will u do that ......
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lets say u stay east and ur gf stay west ..... will u send her to work every morning ? and pick her after work ???
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if i got personal transport
and sending her to work and picking her up after work is not gona inconvenient me or affect my schedule..
why not?
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pick her up after work is ok. go for dinner and hang around then go home.Originally posted by maxyeo:lets say u stay east and ur gf stay west ..... will u send her to work every morning ? and pick her after work ???
But send her to work also is abit too much. she's got legs rite. don't spoil her. she needs to be independent. -
If i'm driving, i think it shouldn't be a problem ..
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whether its public or pte transport its 2 much of a hassle
imagine da traffic jam and stuff
izzit worth 2 sacrifice/put ur job at risk (risk being always late and losing ur job) 4 her?????
n e ways if a couple treasures each other they wun insist tat da other 1/2 do stuff like tis
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i won't mind whether it is public or personal transportOriginally posted by maxyeo:lets say u stay east and ur gf stay west ..... will u send her to work every morning ? and pick her after work ???
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personal transport also need money for petrol leh....Originally posted by whiteillum:if i got personal transport
and sending her to work and picking her up after work is not gona inconvenient me or affect my schedule..
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agree with u...Originally posted by eyelash curler:pick her up after work is ok. go for dinner and hang around then go home.
But send her to work also is abit too much. she's got legs rite. don't spoil her. she needs to be independent. -
for the honeymoon stage maybe u won't.....but i sure after some time u will sian one......Originally posted by kopiosatu:i won't mind whether it is public or personal transport
I got my personal transport i also sian...... -
oops lemme rephrase...
go to work ah... then she has to be by herself coz i gotta work too...
but if you're saying like going out and sending her home... yeah i'd do that...
but if she's my wife den i guess i'd have to wake up earlier and send her to work -
i give proper response liao, wahahahaah i didn't read the qn properly...Originally posted by chua22:for the honeymoon stage maybe u won't.....but i sure after some time u will sian one......
I got my personal transport i also sian...... -
confirm will! i late i oso will send her to work...not to mention picking her up...unless she sae dowan if not i will...Originally posted by maxyeo:lets say u stay east and ur gf stay west ..... will u send her to work every morning ? and pick her after work ???
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ya.....go out ok lah...but go work cannot lah.....occasionally can lah but everyday leh.......siao meh...Originally posted by kopiosatu:i give proper response liao, wahahahaah i didn't read the qn properly... -
those who can sure got pleanty of time.....
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u mentioned "every". that's a bit impossible.. also got to depends on what time she and u start work also.. image if start work at same time.. travel time leh? even with personal tpt will also b prob.. u think like aeroplane.. speed limited + possible traffic jam... if pick her after work, still okay...Originally posted by maxyeo:lets say u stay east and ur gf stay west ..... will u send her to work every morning ? and pick her after work ??? -
yeah..Originally posted by chua22:agree with u...
finaly someone who agrees with me. -
aiya, you girl mah. you sure say want one.Originally posted by FrozenPig:confirm will! i late i oso will send her to work...not to mention picking her up...unless she sae dowan if not i will... -
hahaah but last time i got go wif a ger living at yishun b4...i everidae send her to work den i go school...den after school i come down to her work place againt to find her....Originally posted by eyelash curler:aiya, you girl mah. you sure say want one. -
I wouldn't mind doing that if i have a car,going to her home and workplace isn't going to be inconvienient or is going to make me late then i dont mind. at least can spend abit more time with her.
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i think just be honest.. most guys will find it a hassle to do that... especially staying at opposite ends of singapore. if she overnight at my place then i will send her... or if i start work later than her by a period of time, i will send her. if not, dont think i will be able to wake up so early to send her, dont wanna end up feeling sleepy e whole day at work also. Knocking off is fine...if e timings allow
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Originally posted by maxyeo:lets say u stay east and ur gf stay west ..... will u send her to work every morning ? and pick her after work ???
wel..i wunt wana over-do it cos ders oways a posibility she might misintepret xcesiv acts of concern as tryin 2 establish an omni-presens in her life, bing over-posesiv or somethin. i feel dat trust is n imperativ elemen in any relatnship.. -
okay...i think lets put it like that. I will not try to send her to work everyday. But maybe once or twice a week. Depends on the schedule. If time dun allow, i dun think i can do anything right? But beward....If u start to fetch her to work even during the honeymoon period...she might get used to it and will expect u to send her to work everyday.
While for picking up after work...Also got to depends on schedule too!! But i will try my best to, if i can! haha... -
This is reasonable la.Originally posted by kopiosatu:oops lemme rephrase...
go to work ah... then she has to be by herself coz i gotta work too...
but if you're saying like going out and sending her home... yeah i'd do that...
but if she's my wife den i guess i'd have to wake up earlier and send her to work
I stay in the east and there used to be this guy who stay at Chinese Garden, would pick me up and sent me to sch at Boon Lay. Then pick me up after sch. Hmmm
ALHOUGH I AM A GIRL.... I did tell him that it wasn't neccessary. Just picking me up after sch and having dinner with me was fine, but he wouldn't listen. URGH for the life of me.
Anyway occasionally, say if you were on leave, sending her to work/sch, would be alright. cos could always rest after that. But if the guy has to work too, then it's kinda absurd
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think mayb at e courting period u will be more persistent but after sumtime e journey is too long n waste alots of time den mayb u can discuss tis prob with ur gf..Originally posted by maxyeo:lets say u stay east and ur gf stay west ..... will u send her to work every morning ? and pick her after work ???
but guess sending home is a must coz she a ger n u shld be responsible to send her home coz wad if she meet any mishaps while going home?
think send her to work is not so impt.. if ur gf luv u alots she will compromise coz she knw u stay so far.. -
I will not. If my gf got show concerns on me, she will not want me their bf to do that.....