Sad And Troubled
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Hello people sorry to interrupt i need some advice pls. Well i recently broke off with my gf of 2 yrs plus and i still felt that i liked her. She wanted this break up and i found out there she is seeing another guys now. The problem is she still acts innocent in front of friends especially those whom she and I knew. Even her closest friends say she's very ungrateful because of the things i did for her during these past 2 yrs. u see i met her while she was real down and i actually consoled her that time before we actually went into this relationship. She depended a lot on me and i made her realize how strong she should be but in e end this is what happens after all that i had done for her. What should i do? I still have to see her once a week or twice maybe damnit.... Many others say forget it. Show her u can live w/o her since she has the heart to do this. If she can do this to do she will do it to others too and she will regret finally.. I really need advice and not some brothers playing a joke or a fool thanks a lot.
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wat sort of advice do you need? wat's the question?
should u chase her back etc etc? or wat?
u seem to already harbour ill-thoughts towards her ungratefulness, so wat's the point in trying to be together again? and btw, love doesn't calculate. when u do, u're not in love anymore. so don't bother.
sorree had to make this short and sharp. i'm kinda busy. take care and welcome to sg girls. -
Ya.. So what are u trying to ask us..??
Anyway.. everday is a learning day...
So perhaps so is this relationship..
Dun feel down, all i can say is to wish that she is happy if u still like her...
Let her know that you are still with her if she need someone to talk to. If u cannot do this den just forget abt her..!!
All e best.. anyway cheers..1!
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forget the past.. remember wat it taught u
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Juz get on with your life..... What u do now will not change this fact
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advice?
try to break up your post.
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heed your friends' advices.Originally posted by Charisma:Hello people sorry to interrupt i need some advice pls. Well i recently broke off with my gf of 2 yrs plus and i still felt that i liked her. She wanted this break up and i found out there she is seeing another guys now. The problem is she still acts innocent in front of friends especially those whom she and I knew. Even her closest friends say she's very ungrateful because of the things i did for her during these past 2 yrs. u see i met her while she was real down and i actually consoled her that time before we actually went into this relationship. She depended a lot on me and i made her realize how strong she should be but in e end this is what happens after all that i had done for her. What should i do? I still have to see her once a week or twice maybe damnit.... Many others say forget it. Show her u can live w/o her since she has the heart to do this. If she can do this to do she will do it to others too and she will regret finally.. I really need advice and not some brothers playing a joke or a fool thanks a lot.
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Think he's a 'GONER'...?Originally posted by jOhO:wat sort of advice do you need? wat's the question?
should u chase her back etc etc? or wat?
u seem to already harbour ill-thoughts towards her ungratefulness, so wat's the point in trying to be together again? and btw, love doesn't calculate. when u do, u're not in love anymore. so don't bother.
sorree had to make this short and sharp. i'm kinda busy. take care and welcome to sg girls.
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do something to keep youeself busy....treat her like normal lor when you see her..... there is nothign much you can do unless you brace yourself up.... no advise is gonno help you pertaining to this issue. You are the question and answer itself!!!
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Dear Charisma,Originally posted by Charisma:Hello people sorry to interrupt i need some advice pls. Well i recently broke off with my gf of 2 yrs plus and i still felt that i liked her. She wanted this break up and i found out there she is seeing another guys now. The problem is she still acts innocent in front of friends especially those whom she and I knew. Even her closest friends say she's very ungrateful because of the things i did for her during these past 2 yrs. u see i met her while she was real down and i actually consoled her that time before we actually went into this relationship. She depended a lot on me and i made her realize how strong she should be but in e end this is what happens after all that i had done for her. What should i do? I still have to see her once a week or twice maybe damnit.... Many others say forget it. Show her u can live w/o her since she has the heart to do this. If she can do this to do she will do it to others too and she will regret finally.. I really need advice and not some brothers playing a joke or a fool thanks a lot.
When people are down and fell from their feets - if you expect gratitude from them, then let me tell you don't attempt in the first place. She did depended alot on you and you bring the best out of herself and regain her steps again.
So what if when her wings healed and she decided to fly away? Does it really matters since in the first place she desire to free herself from this relationship?
In the first place does she really loves you during these 2 years period and not because she just 'NEEDED' someone to be there when she is low? - There are significiant differences and impacts.
Well, maybe you have already sort all that out - but she chose to leave you on the assumption that she lost the original feeling and chemistry for you. Regardless of what you might do - when her feelings is gone, its rather difficult to win her back, because she wants to leave.
Let her go... because the both of you did learn from this relation - which is more important than physical togetherness that speaks nothing of feelings inside.
Cheers