there r still gd guy's/gals out there
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i knew my bf 7 yrs ago in dec,we became bf/gf in jan and spent our 1st v day 2gether but he went 2 buy a music box last min while i had already went 2 get a necklace 4 him wif my name on it...tot wun be wif him long but spent our 2nd v day the yr after and i was v.surprise that a bouquet of roses were in my hm and it was him who sent it wif a card tt reads:Wherever you are is where i want to be ALWAYS!!!
i did cry...there was aso once when we quarrelled and the next day he went 2 buy a sorry card and roses 4 mi,it was very touching...then 1 christmas ,he bought a gold ring for mi bt i broke it,then he bought mi a $500++ ring 4 mi,i lost it.it's not i dun treasure it,it's due 2 some misunderstandings and i cried 4 days,the next yr he bought mi another 400++ ring......2 yrs ago,when 8250 juz came out,he knew i wanted it n bought it 4 mi,my bd he bought mi bracelet and even anklet.it's true tt material things dun last bt he juz wan mi 2 have a happy time and i really treaure him alot.....he was really very sweet bt maybe i'm his 1st gf so he juz wan 2 have a happy memory aso.....anyway we have a 5 yrs gap....he did hurt mi bt i told myself tt if i really love him,i have 2 forgive him bt it depends on wat kind of mistake........and all the mistakes he made was quite lenient while some were 2 much,i chose 2 believe him and forgive him.........if we really love tt someone,we have 2 believe them and forgive them........
now aday he had been very petty,we tok things out and i say if he'
s not going 2 change for the better,i think there's no future for us and he did change.i'm very glad tt he change....2 bad he dun use the comp wan.......Look!!!i'm not being proud here tt i have a bf,i juz wan 2 let ppl out there noe tt though u dun have any partner now,there's still many good guys n gals out there.......you have 2 treaure wat u have beside,behind or even infront of u....ppl r like tt dun treasure things when they r juz beside us.....7 yrs later,we r still 2gether,though he's not tt romantic like last tiem,i love him him for who he is n not wat he is..........
bt ppl...if u think i'm being proud or wat,pls tell mi...dun misunderstand mi...........dun give up chasing yr happiness,u have it in yr hands and u have 2 treasure it......... -
\Originally posted by curad:i knew my bf 7 yrs ago in dec,we became bf/gf in jan and spent our 1st v day 2gether but he went 2 buy a music box last min while i had already went 2 get a necklace 4 him wif my name on it...tot wun be wif him long but spent our 2nd v day the yr after and i was v.surprise that a bouquet of roses were in my hm and it was him who sent it wif a card tt reads:Wherever you are is where i want to be ALWAYS!!! i did cry...there was aso once when we quarrelled and the next day he went 2 buy a sorry card and roses 4 mi,it was very touching...then 1 christmas ,he bought a gold ring for mi bt i broke it,then he bought mi a $500++ ring 4 mi,i lost it.it's not i dun treasure it,it's due 2 some misunderstandings and i cried 4 days,the next yr he bought mi another 400++ ring......2 yrs ago,when 8250 juz came out,he knew i wanted it n bought it 4 mi,my bd he bought mi bracelet and even anklet.it's true tt material things dun last bt he juz wan mi 2 have a happy time and i really treaure him alot.....he was really very sweet bt maybe i'm his 1st gf so he juz wan 2 have a happy memory aso.....anyway we have a 5 yrs gap....he did hurt mi bt i told myself tt if i really love him,i have 2 forgive him bt it depends on wat kind of mistake........and all the mistakes he made was quite lenient while some were 2 much,i chose 2 believe him and forgive him.........if we really love tt someone,we have 2 believe them and forgive them........
now aday he had been very petty,we tok things out and i say if he'
s not going 2 change for the better,i think there's no future for us and he did change.i'm very glad tt he change....2 bad he dun use the comp wan.......Look!!!i'm not being proud here tt i have a bf,i juz wan 2 let ppl out there noe tt though u dun have any partner now,there's still many good guys n gals out there.......you have 2 treaure wat u have beside,behind or even infront of u....ppl r like tt dun treasure things when they r juz beside us.....7 yrs later,we r still 2gether,though he's not tt romantic like last tiem,i love him him for who he is n not wat he is..........
bt ppl...if u think i'm being proud or wat,pls tell mi...dun misunderstand mi...........dun give up chasing yr happiness,u have it in yr hands and u have 2 treasure it.........
me sorri to hear that
but being together is not juz rememvering inportant dates
it abt mutual trust
and able to maintain a retionship still full of surprises aft yrs(tis pt my own opin)
human have feeling and diffrent moods evry dae cant expect him 2 b like tat evy time u try to be understanding
and ppl change\\
at least he did put in effort for u mah
he is being truth ful to u that he not channging
but did u pop the question will he try to change foru and vice versa
comeon accept it we have our shartcoming and to b together u must accept and tolerate if possible change
well this topic can stretch veri long leh
aiya u need to c a psychiatirst or a person able to console u???
