Asking for contacts from gals
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Yesterday,I was introduced to this gal.We had a decent time together.Towards the end while we were about to depart,I asked her whether is it possible for us to have coffee together.Her reply was affirmative.But when I asked her "how are we going to keep in contact?" i.e asking for her number indirectly.She sounded less than enthusiastic.In retrospect,I should have asked for her contacts so soon after I got to know her.I should have hanged out with her(in a group with my friend who introduced her to me) a few more times before asking.
What do you think?
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some ger are like that..or maybe u look desperate..did u stick ur tongue out when asking?
some will give but dont respond to ur call or anything...
some very dao, think they very chio or wat.
my rejection rate, the rate pple reject me, is about 1 rejection every 5 approached. -
I think I didn't sound like a desperado last night.In fact I think I sounded very sincere.Originally posted by De|usi0n:some ger are like that..or maybe u look desperate..did u stick ur tongue out when asking?
some will give but dont respond to ur call or anything...
some very dao, think they very chio or wat.
my rejection rate, the rate pple reject me, is about 1 rejection every 5 approached.
But to clinch the deal,you have to ask.If you do not do anything,nothing will happen.But you must be prepared for rejection though,with that mentality,you would not feel so bad after all. To me it is "reject reject lah,big f*** issit?" -
ya, must take thing easy..i haf one friend who if kanna reject will scold the ger one...say she think she pretty izzit....kinda things..too much ego.Originally posted by Doenitz:I think I didn't sound like a desperado last night.In fact I think I sounded very sincere.
But to clinch the deal,you have to ask.If you do not do anything,nothing will happen.But you must be prepared for rejection though,with that mentality,you would not feel so bad after all. To me it is "reject reject lah,big f*** issit?" -
Yes,the guy should be gentlemanly even in defeat.Defeat in the battle does not mean defeat in the war.Originally posted by De|usi0n:ya, must take thing easy..i haf one friend who if kanna reject will scold the ger one...say she think she pretty izzit....kinda things..too much ego. -
tat is gd words..Originally posted by Doenitz:Yes,the guy should be gentlemanly even in defeat.Defeat in the battle does not mean defeat in the war. -
I think having coffee together would not scare the gal off compared to asking her for a proper date straight away.I feel that it has "less strings attached"and is on a "casual level."Originally posted by Doenitz:Yesterday,I was introduced to this gal.We had a decent time together.Towards the end while we were about to depart,I asked her whether is it possible for us to have coffee together.Her reply was affirmative.But when I asked her "how are we going to keep in contact?" i.e asking for her number indirectly.She sounded less than enthusiastic.In retrospect,I should have asked for her contacts so soon after I got to know her.I should have hanged out with her(in a group with my friend who introduced her to me) a few more times before asking.
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when u ask a girl's number this way, or indirectly, it shows tat u have no confidence in yourself. it can be very obvious 2 a girl.Originally posted by Doenitz:Her reply was affirmative.But when I asked her "how are we going to keep in contact?" i.e asking for her number indirectly.She sounded less than enthusiastic. -
Thinking of this matter now and after discussing it with my friends,this indirect approach does not seem very indirect actually.Ermmm...what I had in mind was to "make the situation less tense and awkward." Whatever I have confidence in myself is for me to judge.Originally posted by Mr Double Standard:when u ask a girl's number this way, or indirectly, it shows tat u have no confidence in yourself. it can be very obvious 2 a girl. -
if u put it this way, not only will u have less problems 4 yrself, u could also test her to see if she has any interest in u.Originally posted by Doenitz:Thinking of this matter now and after discussing it with my friends,this indirect approach does not seem very indirect actually.Ermmm...what I had in mind was to "make the situation less tense and awkward." Whatever I have confidence in myself is for me to judge.
take out yr hp & ask" i want your phone number."
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tat is no gd....u should say, i think i love u...Originally posted by Mr Double Standard:if u put it this way, not only will u have less problems 4 yrself, u could also test her to see if she has any interest in u.
take out yr hp & ask" i want your phone number."
simple. -
what i think is that you should say "can we keep in contact by exchanging numbers?" rather than "how are we going to keep in contact?" .. because it's like you are asking her a question on how to contact u, and the answer she'll give u is probably "by phone"..Originally posted by Doenitz:Yesterday,I was introduced to this gal.We had a decent time together.Towards the end while we were about to depart,I asked her whether is it possible for us to have coffee together.Her reply was affirmative.But when I asked her "how are we going to keep in contact?" i.e asking for her number indirectly.She sounded less than enthusiastic.In retrospect,I should have asked for her contacts so soon after I got to know her.I should have hanged out with her(in a group with my friend who introduced her to me) a few more times before asking.
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Usually some girls are reserved the first time around. Hang around with her more, let her understand your character better. In other words, build up a good impression and chances are, she will not hesitate to exchange contacts the next time round.
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Ya,my mistake! Dammit! Must never be on the ball again next time!Originally posted by xavier1979:Usually some girls are reserved the first time around. Hang around with her more, let her understand your character better. In other words, build up a good impression and chances are, she will not hesitate to exchange contacts the next time round. -
put long string get big fish
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Hey thats trueOriginally posted by Doenitz:Yes,the guy should be gentlemanly even in defeat.Defeat in the battle does not mean defeat in the war.
even if you have bad character pertend you are a nice guy