Originally posted by Natty:
hmm.. seems like SgBoy doesn't have much ideals on woman?hehhehhee.. every single women? whoa...... then he must be pretty busy every nite?
well i'm sure (and i HOPE) sgboy has more values offline. i do admire him for his relentless facade in these forums tho. in other words.. BUAY SIAN AR???

anyway back to the topic:
it reminds me of the mental (sometimes physical!) lists that people write to define their ideal partner. such lists are a product of one's logic. in their heads a person who is: gentle, caring, humourous, etc etc would be great wouldn't it?
however we don't love with our heads. we love with our hearts. so isn't it pointless to find someone to love with a list that is produced by our heads?
i'd like to share with you something that i've read, that pertains to the topic at hand:
He always seemed to women different from what he was, and they loved in him not himself, but the man created by their imagination, whom they had been eagerly seeking all their lives; and afterwards, when they noticed their mistake, they loved him all the same.