Originally posted by Charisma:
Hello people sorry to interrupt i need some advice pls. Well i recently broke off with my gf of 2 yrs plus and i still felt that i liked her. She wanted this break up and i found out there she is seeing another guys now. The problem is she still acts innocent in front of friends especially those whom she and I knew. Even her closest friends say she's very ungrateful because of the things i did for her during these past 2 yrs. u see i met her while she was real down and i actually consoled her that time before we actually went into this relationship. She depended a lot on me and i made her realize how strong she should be but in e end this is what happens after all that i had done for her. What should i do? I still have to see her once a week or twice maybe damnit.... Many others say forget it. Show her u can live w/o her since she has the heart to do this. If she can do this to do she will do it to others too and she will regret finally.. I really need advice and not some brothers playing a joke or a fool thanks a lot.
Dear Charisma,
When people are down and fell from their feets - if you expect gratitude from them, then let me tell you don't attempt in the first place. She did depended alot on you and you bring the best out of herself and regain her steps again.

So what if when her wings healed and she decided to fly away? Does it really matters since in the first place she desire to free herself from this relationship?

In the first place does she really loves you during these 2 years period and not because she just 'NEEDED' someone to be there when she is low? - There are significiant differences and impacts.
Well, maybe you have already sort all that out - but she chose to leave you on the assumption that she lost the original feeling and chemistry for you. Regardless of what you might do - when her feelings is gone, its rather difficult to win her back, because she
wants to leave.

Let her go... because the both of you did learn from this relation - which is more important than physical togetherness that speaks nothing of feelings inside.

Cheers