how to be more confident?
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sometimes i c some ppl reli v confident of themselves.. really envy them.. wonder how they did it? any ideas?
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its the upbringing...
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How are these people confident? Give examples?Originally posted by Si|verGer:sometimes i c some ppl reli v confident of themselves.. really envy them.. wonder how they did it? any ideas? -
i guess confidence come when u feel more optimistic towards the tings tat u r goin to do?
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i was thinking...Originally posted by mapp|ezz:i guess confidence come when u feel more optimistic towards the tings tat u r goin to do?
decisive people. -
i dun think so leh.......
ppl can say i'm a confident person
but i'm actually not confident
it has got nothing to do with family upbringing
but i think it has got to do with trust in your own abilities, and great achievements will no doubt increase your confidence in certain areas -
okay okay
how to be confident??
read a self-help book
which gets me thinking...
if ur getting self-help... you can do it urself...
so u dun need any help in the first place~!
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These people knows what drains their confidences, improve on it and the confidence just flow.Originally posted by Si|verGer:sometimes i c some ppl reli v confident of themselves.. really envy them.. wonder how they did it? any ideas? -
like a PUB longkang?Originally posted by Yunhaier:These people knows what drains their confidences, improve on it and the confidence just flow. -
u do not necessary need to read self-help booksOriginally posted by kopiosatu:okay okay
how to be confident??
read a self-help book
which gets me thinking...
if ur getting self-help... you can do it urself...
so u dun need any help in the first place~!
basically expose yourself to all the things in the world.....when u felt that u have seen the world at least up til the point where u wanna see, think abt it, think abt yourself, think abt everything around u and see how to improve and be a better person. once u have been SUCCESSFUL in being a better person, naturally u'll be more confident abt yourself naturally.
i think that a total stranger's compliments helps a lot in bringing abt confidence in yourself -
well that will take some time if you're going by experience in the outside world...Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:u do not necessary need to read self-help books
basically expose yourself to all the things in the world.....when u felt that u have seen the world at least up til the point where u wanna see, think abt it, think abt yourself, think abt everything around u and see how to improve and be a better person. once u have been SUCCESSFUL in being a better person, naturally u'll be more confident abt yourself naturally.
i think that a total stranger's compliments helps a lot in bringing abt confidence in yourself -
Confidence is very simple. It all starts only when you can accept urself as it is. Confident people (different from boastful or unrealistic people) never thinks he/she is worse than another person because he/she is born this way and so this the best for him/her. Confident people never sees failure in work, studies or any thing as a failure in life. Confident people believes that they can excel in life if they only take time to explore their strengths.
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confident of themselves lor or e thing they do...Originally posted by Doenitz:How are these people confident? Give examples? -
i tink u mean decisive rite...Originally posted by Si|verGer:confident of themselves lor or e thing they do...
coz they are sure abt what they do -
ya somehow i think decisive ppl r more likely to be more confident type.. think they r more confident or knw wad they reli wants..Originally posted by kopiosatu:i was thinking...
decisive people.
not many ppl knw wad they reli wants.. -
so r u a confident person?Originally posted by Yunhaier:These people knows what drains their confidences, improve on it and the confidence just flow. -
hmmm, decisive people doesnt mean they are confident. It just mean that they dun like to drag their feets but able to give a decision fast. The test then is not in whether how fast he can make a decision, but the real test is how a person responds even if he keeps making decisions that are wrong.Originally posted by Si|verGer:ya somehow i think decisive ppl r more likely to be more confident type.. think they r more confident or knw wad they reli wants..
not many ppl knw wad they reli wants.. -
do u know what u want?Originally posted by Si|verGer:ya somehow i think decisive ppl r more likely to be more confident type.. think they r more confident or knw wad they reli wants..
not many ppl knw wad they reli wants.. -
expose urself to see more thing can mayb make u more mature n catious abrt e thing u do n thus mayb a better person but dun necessary mean it will make u a more confidence person coz sumtimes dat r sum experience wic will detoriate ur confidence level too..Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:u do not necessary need to read self-help books
basically expose yourself to all the things in the world.....when u felt that u have seen the world at least up til the point where u wanna see, think abt it, think abt yourself, think abt everything around u and see how to improve and be a better person. once u have been SUCCESSFUL in being a better person, naturally u'll be more confident abt yourself naturally.
i think that a total stranger's compliments helps a lot in bringing abt confidence in yourself -
Confident...? Maybe U look at da mirror & see for yrself... Theres no wae to TELL sum1 how to be confident exactly... U have to try it yrself...Originally posted by Si|verGer:sometimes i c some ppl reli v confident of themselves.. really envy them.. wonder how they did it? any ideas?
Being confident is dat U dun care wat other ppl see & tink of U... U juz be comfortable abt yrself loh... -
i cannot agree more on this man. if u cannot accept yourself, u will never be able to achieve confidence.Originally posted by gasband:Confidence is very simple. It all starts only when you can accept urself as it is. Confident people (different from boastful or unrealistic people) never thinks he/she is worse than another person because he/she is born this way and so this the best for him/her. Confident people never sees failure in work, studies or any thing as a failure in life. Confident people believes that they can excel in life if they only take time to explore their strengths. -
if your experience made u lose confidence, then it's more or less failure to meet your own expectations or other ppl's expectations, which means u do not have what it takes to be confident. to be confident = u must be 'ei gan' to a certain degree. if u r 'gey gan', u will not most probably meet expectations and as gasband says u might be a unrealistic person instead of faking or not having confidence or whatsoever. confidence need to be built up, not gained overniteOriginally posted by Si|verGer:expose urself to see more thing can mayb make u more mature n catious abrt e thing u do n thus mayb a better person but dun necessary mean it will make u a more confidence person coz sumtimes dat r sum experience wic will detoriate ur confidence level too.. -
experience + how a person decides to apply his experiences in life to improve himself?
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err......jus belief dat ur pretty, ur high class, ur smart, ur mature n everiting u wear n carry is branded (pretend it is even thou it isnt) hahaha...i tink a bit too hao lian le....Originally posted by Si|verGer:sometimes i c some ppl reli v confident of themselves.. really envy them.. wonder how they did it? any ideas? -
that would be 'boastful' liao.....overconfidence = hao lian lor.....but sometimes by been normally confident, those ultra-low confidence ppl will think u r hao lian 1......because they r ultra-low confidenceOriginally posted by FrozenPig:err......jus belief dat ur pretty, ur high class, ur smart, ur mature n everiting u wear n carry is branded (pretend it is even thou it isnt) hahaha...i tink a bit too hao lian le....