How do you approach strangers?

Doenitz

10 Mar 03, 20:56

Hi people,

I have few problems approaching and chatting up "that interesting looking gal in the tutorial class" or "the sweet gal in my lecture group who smiled at me the other time." Now I want a greater challenge-strangers. Let's say there is this gal working in this shop which I go to sometime and I am interested in getting to know her.How? How to progress from a customer-client relationship to that of friends? Wink

Peppermint

10 Mar 03, 20:58

just go up and introduce yourself?
be natural?
its easy for some hard for others...
for me...i suppose it comes with the job

kohanson

10 Mar 03, 21:00

go over and ask her about the product she is selling.. then talk to her, ask her alot of questions, den ask her, can you give me your number, i'll contact you later..

xavier1979

10 Mar 03, 21:02

Originally posted by kohanson:
go over and ask her about the product she is selling.. then talk to her, ask her alot of questions, den ask her, can you give me your number, i'll contact you later..

PRO sia... Laughing

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10 Mar 03, 21:07

Originally posted by Doenitz:
Hi people,

I have few problems approaching and chatting up "that interesting looking gal in the tutorial class" or "the sweet gal in my lecture group who smiled at me the other time." Now I want a greater challenge-strangers. Let's say there is this gal working in this shop which I go to sometime and I am interested in getting to know her.How? How to progress from a customer-client relationship to that of friends?

best is u got up and say.....hey u see my friend there.....he too shy but he wants to know you better......you mind giving your fone number?? be sure to get a friend who looks good or average to help Razz

girls like it if u approach them

[ X ] & [ L ]

10 Mar 03, 21:15

Hm... Just make it simple to that wonderful gals of yours. Actually its not abt us but its abt you. Hence u post here for some advice.

Listen at whatever u can from here. But hey at e end of the day, look in e mirror ask yourself if that girl been " stuck" in ur mind. Perhaps you should be sth abt it.

So if u dun do anything abt it DUN blame that there is no chance at all. Therefore you should start doing some research abt her if possible otherwise just go out front to her and say sth short and nice.

Like just say " Hi your ear rings are nice... And i just trying to figure out what to buy for my friend. And i think e ear rings might just be it. "

Well it might work it might not. Whatever is e case, end of e day at least u tried.

Hope what i am saying not nonsense.. lolx....

Good luck to you bro...

All e best... CHeerS... Very Happy

Forever84

10 Mar 03, 21:52

Letme learn a thing or two here
*takes notepad Wink

or could we do it like joey from frens

SuRfBoY

11 Mar 03, 01:58

Originally posted by kohanson:
go over and ask her about the product she is selling.. then talk to her, ask her alot of questions, den ask her, can you give me your number, i'll contact you later..

gd one...but i went a bit further as to buy something from her...keke...finally got thru my fears...only problem is only to gals working in shops ...others like on the street still dun dare... Twisted Evil

edLow

11 Mar 03, 02:26

I have no problem approaching strangers while I'm working. But during none-working hr, I have problem approaching strangers!

While working, I can actually approach a chio bu with a grp of those pai kia. But when none-working hr.. I tend to like.. wah.. chio bu.. den walk off. hahhaa!

ah tiang

11 Mar 03, 02:57

i defintely nid some help too . ..

Valor

11 Mar 03, 18:04

go up to her n say "u damn pretty! wats ur name?"

Doenitz

13 Mar 03, 22:31

Originally posted by kohanson:
go over and ask her about the product she is selling.. then talk to her, ask her alot of questions, den ask her, can you give me your number, i'll contact you later..

I know this also but if I keep going back to buy,I'll be broke!

duotiga83

13 Mar 03, 22:32

mi dunno...muz learn from u all... Embarassed