how to jio gals on the street? wat is the best way?
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agree...1 of my squadmate told mi there tis time he help his friend 2 ask 4 no. the gal gif him 2 no.Originally posted by *evanesence*:Oh & a word of advice, dun ask your friends to help you, DO IT YOOURSELF... prove tt you've got the balls... else it's very insincere and if your fren is cuter, the girl might just end up more interested in him than you...
the real no 4 him,the fake 4 his friend.however,he didnt call her cos he hav gf liao. -
mmm... no wonder, that ger kept on sms me bout didnt give a hood bout my friend... too bad i got a gf liao..Originally posted by *evanesence*:Well, Im not trying to discourage you but just being realistic here.. If you got the looks, you would have 99% chances of getting any girl's no. That's the way life is... *shrugs*
And about some1 who said some girls look shocked or afraid when approached, it might be cause the guy looks scary or intimidating, well, that's from MY personal point of view..
Oh & a word of advice, dun ask your friends to help you, DO IT YOOURSELF... prove tt you've got the balls... else it's very insincere and if your fren is cuter, the girl might just end up more interested in him than you...
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maybe they're asking your number to warn others about a berserk orang utan dangering people at Orchard Road....
Originally posted by HystericalDustdevil:
Izit?? 
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wow...I'm quite in the same situation as u're in...but the difference is that guys always ask num from me.... 
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i agree with you... at least you got 0.0000001% chance if you asked. like i say below... don't try, don't know....Originally posted by joe82:if u want her number, go ask frm her, if u dun have guts then u have urself to blame if u happen to feel like crap later on...
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i don't really agree with you... some gers r really very strange.... once you ask for their numbers they'll run away.. even if they don't, they'll somehow avoid you... it's like playing hard to get.... they r like want you to persist and try harder...
And about some1 who said some girls look shocked or afraid when approached, it might be cause the guy looks scary or intimidating, well, that's from MY personal point of view.. -
Here's one simple tip for all males
If a girl ignores you, tries to or even avoid you completely, just to play HARD TO GET... my suggestion is:
- Ignore Her. (just do it, regardless how much you like her)
- Treat her as a normal friend. (If she starts approaching you to chat, ask questions or whatever... otherwise, still ignore her) What's the point of wasting your energy when she's avoiding you? Though she may want to gain some attention, but ONLY if you know her thinking well, I have nothing to say. But if not, I suggest using back the old trick. -
juz go up and askOriginally posted by lonetree:i alway wanted to get hp no of chiobu at orchard or watsoever..
i believe many also hope tt rite?
but then hesitate on how to break the ice...
so voice ur view..help the rest of the male population!!
no need scaared...
/me back u up........
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then u should market urself......Originally posted by eggyoke:i don't really agree with you... some gers r really very strange.... once you ask for their numbers they'll run away.. even if they don't, they'll somehow avoid you... it's like playing hard to get.... they r like want you to persist and try harder...
And about some1 who said some girls look shocked or afraid when approached, it might be cause the guy looks scary or intimidating, well, that's from MY personal point of view..
by singing " wo heng chou, ke shi wo heng wen rou"
hopefully can get la... -
you sure like that will work or not scully you turn the tables... she may think you're not interested in her and you're just playing around...
Originally posted by vasily:
[b]Here's one simple tip for all males
If a girl ignores you, tries to or even avoid you completely, just to play HARD TO GET... my suggestion is:
- Ignore Her. (just do it, regardless how much you like her)
- Treat her as a normal friend. (If she starts approaching you to chat, ask questions or whatever... otherwise, still ignore her) What's the point of wasting your energy when she's avoiding you? Though she may want to gain some attention, but ONLY if you know her thinking well, I have nothing to say. But if not, I suggest using back the old trick. [/b] -
sorri you then heng chou....Originally posted by abterror:then u should market urself......
by singing " wo heng chou, ke shi wo heng wen rou"
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eh den u shld ask NUMBER 4~!!Originally posted by BoYisHbOy:juz go up and ask
no need scaared...
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you sure like that will work or not scully you turn the tables... she may think you're not interested in her and you're just playing around...
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You know what I think?The answer is no.
In my opinion, the more she avoid you, the more you should ignore her. After all, if she's yours, she'll be yours. If not, then it's time to move on. If you're interested in her, she'll definitely know. Why? She avoids you!!! That's why she know you already interested in her. If you hadn't interested in her in the first place, why would she avoid you??? She siao wan ar??? No lor definitely. Just ignore her, one day... i mean ONE FINE DAY, she'll perhaps go and talk to you wan... the first few predictable questions she'll ask will be perhaps: "Why are you so cold towards me?" Hehehe......
