Originally posted by [Wave]:
What is love? Is unconditional love the only love that can be considered in a relationship? If your partner was caught dating someone else, doing some naughty things, will you forgive him/her? If he/she decides to leave you, for another person or another reason watsoever, would you go down on your knees and beg? And if he/she goes to someone else, comes back to you in a couple of months and asks for forgiveness, will you welcome him/her back into your arms? If you can forgive all these, does this really then mean you really love the person?
points to ponder
Love is a feeling tat cannot be defined. If love is defined, it wouldn't be love. I can't tolerate betrayal. He can leave me for someone else, the tendency of him doing the same again is quite high. Why would I put myself in such a disadvantaged position?
If ever he comes back begging for forgiveness, I may forgive him but I'll never forget it and I'll never take him back.
Able to forgive the betrayal doesn't mean u really love tat person. It only shows that u allow him to hurt u again, if he wants to, HOWEVER if u hate him, it means u love him.
When there's no love, where does hate comes from?
