What if ur guy asks u for money?
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Just want to know comments from anyone with regards to the issue above...
The guy need not bluntly begs for money, but perhaps hints some financial difficulties. And say if the gal got money to lend and lend the guy money? Will it be weird?
Cos its very like in the tv serials where everytime these things happen, the guy usually is the baddie... -
dun giv $$$, just giv your body, and remember to put a sign outside that says:
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Originally posted by sgboy2004:dun giv $$$, just giv your body, and remember to put a sign outside that says:
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Originally posted by Ecxentrique:Just want to know comments from anyone with regards to the issue above...
The guy need not bluntly begs for money, but perhaps hints some financial difficulties. And say if the gal got money to lend and lend the guy money? Will it be weird?
Cos its very like in the tv serials where everytime these things happen, the guy usually is the baddie... Depends on how much you are going to lend. Ask where your money is going to. It's YOUR money!!!
If he doesn't tell you the truth, then I think you can don't bother to lend him the money.
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$$ is a sensitive thing lor...dun let $$ come in between u and him/her...it will be messy...mi c a lot of tis liao
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ya but i dun think i able to accept the $ if i that guy
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Its about 3k to pay sch fees, and the guys family quite broke at first wanted to ask the gal to be a guarantor to secure a loan, but the gal then initiated the loan from her own savings..
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ya lor... girls giving money...eeeee
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go for the loan, not her $$$...Originally posted by Ecxentrique:Its about 3k to pay sch fees, and the guys family quite broke at first wanted to ask the gal to be a guarantor to secure a loan, but the gal then initiated the loan from her own savings..
how?
tell her wat if they break off...somehow..then $$$ how?
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Originally posted by Ecxentrique:Its about 3k to pay sch fees, and the guys family quite broke at first wanted to ask the gal to be a guarantor to secure a loan, but the gal then initiated the loan from her own savings..
how? I think it boils down to the word 'trust' already. To pay school fees is quite a reasonable excuse...hmmm......
The gal and guy no special relationship?? -
i still think it is better to get a loan...Originally posted by Parka: I think it boils down to the word 'trust' already. To pay school fees is quite a reasonable excuse...hmmm......
The gal and guy no special relationship??
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[quote]Originally posted by sgboy2004:
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go for the loan, not her $$$...
tell her wat if they break off...somehow..then $$$ how?
The guy wanted to go for the loan, but have problems finding guarantors cos need two. Then he has no other frends who is working to help him out with this, then the gf is one of his 2 other close frends who is working.. then this gf refuse to be the guarantor, but chooses to lend him the money instead... -
Originally posted by sgboy2004: Yeah. That way more secure.
What I am scared is that later follow our advice the $3000 fly away then we will feel guilty. -
Originally posted by Ecxentrique:[quote]Originally posted by sgboy2004:
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go for the loan, not her $$$...
tell her wat if they break off...somehow..then $$$ how?
The guy wanted to go for the loan, but have problems finding guarantors cos need two. Then he has no other frends who is working to help him out with this, then the gf is one of his 2 other close frends who is working.. then this gf refuse to be the guarantor, but chooses to lend him the money instead... One thing about lending money is the returning part. That's the most troubling part. -
bf/gf relationship...Originally posted by Parka: I think it boils down to the word 'trust' already. To pay school fees is quite a reasonable excuse...hmmm......
The gal and guy no special relationship?? -
how about the guys' guardian?Originally posted by Ecxentrique:[quote]Originally posted by sgboy2004:
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go for the loan, not her $$$...
tell her wat if they break off...somehow..then $$$ how?
The guy wanted to go for the loan, but have problems finding guarantors cos need two. Then he has no other frends who is working to help him out with this, then the gf is one of his 2 other close frends who is working.. then this gf refuse to be the guarantor, but chooses to lend him the money instead...
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[quote]Originally posted by sgboy2004:
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how about the guys' guardian?
guys' guardian broke, dats y have to borrow from outside sources... -
For your information, I does that... But I never ask for a large sum and usually return within 1-2 months' time... And YES... I'm a BADDIE... ~WAHAHAhahaha....Originally posted by Ecxentrique:Just want to know comments from anyone with regards to the issue above...
The guy need not bluntly begs for money, but perhaps hints some financial difficulties. And say if the gal got money to lend and lend the guy money? Will it be weird?
Cos its very like in the tv serials where everytime these things happen, the guy usually is the baddie...
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if iz my bf & we've been 2gether for some x...will be ok
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Originally posted by Devil1976:For your information, I does that... But I never ask for a large sum and usually return within 1-2 months' time... And YES... I'm a BADDIE... ~WAHAHAhahaha....
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sign IOU u mean?Originally posted by sgboy2004: -
make him wear a metal chastity belt till he repay u the money.Originally posted by Ecxentrique:Just want to know comments from anyone with regards to the issue above...
The guy need not bluntly begs for money, but perhaps hints some financial difficulties. And say if the gal got money to lend and lend the guy money? Will it be weird?
Cos its very like in the tv serials where everytime these things happen, the guy usually is the baddie... -
He ought to get a life and try for a loan instead.
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tell him to f*c* offOriginally posted by Ecxentrique:Just want to know comments from anyone with regards to the issue above...
The guy need not bluntly begs for money, but perhaps hints some financial difficulties. And say if the gal got money to lend and lend the guy money? Will it be weird?
Cos its very like in the tv serials where everytime these things happen, the guy usually is the baddie... -
I think its fine what, its a pity if you don't have the money
i know a person who had to drop out cause he couldn't pay his school fees and he does quite well in fact