Meeting some1 u lov,doesn't always bring happiness
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tats true...same here...i also dun do things which i have no confident....tats y this vday is going to be the first unknoen outcome im goingt to try....and yet this person i am going out with..her lifestyle and everything she do is realli diff from me...more or less we two can considered "heaven and earth"Originally posted by Hitakogi:well actually is simple,
hav u ever like someone where her interest and way of doing things,lifestyle r diff from u?
i dun do things without 100% confidents,
as u say i nv try, i nv know the outcum,
but if i try, i know it may not work out till the end,
and maybe it would end up with more painful memorys?
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Not sure,Originally posted by lazzen:does the gal interested in u??
but i dun think so la .. -
then u should hav understood wat i meant,Originally posted by lazzen:tats true...same here...i also dun do things which i have no confident....tats y this vday is going to be the first unknoen outcome im goingt to try....and yet this person i am going out with..her lifestyle and everything she do is realli diff from me...more or less we two can considered "heaven and earth"
For me i think Vday is a very special day for someone very special,
for the lady that u r dating, i guess she must hav been special to u rite? *pls correct me if i'm wronge*
btw u mean u r confident in the lady that u r dating la ?
or u r jus wasting ur time and her time ? * no offence* -
actualli im in e same state as u...everything is so unsure..think we are both afraid to try thing out..Originally posted by Hitakogi:then u should hav understood wat i meant,
For me i think Vday is a very special day for someone very special,
for the lady that u r dating, i guess she must hav been special to u rite? *pls correct me if i'm wronge*
btw u mean u r confident in the lady that u r dating la ?
or u r jus wasting ur time and her time ? * no offence*
this lady is very special to me..but to her i may be just a freind,and she is bringing another gal to join us for dinner too on vday..i also dun noe wat she thinking -
Ladys .. hiaz ..Originally posted by lazzen:actualli im in e same state as u...everything is so unsure..think we are both afraid to try thing out..
this lady is very special to me..but to her i may be just a freind,and she is bringing another gal to join us for dinner too on vday..i also dun noe wat she thinking
maybe my topic giv u some thought for the moment, and maybe if u nv see this topic, u may nv have thought of it? -
this thing had been on my mind for days...is just that ur topic make me say it out...well how abt u...got a conclusion of wat u going to do?Originally posted by Hitakogi:Ladys .. hiaz ..
maybe my topic giv u some thought for the moment, and maybe if u nv see this topic, u may nv have thought of it? -
As for me, i dun intend to do anything,Originally posted by lazzen:this thing had been on my mind for days...is just that ur topic make me say it out...well how abt u...got a conclusion of wat u going to do?
as i say, meeting someone you love,doesn't always bring happiness, since it dun bring happiness, and may turn out to be saddness, why should i force things ard ? if she happy, i'm happy,
if she's sad, i hope she look for me, if she's in trouble, i hope i can help her etc lor ...until one day until i know i get her off my mind!
so wats abt u?
still continue to try despite getting hurt? since u say nv try it out,
u nv know the outcum? -
chatting with her in irc now...think someone is dating her soon..i better take my pride and leave her alone...think will be betterOriginally posted by Hitakogi:As for me, i dun intend to do anything,
as i say, meeting someone you love,doesn't always bring happiness, since it dun bring happiness, and may turn out to be saddness, why should i force things ard ? if she happy, i'm happy,
if she's sad, i hope she look for me, if she's in trouble, i hope i can help her etc lor ...until one day until i know i get her off my mind!
so wats abt u?
still continue to try despite getting hurt? since u say nv try it out,
u nv know the outcum? -
eh just askiing...wats if e ger like u alot...dun u wish to be with her?
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huh? wat happen to ur confident?Originally posted by lazzen:chatting with her in irc now...think someone is dating her soon..i better take my pride and leave her alone...think will be better
kana shaken after my topic?
