How to keep the conversation going ???
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Hi guys
, as the subject stated,I would like to ask for any tips on how to keep the conversation going while chatting with girls lor. B'cause everytime when i try to chat with girls especially the one i like,i get shy and real nervous liao. 
My mind always turns blank when that happens,it always end up in boring conversation or in silent lor. I'm actually very envious of those pros out there who always manage to cheer up the girls . 
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For some people, it comes naturally. If you purposely try to keep a conversation going, most of the time the mood is very artificial.
Just relax and let it be a easy and pleasant conversation. Slowly gather any common topics, interests, or viewpoints that the two of you may share. Expand a bit on it. But try not to 'out-talk' the other person or bore her with your own life experiences. Most people like being listened to more than being the listener. -
Just tok what u want to tok in your heart.
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Thanks for all your valuable tips
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i use to have this problem..... but not anymore...just pretend its just your normal friend and tok crapOriginally posted by Tidus Ace:Hi guys , as the subject stated,I would like to ask for any tips on how to keep the conversation going while chatting with girls lor. B'cause everytime when i try to chat with girls especially the one i like,i get shy and real nervous liao. My mind always turns blank when that happens,it always end up in boring conversation or in silent lor. I'm actually very envious of those pros out there who always manage to cheer up the girls . 
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it is normal lor to be tongue-tie when u are in front of the ger u horn for...Originally posted by Tidus Ace:Hi guys , as the subject stated,I would like to ask for any tips on how to keep the conversation going while chatting with girls lor. B'cause everytime when i try to chat with girls especially the one i like,i get shy and real nervous liao. My mind always turns blank when that happens,it always end up in boring conversation or in silent lor. I'm actually very envious of those pros out there who always manage to cheer up the girls . 
But as time goes by, once u 2 get comfortable wif each other, it gets better...and remember to use condy hor
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Baby sgboy2004 -
yah treat him or her like normal fren~~Originally posted by Wild_Cow:i use to have this problem..... but not anymore...just pretend its just your normal friend and tok crap -
Hm.. listen to her .. ask abt her.. lead her to talk into her favourite things that she like or do...Originally posted by Tidus Ace:Hi guys , as the subject stated,I would like to ask for any tips on how to keep the conversation going while chatting with girls lor. B'cause everytime when i try to chat with girls especially the one i like,i get shy and real nervous liao. My mind always turns blank when that happens,it always end up in boring conversation or in silent lor. I'm actually very envious of those pros out there who always manage to cheer up the girls .
anyway just relax be natural...must let her feel comfortable and relax when eith you... otherwise she might feel weird and ..... -
The best way wld be well-read to tackle qns well & impress the gal with your knowledge. If not, be confident, dun panic & get tongue-tied.
ALWAYS remember to talk less, listen more. Talk only when you need to. Nobody likes someone who TRY too hard to impress, so be yourself & this makes sure that she accepts you for who you are.
Make her feel comfortable. So how can you make sure that she is comfortable? Juz make sure you dun ask sensitive/personal qns unless you've managed to build a rapport gd enuff that she trusts you to reveal abt herself, or you'll be landing yourself in a very embarrassing situation.
When you talk, perhaps, you may like to find out where her interests are, then talk abt it, so you'll have a common topic to share & create this a COMMON GROUND. You wont have to fear there's nothing to talk abt or that she wont like what you are saying.
HOWEVER, do bear in mind that anything that plans too well lack of creativity. Therefore, be spontaneous & sensitive. To be spontaneous, you have to react fast to the things she'd be saying & well, add your opinions or better still, lead to another topic from there. As for sensitive, pls be alert to look out for any discomfort which she maybe experiencing anytime during the conversation. Pause to ask if she minds carry on talking abt the topic. React to her reponse.
As for the rest, wish you GOOD LUCK that you are the guy she's looking for -
man tok cock...woman cun tok...
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Opps remembering during the Valentine day i went too fast and suddenly sms her that i like her liao. Then..... That is Friday i remember,wah very embarrassed that weekend always asking why i went so fast for what .Then Monday that's a lecture that we share the same theatre,so embarrssed to meet her lor. After the lecture i try to talk to her again, We manage to talk a bit like normal times lor . (As she replies that time she is glad to be friends with me) So now i trying to start as friend and leave the rest to fate lor haha. -
Opps remembering during the Valentine day i went too fast and suddenly sms her that i like her liao. Then..... That is Friday i remember,wah very embarrassed that weekend always asking why i went so fast for what .Then Monday that's a lecture that we share the same theatre,so embarrssed to meet her lor. After the lecture i try to talk to her again, We manage to talk a bit like normal times lor . (As she replies that time she is glad to be friends with me) So now i trying to start as friend and leave the rest to fate lor haha.
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try to get her to open up... best if u can mayb tok sumtin abt urself den after shift the target to her and ask her q..
dun ask those short end q like those ans yes or wrong...
ask her tin mayb like if she got tis experience ant or wadever...
try not to be the one talking all the times she will get bored...
den during talking make eye contacts! it applies even when she e one talking...
try not to be too nervous.. 1st few times chatting with gers u might not find much topic but it ok... it normal just give urself more times n after u will be better..
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is there any way to 'suan1' a girl wthout offending her but merely for the purpose of provoking her to 'suan1' me back? may i know what are the best things i can best suan about and those i must avoid?
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Ya i'm now trying to talk to her through the phone first lor. Because until now i am still paisei when talking to her face to face
Maybe when we r comfortable with each other then i ask her out for a movie lor. -
Hmmm...remember when u r chatting with her rite, bear in mind dat she is yr fren. Probably it will help u to relax or maybe u can try to take 3 deep breathes...hmmm no harm trying...Originally posted by Tidus Ace: Opps remembering during the Valentine day i went too fast and suddenly sms her that i like her liao. Then..... That is Friday i remember,wah very embarrassed that weekend always asking why i went so fast for what .Then Monday that's a lecture that we share the same theatre,so embarrssed to meet her lor. After the lecture i try to talk to her again, We manage to talk a bit like normal times lor . (As she replies that time she is glad to be friends with me) So now i trying to start as friend and leave the rest to fate lor haha.