Do fat people lose out?

• winterspring

  16 May 03, 10:35

  Do fat people lose out in finding relationships?

  
  
  What is your thought?
• skinnybeanie

  16 May 03, 10:38

  i dun really think so. Am sure different sizes appeal to different pple. I know of guys who prefer chubbier girls because they think there's more to hold. Also how u carry yourself makes a big difference.
  
• sillyme

  16 May 03, 10:42

  nah.. i have friends who are happily married.. they are ppl with great character and personalities
• jOhO

  16 May 03, 10:43

  i'm pretty fat.. or REALLY REALLY getting there.. *sigh*
  
  but no leh.. i still feel ok when it comes to relns or getting them. doesn't really bother me. but if i become OBESE then different lar..
  
  thank goodness gals (in GENERAL!!) place less emphasis on looks than guys.. *phew*
• sillyme

  16 May 03, 10:46

  joho is a good example.. great humour, great in photography, great in expressing himself in writing..
• Inzaghi

  16 May 03, 10:46

  wat's the definition of being fat??....over 100kg or wat??...
  
  have u seen those over sized pple having a wonderful r/s, n those who r slim but kanna passed ard in r/s??...
• skinnybeanie

  16 May 03, 10:49

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  wat's the definition of being fat??....over 100kg or wat??...
  
  have u seen those over sized pple having a wonderful r/s, n those who r slim but kanna passed ard in r/s??...

  i've got a slim gal pal who used to be a air-hostess, but yet never managed to settle down cuz she can't seems to meet the right guy. So that much for being slim n pretty..
• jOhO

  16 May 03, 10:52

  Originally posted by sillyme:

  joho is a good example.. great humour, great in photography, great in expressing himself in writing..

  eh... good example of wat? a fat person losing out in relns?
  
  
  
  other than that thanx for ur compliments. extremely flattered.
• sillyme

  16 May 03, 10:53

  ya... look at the celebrities.. especially hollywood... pretty ppl but rarely do their marriages last...
• winterspring

  16 May 03, 10:53

  Well..... it's depend on fate as whether they find their love ones soon or later. Fat people are more cheerful & easygoing. But i think it takes a longer time to find someone that can accept their figure as well.
• skinnybeanie

  16 May 03, 10:54

  in the end, it's a good personality that counts. Looks will fade, size will also fluctuate. But a good personality will stay and gets better thru age.
• Inzaghi

  16 May 03, 10:55

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  i've got a slim gal pal who used to be a air-hostess, but yet never managed to settle down cuz she can't seems to meet the right guy. So that much for being slim n pretty..

  its always tat case...if u r slim n pretty, u can many choices..so u r hoping to get the best out of all...den u wait n wait..but den u notice u r coming to an end road, den u kinda tell urself u must get the next one..but the good one already all gone by now..
  
  
• skinnybeanie

  16 May 03, 11:01

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  its always tat case...if u r slim n pretty, u can many choices..so u r hoping to get the best out of all...den u wait n wait..but den u notice u r coming to an end road, den u kinda tell urself u must get the next one..but the good one already all gone by now..
  
  

  Actually tats not the case.. my fren is v realistic and not choosy at all. But juz tat she keeps meeting the wrong pple. They are either single but treat her like trash or married but treats her v well. Either case, it's no good ending. Even the fortune teller says she got tao hua yun. Poor girl
• jOhO

  16 May 03, 11:02

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  in the end, it's a good personality that counts. Looks will fade, size will also fluctuate. But a good personality will stay and gets better thru age.

  whooo.... well said..!
• Master -_-

  16 May 03, 11:04

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  whooo.... well said..!

  rhymes too
• Inzaghi

  16 May 03, 11:07

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  Actually tats not the case.. my fren is v realistic and not choosy at all. But juz tat she keeps meeting the wrong pple. They are either single but treat her like trash or married but treats her v well. Either case, it's no good ending. Even the fortune teller says she got tao hua yun. Poor girl

  err..something rather wrong here right??...y single treat her like thrash n married treat her very good??..of cos we know wat the married are up to..is it cos of her character tat single choose not to hitch her?...
  
  there's this saying...wanna marry, dun marry those slim n pretty one, cos u r inviting trouble..but for married one, go for those slim n pretty one..hehe
• skinnybeanie

  16 May 03, 11:07

  Originally posted by Master -_-:

  rhymes too

  i juz noticed that...
• jOhO

  16 May 03, 11:09

  Originally posted by Master -_-:

  rhymes too

  yeah lor! ehehhe, no wonder it sounded so "shun"
  
  erm.. shun means eh... natural, flowing... in chinese.
• Master -_-

  16 May 03, 11:10

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  yeah lor! ehehhe, no wonder it sounded so "shun"
  
  erm.. shun means eh... natural, flowing... in chinese.

  v
• Xiao Long Nu

  16 May 03, 11:30

  iheng been a nun no need to be thin...
• kopiosatu

  16 May 03, 11:48

  fat ppl get all the chio gers. hahahahahaha
• Tutu Kueh

  16 May 03, 12:07

  
  
  
  
  
• audlenelee

  16 May 03, 12:27

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  wat's the definition of being fat??....over 100kg or wat??...
  
  have u seen those over sized pple having a wonderful r/s, n those who r slim but kanna passed ard in r/s??...

  like me...
• skinnybeanie

  16 May 03, 12:59

  Originally posted by audlenelee:

  like me...

  ms piggy definitely chio and full of womanly charm!
• joe82

  16 May 03, 13:21

  think being too thin's more of a problem than being fat...