How do u reject someone w/o hurting their feelings?
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I dnt think there is any way you can reject a person's feelings for you, without hurting them to some level.
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realli cannot mei ??Originally posted by skeujin:I dnt think there is any way you can reject a person's feelings for you, without hurting them to some level.
someone tell mi when theres a will theres a way ...
i hope i can find some answers here lay ...... -
reject me isit? no need post de lar...i noe lar...u wanna reject me den say lor...Originally posted by Hitakogi: Care to share?? If theres a will, theres a way .... 
keke
j/k...okie....reject a person...there's actually 1 way lor...
but i wun tell u here....
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if u dnt wana hurt them thn make thm angry with u lor.....Originally posted by Hitakogi:realli cannot mei ??
someone tell mi when theres a will theres a way ...
i hope i can find some answers here lay ......
theres a will theres a way ... yes but sacrifices have to be made along the way.... -
ya true..but mayb try to reject them by saying it in a nice way? or mayb to said i think it best if we remain as frenxs? dun wana risk our persent frenship...Originally posted by skeujin:I dnt think there is any way you can reject a person's feelings for you, without hurting them to some level. -
anyway u wana reject who?Originally posted by Hitakogi: Care to share?? If theres a will, theres a way .... 
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shhhh, he want to reject me oneOriginally posted by aHGer^83:reject me isit? no need post de lar...i noe lar...u wanna reject me den say lor...
keke
j/k...okie....reject a person...there's actually 1 way lor...
but i wun tell u here.... -
i guess to a certain extent u will hurt tat person when u reject her...
even thou it will hurt her..it will be best to tell her straight than to lead her on..cuz as in the long run..u will hurt her more.. -
erm... maybe being direct is the bestOriginally posted by Hitakogi: Care to share?? If theres a will, theres a way .... -
i also wan to know lehz.. can u teach mi?Originally posted by aHGer^83:reject me isit? no need post de lar...i noe lar...u wanna reject me den say lor...
keke
j/k...okie....reject a person...there's actually 1 way lor...
but i wun tell u here.... -
best if we remain as frenxsOriginally posted by Si|verGer:ya true..but mayb try to reject them by saying it in a nice way? or mayb to said i think it best if we remain as frenxs? dun wana risk our persent frenship...
wah kao .. last time i kana reject, this words hurts the mosts!
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No one la...Originally posted by Si|verGer:anyway u wana reject who?
jus preparing myself for the worse if u reject mi ma! lolx.. -
[quote]Originally posted by gogogogo:
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guys rject gers.....
tell her you got new target.
: she tend to compare herself and wanner know whos my target!
tell her you a gay. She knows very well i'm not!
tell her you no money. she say $ isn't important ..
tell her you going overseas, not coming back dun wait. i'm serving Ns now .. how to go overseas?
change your contact numbers. this surely hurts!!
tell her nice nice, explain to her...but can be frens still. thats the worse of all
tell her you married. ur answers r getting to nowhere liao ..
tell her you dying. no need to curse myself rite ?? 
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THx i got ur msg liaoz .. but hor mi still thinking of better ideas ..Originally posted by aHGer^83:reject me isit? no need post de lar...i noe lar...u wanna reject me den say lor...
keke
j/k...okie....reject a person...there's actually 1 way lor...
but i wun tell u here....
hehe .. read on!
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Arrrrrh ...after thinking for 24 hours i'll have come out with the solutions... (1)
Make her tulanz abt You, let her see the Very Bad side of you! (2)
Ask another lady to call her and ask her to give up?
*i know this is realli bad idea*
Is the idea good ?? -
wahhhhOriginally posted by Hitakogi:No one la...
jus preparing myself for the worse if u reject mi ma! lolx.. -
ur first idea like not very good leh..... du lan might be du lan.. but might end up worse.... donno how to say leh.... if she realise u just trying to bluff her... she might come back pester u more....Originally posted by Hitakogi:Arrrrrh ...after thinking for 24 hours i'll have come out with the solutions... (1)
Make her tulanz abt You, let her see the Very Bad side of you! (2)
Ask another lady to call her and ask her to give up?
*i know this is realli bad idea*
Is the idea good ?? -
i think the question here should be, "how do you reject someone and hurt him/her the least".
as how skeujin and mapp|ezz described, its never a painless process. the objective is how you bring it to the lowest level.
imho, tell him/her straight in the face. -
Well, singaporean r very reslistic,Originally posted by edLow:ur first idea like not very good leh..... du lan might be du lan.. but might end up worse.... donno how to say leh.... if she realise u just trying to bluff her... she might come back pester u more....
most of the time, when we r tulanz, we seldom find out the reason behind... it .. -
AGREE!!Originally posted by skeujin:I dnt think there is any way you can reject a person's feelings for you, without hurting them to some level. -
Point taken..it is more to the degree of damage incurred
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avoid avoid avoidOriginally posted by Hitakogi: Care to share?? If theres a will, theres a way .... -
There is no ending if there was nothing to begin with in the first place..LOLx
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i agreed but sumtimes even bcum frenxs e frenship isn't e same like last timeOriginally posted by Hitakogi:best if we remain as frenxs
wah kao .. last time i kana reject, this words hurts the mosts!