How shd really ugly guys find girlfrens?

• mr_cool

  11 May 03, 17:58

  don't keep yawning that make u look ugly
• Xiao Long Nu

  11 May 03, 17:59

  Originally posted by LuvHebe:

  wow...thanks for all yr comments and feelings...i really feel better now...i know not all girls go for looks when they look for boyfrens..but most of them will put that as their 1st priority right? i really dun noe what to do to get a gf..i mean girls at least prefer their boyfrens to be normal looking am i right? but too bad i am just that ugly..with a mole in a wrong position on my face...and i have been overshadowed by that mole...i have been living in the shadow of the mole for 21 years already and i have been struggling to get out of it...someone please help me!!!

  u shld nt look down on urself..as ugly...humans canot choose their looks when born.....some girls see look bt there r many who dn go for looks....is more on the character side...or mayb ur fate is nt yet to come....b patient...is no use tinkin of all these...waste ur time oni.......everyting is fated..
• wuming78

  11 May 03, 18:07

  Originally posted by LuvHebe:

  wow...thanks for all yr comments and feelings...i really feel better now...i know not all girls go for looks when they look for boyfrens..but most of them will put that as their 1st priority right? i really dun noe what to do to get a gf..i mean girls at least prefer their boyfrens to be normal looking am i right? but too bad i am just that ugly..with a mole in a wrong position on my face...and i have been overshadowed by that mole...i have been living in the shadow of the mole for 21 years already and i have been struggling to get out of it...someone please help me!!!

  come on.. im sure there r ppl who r not superficial and jus look at the surface. try to widen ur social circle thru ur frens and get to noe more ppl. tt wil surely increase ur chances
• Si|verGer

  11 May 03, 19:29

  Originally posted by LuvHebe:

  hello there,i would like to know how shd really ugly guys find girlfrens?because i really would like to find a gf to dote on but because i am too ugly i dun have the courage to approach girls..

  guess u hv to use ur sncerity,concern,caring n ur character to outshine others liao
  treat a ger with respect! reli treat them like princess
• Si|verGer

  11 May 03, 19:33

  but then again if u knw u r not those v v gd looking so u can't win or attract a ger attention by using ur exterior den use interior lor but however i must stress...
  e ger u approach or u 1 dun expect too much from it.. dun always go 4 those gd looking or chio gers lor.. if u only go 4 tis type of coz wum get any... if u want them to give u a chance to let them knw u den u shld oso in turn give chance to those not so gd looking gers too!
  beauty is not only exterior!
• Doenitz

  11 May 03, 20:34

  Originally posted by LuvHebe:

  wow...thanks for all yr comments and feelings...i really feel better now...i know not all girls go for looks when they look for boyfrens..but most of them will put that as their 1st priority right? i really dun noe what to do to get a gf..i mean girls at least prefer their boyfrens to be normal looking am i right? but too bad i am just that ugly..with a mole in a wrong position on my face...and i have been overshadowed by that mole...i have been living in the shadow of the mole for 21 years already and i have been struggling to get out of it...someone please help me!!!

  Then go get rid of that mole,period!
  
  There are other aspects of physical appearance besides facial features.Your hairstyle,you dressing,your skin complexion,your physique.So go work on that!
  
  I am an average looking guy,but I have the build and the height,I wear clothes that suits me,my skin complexion is good,my hairstyle is cool.That gives me confidence and that makes gals give me a second look,though my facial features are far far off from that of Francesco Totti or Jerry Yan.
• AzRaeL

  11 May 03, 20:46

  that's easy.
  get really really really really rich
• kopiosatu

  11 May 03, 20:48

  Originally posted by AzRaeL:

  that's easy.
  get really really really really rich

  Good one~!
  
  may i add
  
  That's CORRECT~!
• duotiga83

  11 May 03, 20:49

  this topic demoralise mi......
• kopiosatu

  11 May 03, 20:50

  Originally posted by duotiga83:

  this topic demoralise mi......

  dun worry, i'm already down in the dumps
• duotiga83

  11 May 03, 20:50

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  dun worry, i'm already down in the dumps

  gd....got some1 "pei " wif mi
• LuvHebe

  11 May 03, 23:01

  i have to admit...i am so glad i raise this topic because i get a lot of really meaningful comments...and also happy to know that there are others who feel the same as me...perhaps u people are right, fate has not approach me and i have not seen my perfect girl but i know that when that day come i will treat my girlfren with the most extreme amount of care and i will give her all my love. I have a godsister who say that whoever becomes my girlfren will be very blessed because she say that i am a very caring kind and understanding guy unlike some guys who always take their girlfrens for granted...i just hope what she says is true...
• monnie

