shall i slow or fast
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recently just know ager from the net and she have just break off with her bf.shall i started to court her?or go slow and steady?
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suggesting go slow and steady......but is her info of just broke off true???? (since ur meet on net)Originally posted by mr_cool:recently just know ager from the net and she have just break off with her bf.shall i started to court her?or go slow and steady?
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Slow
cos you juz noe her.. might freak her up and appear desperate.. i feel... -
WEll sionce its only recently and from e net.. i guess u would like to spent some time with her now to know more abt her...
dun go rush... go slow with her...
check it out whether does she suit you .... take time to c brudder..!
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*ahem*
I've seen examples of couples who came together after they just broke up with their previous ex.
I can only say that the feeling should be mutual. Since you just know her recently, I would suggest starting out as normal friends first. Whatever happens later, leave it to fate. -
but hor sometime some cruel ppl will say the al flirt or something like tat.......not vry gdOriginally posted by xavier1979:*ahem*
I've seen examples of couples who came together after they just broke up with their previous ex.
I can only say that the feeling should be mutual. Since you just know her recently, I would suggest starting out as normal friends first. Whatever happens later, leave it to fate.
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That is the dilemma... But then, if it is real love, then why be scared of misunderstanding from others? If you are really bothered about what other people think, then I know for sure the relationship will not have a happy outcome in the end.Originally posted by heima:but hor sometime some cruel ppl will say the al flirt or something like tat.......not vry gd -
true true, why care about wat other people say?? if u think u done nothign wrong why dun u just give it a try.. and the rest leave it to fate..
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how do i get started ?Originally posted by rain82:true true, why care about wat other people say?? if u think u done nothign wrong why dun u just give it a try.. and the rest leave it to fate.. 
getting a little bit stupid these day?
waht shall we(me and her) chat about over the phone? -
First things first, build up a good impression of yourself.Originally posted by mr_cool:how do i get started ?
getting a little bit stupid these day?
waht shall we(me and her) chat about over the phone? 
[color=blue]Some little things you can do:
1. An occasional sms to ask how her day was so far.
2. An occasional sms to say 'good morning'.
3. Show EXTRA concern when she feeling unwell or stressed up.
4. Chit chat with her over the phone (short conversations will do).
5. Take note of her likes, dislikes, loves, hates.
6. Know when her birthday is.
7. Remember what irritates her (avoid mentioning them if necessary).
8. Offer to send her home after any outings.
9. Invite her out for a casual dinner or movie (later stage).
10. Give support and encouragement whenever she needs them.
[color=red]Some big things you should NOT do:
1. Not to keep calling or smsing her everyday.
2. Not to stalk around her residential estate.
3. Not to rush to invite her out on a date.
4. Not to buy too expensive stuff for her (initial stage).
5. Not to pester her friends to find out more about her.
6. Not to brag about your own achievements nor downgrade yourself.
7. Not to keep her waiting for you during outings.
8. Not to make own plans for dates without asking for her opinion.
9. Not to exhibit any disgusting habits (no matter how many you have)
10. Not to think about her all day or night (cos there's no pt in doing so). -
come slow coz nw she still in confuse mode even if she accept u so fast does not mean she like u alots wor..
so if u dun want to get hurt nor u wana a false love nor want to pressure her i guess slow is better..
morever u just knw her so it better if u hv in depth understanding b4 u start to make serious courting.. it betetr after u hv indepth understanding den c if she reli ur type or u r her type.. -
eh... for mi la..... i tink u follow ur feeling la.... dun nid slow or fast de.... u tink u can make it den juz do it loh.... den u oso haf to 1st find out tt she like u oso anot?? maybe she treat u as frenz bt u tot she like u den no gd liao.....
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slow or fast depends on how desprate you r now loh...
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dont waste your bloddy time on her .. it will nvr happen ..
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y do u say tt leh?Originally posted by antoh:dont waste your bloddy time on her .. it will nvr happen .. -
jealous.....Originally posted by icyflame:y do u say tt leh? -
do you think career is more important ... be a man and do somethnig you worth while not spending your precious time on gals where you know on Net(pls gimme a break)
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if u like tt say den i tink u wun haf any girlfriend liao.. cos all the gers u noe or ur girlfriend is met thru real life rite?? they r stranger to u at 1st oso ma... so if u nv appoach them or watever, den hw u gt to noe them??Originally posted by antoh:do you think career is more important ... be a man and do somethnig you worth while not spending your precious time on gals where you know on Net(pls gimme a break) -
i mean is those meeting online ...
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so u might tink tt they dunno each other bt den they gt feeling for each other izzit?
bt wat if they send each other pics le leh??
juz like nw here in tis forum.... u oso meet ppl out de ma... izzit tt u r wasting time to tok to mi nw??
i dun wan to fight or quarrel bt juz gif some comment. no offence if i say anything....
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maybe i have mislead ppl here .. what i object is meeting online and be steady even wifout meeting each other ...
i think if both of them has met each other and go out times ... i think is alright ... -
yup yup... eh... juz leave to him n her loh.... none of ur business here rite?? keke..
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well ... i am too bored ...
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mi too..... haha.....