Perseverance and wooing gals
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The gal not interested in being more than friends with the guy.The guy persevered and in the end,managed to win her heart through his sincerity and determination.I personally know of a few cases where such a thing happened.
In fact,I learned of such a case yesterday.This gal was besotted with my friend and she did all sorts of nice things for him like showing up at his house with breakfast.My friend became pissed off by her persistence and began to dislike her.To cut a long story short,they are a couple now.
What do you people feel about using perseverance and sincerity to touch the heart of the gal(or guy) you like? Any experience to share? -
I think it shouldnt be an issue of persevering? It should be an issue of making an interest and seeing if it is interest on both sides? I mean what is yours is yours even if you persevere and eventually land her but one day finds out that you both are incompatible then arent you wasting your efforts for nothing. I think it is still better to get to know the person first. After all if she knows you well enough and you know her well enough chances are that you will not only be able to form a nice relationship but one that could actually lead on to bigger things.
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oh sorry just to add one more thing. I personally know of such an incident. My good friend (gal) was wooed very persistently and with superb determination by her ex-bf. Went on for a quite a number of years but eventually he decided to break up because he felt they werent right. So i guess the ancient saying of.."whats yours will be yours".. no point forcing the issue.
Of course, there are exceptions but its way too indepth to get into. I am merely suggesting a more favorable form of action. Cheers~ -
met her mom,
impressed her mom
made her mom do the convincing for me -
congrats............
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perserve is good if e other party is not attached...learn that very recently........
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Lol...congrats!!!Originally posted by AzRaeL:met her mom,
impressed her mom
made her mom do the convincing for me
Good one there....can ask my guy friends to consider this tactic... -
I impressed her mum.. but guess what her mum said?Originally posted by Sarah_X:Lol...congrats!!! Good one there....can ask my guy friends to consider this tactic...
She said she can tell that i am a nice guy. She advise me not to input so much effort into her as she is a heart- breaker.
her mom doesnt wanna see her daughter feelings with guys feelings cos she very fast sian...
And that she is a faliure as she did not nuture her daughter well.
This was what her mom told me when i first enter her hse and when my ex gf was bathing...
What e hell right...!!!!!
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Den you tell her mum u also heart breaker lo..Originally posted by [ X ] & [ L ]:I impressed her mum.. but guess what her mum said?
She said she can tell that i am a nice guy. She advise me not to input so much effort into her as she is a heart- breaker.
her mom doesnt wanna see her daughter feelings with guys feelings cos she very fast sian...
And that she is a faliure as she did not nuture her daughter well.
This was what her mom told me when i first enter her hse and when my ex gf was bathing...
What e hell right...!!!!! Say nan huan nu ai... hao lai hao shan...kekeke -
I personally experinced this kind of thing also.
my ex was after me for exactly a year. Initially I had no feelings for him but slowly I feel that he's quite a nice guy. he is so much taller than me and he never met any of my requirement for a bf. eventually we became very close friends and we became a couple.
I broke off with him 1 year later when I met a guy that i know i like
in the first place, he never was the kind of guy i will like. maybe i was with him out of tong qing. I feel that we look funny when we were out together. i saw our reflection on glass or mirrow and i actually feel embarrassed. he is so soft and i don't like his boastful ways.
but now, I'm with my current bf of 3 years. he's fat and ugly and i am not embarrassed at all.
I feel that when the unwilling party gives in and agree to be a couple, the forced person be trying to love and acept the relationship. but he/she will still see the bad things like she not goodlooking enough, he's shorter than me, he's abit sissy, she's fat.
we tend to sian the person. and the sian will not go away cos he/she's not the right person for you. -
my current bf oso use e same method. before dat he was in e same class as i was. but i din even noe dis person existed until he called mi one dae. we never tok b4 at all for 3 yrs in e same class. den at sec 4 dat time he called mi suddenly n brainwash mi EVERIDAE wif "i realli like u....blah blah blah" its everidae. den.....he succeeded.
hahaha farnee sia...at first i oso dislike him a lot. but den it let mi noe dat dis is e one person i will spend my life wif. -
So sweet.......Originally posted by FrozenPig:my current bf oso use e same method. before dat he was in e same class as i was. but i din even noe dis person existed until he called mi one dae. we never tok b4 at all for 3 yrs in e same class. den at sec 4 dat time he called mi suddenly n brainwash mi EVERIDAE wif "i realli like u....blah blah blah" its everidae. den.....he succeeded.
hahaha farnee sia...at first i oso dislike him a lot. but den it let mi noe dat dis is e one person i will spend my life wif.