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i dun need anyone lah....i noe wat 2 do mah.........i have 2 respect him n myself 1st b4 i expect him 2 respect mi n change lor..........all these kind of things we must look at diff point of views n not juz ourselves
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very fortunate girl i must say. all the best
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thanks.........
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so u 2 broke off? So sorry
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no.we r still 2gether till now
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good for u then !take care!Originally posted by curad:no.we r still 2gether till now -
Originally posted by sgboy2004:so u 2 broke off? So sorry
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Originally posted by curad:
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Originally posted by startrightnow:
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Originally posted by curad:
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Originally posted by curad:
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wat r u all toking abt????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
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or maybe i've made some ppl angry?maybe they think i'm boasting or wat?
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Originally posted by curad:or maybe i've made some ppl angry?maybe they think i'm boasting or wat? +
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i mean some ppl after reading my story will think i'm boasting or wat mah,maybe i've offended them lor............
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y do u keep on tinking tat u may haf make some ppl miisunderstand u for being boastful... i mean, since u wanna tell ppl abt tis, then y did u tink abt wat ppl feel n y do u care how they feel?
i tink u r quite weird?? sounds liek u too stressed over smthing or wat?? -
u seems unhappy wif wat i'm thinking.vnm.it's alrite........Originally posted by HuLaDoLpH:y do u keep on tinking tat u may haf make some ppl miisunderstand u for being boastful... i mean, since u wanna tell ppl abt tis, then y did u tink abt wat ppl feel n y do u care how they feel?
i tink u r quite weird?? sounds liek u too stressed over smthing or wat??
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good tat u noe juz try to be more understanding ,,,,Originally posted by curad:i dun need anyone lah....i noe wat 2 do mah.........i have 2 respect him n myself 1st b4 i expect him 2 respect mi n change lor..........all these kind of things we must look at diff point of views n not juz ourselves
comeon life real short y give ourselves so much prob...
be contented wif wat u have nw k...as zi zhu chang le....
cry to much getta old fast laugh to much wrinkles come out fast
being a woman real diffi
luckily me man haha not need to worry abt all this -
RICH siah....Originally posted by curad:i knew my bf 7 yrs ago in dec,we became bf/gf in jan and spent our 1st v day 2gether but he went 2 buy a music box last min while i had already went 2 get a necklace 4 him wif my name on it...tot wun be wif him long but spent our 2nd v day the yr after and i was v.surprise that a bouquet of roses were in my hm and it was him who sent it wif a card tt reads:Wherever you are is where i want to be ALWAYS!!! i did cry...there was aso once when we quarrelled and the next day he went 2 buy a sorry card and roses 4 mi,it was very touching...then 1 christmas ,he bought a gold ring for mi bt i broke it,then he bought mi a $500++ ring 4 mi,i lost it.it's not i dun treasure it,it's due 2 some misunderstandings and i cried 4 days,the next yr he bought mi another 400++ ring......2 yrs ago,when 8250 juz came out,he knew i wanted it n bought it 4 mi,my bd he bought mi bracelet and even anklet.it's true tt material things dun last bt he juz wan mi 2 have a happy time and i really treaure him alot.....he was really very sweet bt maybe i'm his 1st gf so he juz wan 2 have a happy memory aso.....anyway we have a 5 yrs gap....he did hurt mi bt i told myself tt if i really love him,i have 2 forgive him bt it depends on wat kind of mistake........and all the mistakes he made was quite lenient while some were 2 much,i chose 2 believe him and forgive him.........if we really love tt someone,we have 2 believe them and forgive them........
now aday he had been very petty,we tok things out and i say if he'
s not going 2 change for the better,i think there's no future for us and he did change.i'm very glad tt he change....2 bad he dun use the comp wan.......Look!!!i'm not being proud here tt i have a bf,i juz wan 2 let ppl out there noe tt though u dun have any partner now,there's still many good guys n gals out there.......you have 2 treaure wat u have beside,behind or even infront of u....ppl r like tt dun treasure things when they r juz beside us.....7 yrs later,we r still 2gether,though he's not tt romantic like last tiem,i love him him for who he is n not wat he is..........
bt ppl...if u think i'm being proud or wat,pls tell mi...dun misunderstand mi...........dun give up chasing yr happiness,u have it in yr hands and u have 2 treasure it......... -
I would also have to say Curad that money isn't the main issue here.
It'll be that someday if he does lose his job and that living standards have to be downgraded, that your love for him would never change. -
dun be mistaken it's just thatOriginally posted by curad:i mean some ppl after reading my story will think i'm boasting or wat mah,maybe i've offended them lor............
SGBOY2004 STRIKE AGAIN -
Originally posted by dark_slayer79:
mi strikes again?
dun be mistaken it's just that
[b]SGBOY2004 STRIKE AGAIN [/b] 
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