Would you stay with your parents after marriage?
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For me, I would apply for my own flat after marriage. Will let my parents have their own flat for their retirement.
Of cos if my parents insist on staying with me, I won't mind. How about you? -
yup, same for me too..
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buy a bigger house...stay together...
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are you nuts?
i moved a continent away just to break free -
tian xia po xi nan xiang chu.
There are bound to have a lot of arguement if stay together. If possible I wouldn't. -
erm... well.
my parents want me to move out and leave them alone...
sooooo, i guess that answers the question -
mi wld depend on my future hubby lorz... i wouldn't mind staying with my in-laws seriously though...
in case i do a lot of travelling for my job, got someone to take care of my future hubby mah....
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How about getting a 3-storey house..1 level for me and my wife, 1 for my parents and 1 for my wife's parents?
of course that would be e best choice... we got our own privacy n space yet living together.. but i guess i will move away but somewhere within e same area as my parents.. so in case of anything can go back asap. -
that's a gd suggestion.. but in real life, how many can actually afford to do so... haizOriginally posted by GIJOE:How about getting a 3-storey house..1 level for me and my wife, 1 for my parents and 1 for my wife's parents? of course that would be e best choice... we got our own privacy n space yet living together.. but i guess i will move away but somewhere within e same area as my parents.. so in case of anything can go back asap. -
Interesting how things are so different there.
Here...most people move out from their parents at 18 years old (married or not)...and living with parents/wife is extremely rare.... -
i dun mind leaving with in laws.... actually can oso save quite a sum of $ ...Originally posted by xavier1979:For me, I would apply for my own flat after marriage. Will let my parents have their own flat for their retirement.
Of cos if my parents insist on staying with me, I won't mind. How about you?
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hmm, its advisable to have ur own house..
1) avoid 2 gals staying together n have fights
2) wat if ur sibblings cant get married n stay with u
3) more privacy, as in u both can do watever u wan
4) think most gals would wanna have a house of their own
5) having a house also a form of gd investment
n many many more lar.. -
of cousrse oonly son and erm must repay mah
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yeah, my cousin is from U.S., he brought his friends down to visit Singapore last year, i was chattin' with them and they tell me they live alone, do yoga, do some housekeeping...Originally posted by Americandude:Interesting how things are so different there.
Here...most people move out from their parents at 18 years old (married or not)...and living with parents/wife is extremely rare....
its like they have no job yet they live alone man...
amazing, and they're not that old either -
for me i give them money go holiday...Originally posted by Muffins:of cousrse oonly son and erm must repay mah
they prefer it that way. -
hv to sia....Originally posted by xavier1979:For me, I would apply for my own flat after marriage. Will let my parents have their own flat for their retirement.
Of cos if my parents insist on staying with me, I won't mind. How about you? -
i will want 2 ren shi jie......
but will visit parents often -
sama sama.Originally posted by xavier1979:For me, I would apply for my own flat after marriage. Will let my parents have their own flat for their retirement.
Of cos if my parents insist on staying with me, I won't mind. How about you? -
It all depends on the parents. I want to move out, but my parents are kicking a hell of a big fuss, complaining that I am un-filial, pointing their fingers up at heaven and saying that I will get my retribution if I leave them blah blah blah.
sian. -
must be fee-li-al... xiao sun... like that u veri bo sim... like wa eh gia... sob sob...
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trust me ..Originally posted by kopiosatu:erm... well.
my parents want me to move out and leave them alone...
sooooo, i guess that answers the question
your parents doesn't take it to heart when they said that -
ya same but it will be great if can have a bigger hse where everyone can stay together..Originally posted by xavier1979:For me, I would apply for my own flat after marriage. Will let my parents have their own flat for their retirement.
Of cos if my parents insist on staying with me, I won't mind. How about you? -
y ur parent like dat 1?Originally posted by kopiosatu:erm... well.
my parents want me to move out and leave them alone...
sooooo, i guess that answers the question
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but sumtimes some in laws reli v bad one,keep making tins bad n difficult 4 the wife....
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i dunno... to me they've always been different...Originally posted by Si|verGer:y ur parent like dat 1?
anyway i'd prefer to give them cash to go for holidays...