  11 May 03, 23:47

  i dunno how to ans u also..
  i feel that bottom line u gotta be lookable, but yandao is no use when getting to know a gal..
  honest! i am kinda good looking also but i never able to get even a contact from a gal a wanna noe, so dun say GF liao.. i dunno why e reason before it but.. hai.. dunno what to say...
  
  maybe money...
• Unity

  12 May 03, 01:17

  Originally posted by LuvHebe:

  wow...thanks for all yr comments and feelings...i really feel better now...i know not all girls go for looks when they look for boyfrens..but most of them will put that as their 1st priority right? i really dun noe what to do to get a gf..i mean girls at least prefer their boyfrens to be normal looking am i right? but too bad i am just that ugly..with a mole in a wrong position on my face...and i have been overshadowed by that mole...i have been living in the shadow of the mole for 21 years already and i have been struggling to get out of it...someone please help me!!!

  Go for mole removal surgery la. Dun moan and groan-find a solution. Skin centre has.
• Unity

  12 May 03, 01:19

  Eh... u all gers say this , then how about volunteering to be LuvHebe's gf?
  OK I'll be the straight one here.
  Looks ARE important!!!
  No denying it. LuvHebe : U lose out in this area, but U'll survive.
  No need gf also can live. but if u really want one, then go build up other strong points, like be rich, be humurous,witty...etc.
  
• jasmine17

  12 May 03, 01:25

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  i am now ROTFL

  What is that ?
• kopiosatu

  12 May 03, 01:42

  Originally posted by jasmine17:

  What is that ?

  Rolling On The Floor Laughing
• eyelash curler

  12 May 03, 03:38

  Originally posted by X-men:

  Let nature take it's course.
  
  Not all couples I saw were of pretty gals and handsome guys. I do see extremely beautiful gal with a rather 'ugly' guy. (fat and pimplely with a spare tyre in the mid section)
  
  Most importantly is to be yourself and someone will notice your 'beauty' someday.

  Maybe you saw me and my bf. Ha ha ha
• eyelash curler

  12 May 03, 03:53

  These might be something you want to know
  
  Hang around with lots of girls. But be yourself. Meanwhile, build up you good points and confidence. Make yourself aceptable amount them. When you found a target, don't tell anyone and don't show out your feelings. Let herself feel your care, concern ... She will feel comfortable being with you. Make her like you and when you feel it, MAKE YOUR MOVE.
  It might take quite some time and you might fail. But what's there to lose? Try again and you'll have more confident and experience.
  
  There are lots of stategy in these kind of things. Do get back to us to about your progress.
• dark_slayer79

  12 May 03, 03:54

  alot of stategies??? haha... can share?
• Transmission

  12 May 03, 04:08

  
  well...
  i love my frens... they are great...
  
  
  As for finding a gf ...
  Luvhebe... it doesn't really matters lah .....
  dun find gf... find alot of friends.........
  
  at least thats what i feel ...
  
• LuvHebe

  12 May 03, 19:42

  Originally posted by Unity:

  Eh... u all gers say this , then how about volunteering to be LuvHebe's gf?
  OK I'll be the straight one here.
  Looks ARE important!!!
  No denying it. LuvHebe : U lose out in this area, but U'll survive.
  No need gf also can live. but if u really want one, then go build up other strong points, like be rich, be humurous,witty...etc.
  

  see what i mean....girls do prefer their boyfrens with at least normal or average looks...haiz...
• LuvHebe

  12 May 03, 19:47

  Originally posted by Unity:

  Go for mole removal surgery la. Dun moan and groan-find a solution. Skin centre has.

  this world is really so unfair..why are some ppl born to be so nice looking while others are born in such an ugly manner...how come there is such a difference?
  
  go for mole removal surgery?this means i am not 100% original...i dun wanna present a fake "me" to my future gf...if i have one of course...
  
  this is an unfair world! i hate this world!!!
• J fellow

  13 May 03, 03:14

  have it occured to u that when u look at a person... u just feel vvery comfortable wif him/her. instantly u feel the kindness in him.
  
  as the saying goes....
  
  a ugly heart makes one ugly,
  a beautiful heart makes a person beautiful.
  
  if u dont bear grudges against anyone or things... u will feel lighthearted and ultimately happier..
  
  if u help others, ppl help for u too. u will feel wanted and ultimately happier..
  
  if u care for others, ppl will care for too. u will feel bliss and ultimately happier..
  
  if u got a beautiful heart...
  u will be delighted to see ppl happy
  ur eyes will sparkled with love for others
  ur actions will speak with care for others
  ur expressions will show concern for others...
  
  put these together.... the beautiful u will engulf ur not that perfect features.... ultimately, ppl see ur heart not ur looks...
  
  er... talk cock only lah...
  
  
• J fellow

  13 May 03, 03:15

  er... but think u better remove the mole....