What if ur guy asks u for money?
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depends on how much he needs lor..........
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ya lor. much depends on the borrower. if some chow ah-beng who oni want to spend his time honing his skills on initial D, then sod off. the gf must see the situation.Originally posted by Forever84:I think its fine what, its a pity if you don't have the money
i know a person who had to drop out cause he couldn't pay his school fees and he does quite well in fact
but most of the time if the gal eva lend to him, can kiss the money goodbye liao. bf/gf always take for granted the money between them one. -
if u think he's so gd enuf tt u can trust him so much go ahead n lend him...actually this kind of money thing,if u really can't get it back,he will get v.guilty for u've been so nice 2 him bt he's so bad...u r his gf now now,u wan the best for him....he needs 2 study n get a gd job....in a r/s thre must be trust lor,so if u trust him go ahead...dun think abt whether u will get the money back anot...if u keep thinking of this,maybe u dun trust him tt much...i noe that's yr hard earned money..bt LOVE IS BLIND RITE?haha...juz j/k.....if he gets a loan n u r the guarantor,if he can't pay back the money,the ppl will go after u n tt amount of money is more than 3k....so it's up 2 u as to c how's yr r/s now?do u really trust him?do u really love him?when u tok abt money no matter wif who,there will be disputes....jiang qian shang gan qing.rite?????
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not all ppl will take the money their gf/bf gives them 4 granted.......i'm serious....not all gals r materialistic ok?Originally posted by JLennon:ya lor. much depends on the borrower. if some chow ah-beng who oni want to spend his time honing his skills on initial D, then sod off. the gf must see the situation.
but most of the time if the gal eva lend to him, can kiss the money goodbye liao. bf/gf always take for granted the money between them one.
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i agree, not all girls. that's why i say must see situation. jiang qian indeed shang gan qing but this one oso depends on which stage of the the gan qing u are at now. and sometimes qian is a test of ur gan qing.Originally posted by curad:not all ppl will take the money their gf/bf gives them 4 granted.......i'm serious....not all gals r materialistic ok? -
you are damm funnyOriginally posted by sgboy2004:dun giv $$$, just giv your body, and remember to put a sign outside that says:
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i am a gentleman
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ask him go fly kite...but small amount like 10-20 for a day tie over is ok but not too often
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Aiya the world the social system is wrong man
The poor would remain poor and the rich will remain rich
Its the hardest cycle to break -
what do u expect? communal sharing of wealth? wherein lies the incentive to work then?Originally posted by Forever84:Aiya the world the social system is wrong man
The poor would remain poor and the rich will remain rich
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Depends on the situation lor... The guy dun always acts as the baddie rite... If a little.. sure lor... no problem... but if it's always liddat... u gotta go find out the reason y he is always broke..Originally posted by Ecxentrique:Just want to know comments from anyone with regards to the issue above...
The guy need not bluntly begs for money, but perhaps hints some financial difficulties. And say if the gal got money to lend and lend the guy money? Will it be weird?
Cos its very like in the tv serials where everytime these things happen, the guy usually is the baddie... -
hey im not suggesting communism don't get me in troubleOriginally posted by JLennon:what do u expect? communal sharing of wealth? wherein lies the incentive to work then?
Just saying there shld be more non-bias sponsership for these students.
shldn't he be able to take out a loan himself anyway? -
is e guy ur bf in e 1st place? hw long hv u knw him? is he those type who always go borrowing $ ard? u hv to look at differ aspects coz once $ is lend out it is v difficult to get them back.. sumtime u hv to even beg them to return...Originally posted by Ecxentrique:Just want to know comments from anyone with regards to the issue above...
The guy need not bluntly begs for money, but perhaps hints some financial difficulties. And say if the gal got money to lend and lend the guy money? Will it be weird?
Cos its very like in the tv serials where everytime these things happen, the guy usually is the baddie... -
u v funny e way u say it.. ya i come across guys who sweet talk to my frenxs n ask them to lend him $ to pay n mod his bike all tis.. then can sweet tok the to sell thier hp all tis..Originally posted by JLennon:ya lor. much depends on the borrower. if some chow ah-beng who oni want to spend his time honing his skills on initial D, then sod off. the gf must see the situation.
but most of the time if the gal eva lend to him, can kiss the money goodbye liao. bf/gf always take for granted the money between them one.
when gers r in luv they will b willing to do anything or everytin 4 e guys.. but then i reli hope guys wum tk tis point/weakness of gers n start to cheat her.. it not v rite to do tis..
morever u must think e $ is save by e gers is she work n save.. is her hard earned $ so if u do borrow it better u return some of e $ even if u reli canoot return all...
but in a bgr sometime it unavoidable dat either party will ask each other to borrow $ coz mayb they cld not find another person to help but small amt is all rite.. 3k is too much... wad if u all quarrel all tis n he dun1 2 return u?