Common Relationship Mistakes A Breakup can lead to reflection - a time to review things that we noticed weren't going right but suppressed - many people actually know a relationship is trouble even before it is over. It is hence useful to spend the time after a breakup examining our unconscious feelings and attitudes.
In order to begin to realize your breakup as a learning experience - to see what went wrong and to avoid the same mistakes in the future, you need to look into the roles that you and your ex may have taken in the relationship.

1.The Sloth
Is unromantic, dull or just plain uncaring. Having gotten through the initial 'chase' phase, the sloth gets complacent and puts the relationship on the backburner while he/she keeps up with a busy personal schedule. They often leave their partners guessing, waiting for their call while personal ambitions are pursued. Partners often feel lonely and on the begging end of the relationship.