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vasily sibey colourful ah~
my eyes pain liao 
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hmm... don know if i should take your words for it or not leh.... but what i/we afraid if thar ONE FINE DAY... yes she will come and talk to you.. but it's "C'mon ger, call uncle XXX..." then we squeeze balls....Originally posted by vasily:
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You know what I think?The answer is no. In my opinion, the more she avoid you, the more you should ignore her. After all, if she's yours, she'll be yours. If not, then it's time to move on. If you're interested in her, she'll definitely know. Why? She avoids you!!! That's why she know you already interested in her. If you hadn't interested in her in the first place, why would she avoid you??? She siao wan ar??? No lor definitely. Just ignore her, one day... i mean ONE FINE DAY, she'll perhaps go and talk to you wan... the first few predictable questions she'll ask will be perhaps: "Why are you so cold towards me?" Hehehe......
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cannot le ppl got bf liao hehehehe..........Originally posted by kopiosatu:eh den u shld ask NUMBER 4~!! -
got bf, not married...~!! got chance!!!Originally posted by BoYisHbOy:cannot le ppl got bf liao hehehehe.......... -
Do you mean that once you approach them, they run away OR after you have got their no. then they run away??Originally posted by eggyoke:i don't really agree with you... some gers r really very strange.... once you ask for their numbers they'll run away.. even if they don't, they'll somehow avoid you... it's like playing hard to get.... they r like want you to persist and try harder...
From personal experiences, if I think a guy is gonna ask for my no., and Im not interested, I would leave the area immediately, so both parties wun feel so awkard later on when I reject him...
Or if i din expect it, I would reject him politely... sometimes it's not becuz I wanna play hard to get, it's cuz im uninterested & am already attached... but some guys think otherwise and keep on following you around..
I believe my friends react in the same way too (from my personal observation)...we try to avoid such situations by leaving the area (if possible)... n of cuz, making sure that the guy didn't see us leave.. haha..
Maybe sometimes guys think that our actions mean that we are playing hard to get, but sorry we are just uninterested... esp.when we reject you politely, pls scram...and stop following us from shop to shop.. some go to the extend of waiting outside the ladies... since tt's one place guys can follow u in! -
Ok, lonetree... Here's an example...Originally posted by Si|verGer:try to be polite dun sound like a despo dun be rude n loud..
den dun smoke while talking make eye contact...
*To Silvergal*
I noe dis is crazy, but I cant help noticing how yr clothes compliment U... U r attractive & I wld like to noe U more... Is it alrite we exchange phone numbers? Its alrite if U dun wanna.
OR...
Of ALL da gals in dis place, I dunno Y my eyes r focused onto U... Maybe dis is fate? Maybe I was lucky enuf to look at a gracious & beautiful flower among grasses? Or maybe theres some chemistry btwn us? I noe dis sounds absurb & U may tink I mad... but its from da bottom of my heart... I wanna noe U more... Can exchange phone numbers?
Ok... U ppl may tink, "Wah...... Loneryu00 so siao or wat..." But frankly speaking... I dun do those I mentioned or others mentioned... Dun ask me y... (I tin I noe Y... I tink I shy...
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wat if the gal in return say
y nt u gif mi ur no. i will call u.
tis is oso as uninterested rite??? -
think most imp is that u must appear at least clean cut.. impression counts, my gf also tells me like this disgusting/ugly/pervert approach her..
when u dont leave a good impression, doubt u get a good chance in future...
of course for ah lians.... u must not talk too much, and always try to stand in one corner and smoke by urself... hee.. they love it!! maybe andy lau perfected it.... -
juz be neat in appearance will have chance 1 la........
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what i mean is once you asked for their numbers, they'll run away... but if you dun asked and just talk to them, they can sound so friendly.... some can even joke with you... but once "Can i have you number?" They turn and run away....
Gers are really funny creatures..... Originally posted by *evanesence*:Do you mean that once you approach them, they run away OR after you have got their no. then they run away??
From personal experiences, if I think a guy is gonna ask for my no., and Im not interested, I would leave the area immediately, so both parties wun feel so awkard later on when I reject him...
Or if i din expect it, I would reject him politely... sometimes it's not becuz I wanna play hard to get, it's cuz im uninterested & am already attached... but some guys think otherwise and keep on following you around..
I believe my friends react in the same way too (from my personal observation)...we try to avoid such situations by leaving the area (if possible)... n of cuz, making sure that the guy didn't see us leave.. haha..
Maybe sometimes guys think that our actions mean that we are playing hard to get, but sorry we are just uninterested... esp.when we reject you politely, pls scram...and stop following us from shop to shop.. some go to the extend of waiting outside the ladies... since tt's one place guys can follow u in! -
Most of the time,she would nv call...Originally posted by FiRe_BLaDe:wat if the gal in return say
y nt u gif mi ur no. i will call u.
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Sometimes i tink the ah lian wld approach the guy herself!!!Originally posted by J fellow:think most imp is that u must appear at least clean cut.. impression counts, my gf also tells me like this disgusting/ugly/pervert approach her..
when u dont leave a good impression, doubt u get a good chance in future...
of course for ah lians.... u must not talk too much, and always try to stand in one corner and smoke by urself... hee.. they love it!! maybe andy lau perfected it.... -
ya loh...i feel tat if nvr call then dnt say mayb will call.Originally posted by *evanesence*:Most of the time,she would nv call...
although noe the ans liao bt will still wait,hopefulli she will call...