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thats a Sq1 questions,Originally posted by lazzen:eh just askiing...wats if e ger like u alot...dun u wish to be with her?
diff people hav diff apporach in a relationship,
some jus thought of wat today might happen and tend to forget abt tmw,
as for me .. i thou of wat going to happen tmw 1st, since it havent even started today,
if a ger like me alot,
jus becoz she likes me and i like her, then we become pairs?
but we r both two diff people living in two diff vacuum,
life would be hard .. but unless u know u can turn the tables ard, maybe it wouldn't be so hard after all ..if u can't,then better not be together where fear for the hurt it would bring .. -
no need wat confident liao,e dinner date is called off....she just told me in irc nowOriginally posted by Hitakogi:huh? wat happen to ur confident?
kana shaken after my topic? -
everything maybe fated....all i can say is we should just expect the unexpected..maybe that will make our life easierOriginally posted by Hitakogi:thats a Sq1 questions,
diff people hav diff apporach in a relationship,
some jus thought of wat today might happen and tend to forget abt tmw,
as for me .. i thou of wat going to happen tmw 1st, since it havent even started today,
if a ger like me alot,
jus becoz she likes me and i like her, then we become pairs?
but we r both two diff people living in two diff vacuum,
life would be hard .. but unless u know u can turn the tables ard, maybe it wouldn't be so hard after all ..if u can't,then better not be together where fear for the hurt it would bring .. -
My personal point of view is that everyone has it own abilities of handling things whatsoever and it is not a critical factor that hinder the development of the relationship/friendship.Originally posted by Hitakogi:well actually is simple,
hav u ever like someone where her interest and way of doing things,lifestyle r diff from u?
i dun do things without 100% confidents,
as u say i nv try, i nv know the outcum,
but if i try, i know it may not work out till the end,
and maybe it would end up with more painful memorys? -
pengz...me again... always tio shoot 1 leh...Originally posted by kopiosatu:u ask him out lah!!!!! buay zi dong! -
....... bo wei gong...Originally posted by Hitakogi:Dun think she will come out la and i dun think she will like me oso ..... .. i dun wish to irritate her lor ..
better let her find her own happiness rather then me spoilting hers ....
rite? 
me nv say u irritate me mah... -
hmm.. i'm currently w this guy.. n all e while i dun tink i'm happie.. but i simply cant bear 2 leave him.. even when he is aredi askin 4 a breakup.. sometimes i wil qn myself if i reali do luv him.. n i reali dno.. i tot bein w someone u luv shud b a happy thing, or rather simply loving someone is a happy thing.. yet... i'm not...Originally posted by Hitakogi:Esp when u can't be with him/her,
Isn't it sad?
Not to bring down the sad moment at this time when its near feb 14,
but i hope that maybe someone here can share storys?
Jus watch a show call ' An Affair'
feel realli emotional abt it...
this is jus so weird.. i'm not happy but yet.. i juz wan stay beside him.. is this realy luv? -
R u asking mi a question har? ..Originally posted by ciara:hmm.. i'm currently w this guy.. n all e while i dun tink i'm happie.. but i simply cant bear 2 leave him.. even when he is aredi askin 4 a breakup.. sometimes i wil qn myself if i reali do luv him.. n i reali dno.. i tot bein w someone u luv shud b a happy thing, or rather simply loving someone is a happy thing.. yet... i'm not...
this is jus so weird.. i'm not happy but yet.. i juz wan stay beside him.. is this realy luv?
i'm sorri .. i dun think i can be of help to u,
'Is this realli love?'
arrrrhh .. Make it very simple,
Can u live without him?
Is he the only guy in ur life? -
btw r u the lady that post on The Newspapers? on sunday,Originally posted by ciara:hmm.. i'm currently w this guy.. n all e while i dun tink i'm happie.. but i simply cant bear 2 leave him.. even when he is aredi askin 4 a breakup.. sometimes i wil qn myself if i reali do luv him.. n i reali dno.. i tot bein w someone u luv shud b a happy thing, or rather simply loving someone is a happy thing.. yet... i'm not...
this is jus so weird.. i'm not happy but yet.. i juz wan stay beside him.. is this realy luv?
there was a lady same situations as u lay ..