well, that guy is her good buddy now, she stilll meets up with him quite often, but I am no longer that worried
For me, I was tempted when I started working when I graduated. Got to know this girl from office, a very sweet girl, got attracted to her on the first day of work... as day goes by, got to know each other better, often go out dinner or movies and she becomes a very close buddy to me... I know that I really like her then and know that she likes me too but we didn't say anything. It was till the time before I am getting ROM that we confess our feelings to each other... I made a choice then, I chose the one who go through my college days, my NS days, my Uni days, sunshine and raining days... Its was sad and heartbreaking for her... I didn't give in to her though I know deep in my heart I likes her as much as my galfriend.
Well, she attended my ROM and my wedding dinner, can see that she feels sad but I told her that she will sure find someone better than I am. We are still very close friends, she know that we can never be together so why not just be buddies. Told my girlfriend about it before our wedding, and I am so glad that she is matured enough to take it.
Now me and my wife are happily married, don't know why, find myself love her even more nowadays... no plans for kids yet, maybe another 2 years time, enjoy our "er ren shi jie" first
Just my love story...
Wahahahaha!!! Your Life Story!!!Originally posted by Callan:
I'm very very impressed by your decision.Originally posted by XXX Virus:We were together since our college days, back in 1992...
ROM in year 2000 and customary last year...
It was never easy to run the marathon...
She nearly left me when she just started working when she graduated from U, I was then in year 2, got to know a group of friends, got over active in school, neglected her. She got to know a colleague in the office, told me about him but I too confidence of myself that she won't leave me. At that time when we nearly breakup, she told me that even without that gy, she might leave me also becos I have neglected her and being insensitive to her... I beg her to give both of us the chance to try once more, she agreed and I am glad that I beg her to stay then... Well, that guy is her good buddy now, she stilll meets up with him quite often, but I am no longer that worried
For me, I was tempted when I started working when I graduated. Got to know this girl from office, a very sweet girl, got attracted to her on the first day of work... as day goes by, got to know each other better, often go out dinner or movies and she becomes a very close buddy to me... I know that I really like her then and know that she likes me too but we didn't say anything. It was till the time before I am getting ROM that we confess our feelings to each other... I made a choice then, I chose the one who go through my college days, my NS days, my Uni days, sunshine and raining days... Its was sad and heartbreaking for her... I didn't give in to her though I know deep in my heart I likes her as much as my galfriend.
Well, she attended my ROM and my wedding dinner, can see that she feels sad but I told her that she will sure find someone better than I am. We are still very close friends, she know that we can never be together so why not just be buddies. Told my girlfriend about it before our wedding, and I am so glad that she is matured enough to take it.
Now me and my wife are happily married, don't know why, find myself love her even more nowadays... no plans for kids yet, maybe another 2 years time, enjoy our "er ren shi jie" first
Just my love story...