Still Bachelor after 30s

• BoYisHbOy

  4 Jun 03, 08:42

  dun ever give up........
  
  hopeee is there!
• Gallen1616

  8 Jun 03, 19:04

  Me counting towards 30 too, gfless for more than 27 years now.....haiz, feel like a factory reject, no matter how i try, also tio reject =(
  gals see my photo, see my face sian 1/2.........
  
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• bus

  8 Jun 03, 20:44

  Gallen1616: Me counting towards 30 too, gfless for more than 27 years now.....haiz, feel like a factory reject, no matter how i try, also tio reject =(
  gals see my photo, see my face sian 1/2.........
  
  
  
  Did U all single guys out there observed that sometime when U seen a couple along the road, please take a look at the guy, U will observe that the guy with that gal might be even worst looking than U! (no joke) and the gal is of a rather good looking type. I can only say that these guys are blessed with good luck.
  
  I believed in luck with the gals. U need this special thing to make things happen. Agree with me?
  
  Many things are unexplainable in life.
  
  From Gallen1616's comments, I can say that gals do choose/judge the LOOKS of the guys. We guys placed so much emphasis on the LOOKS of the gals & gals also behave the same what? How come they complained we guys only judge the LOOKS of the gals & not their characters?
• bus

  9 Jun 03, 22:28

  
  
  Any comments from Gallen1616? U seem to be disppeared from this forum.
  
  Anyone can also chip in to give your valuable comments
• the Bear

  9 Jun 03, 22:37

  better be alone that be with someone you do not love.. and does not love you...
  
  you'll find her
• lifegoeson

  10 Jun 03, 17:17

  
  Hi All, my two cents worth comments:
  me few months more to the big "3"..but still gf less..Nowadays its really difficult to find that "special" one..someone you wanted to share your joy, achievements and sorrow at times, someone to grow and learn with you...sometimes that person seems to be what you have been looking for a long time..but unfortunately the feeling is not mutual, only one sided..what to do ..life goes on...the more I think the lower is my morale...but if someone special really comes by, ....at least must try..but until then....not much hope....perhaps..
  
  Cheers!
  LGO
• Inzaghi

  10 Jun 03, 17:33

  Originally posted by lifegoeson:

  
  Hi All, my two cents worth comments:
  me few months more to the big "3"..but still gf less..Nowadays its really difficult to find that "special" one..someone you wanted to share your joy, achievements and sorrow at times, someone to grow and learn with you...sometimes that person seems to be what you have been looking for a long time..but unfortunately the feeling is not mutual, only one sided..what to do ..life goes on...the more I think the lower is my morale...but if someone special really comes by, ....at least must try..but until then....not much hope....perhaps..
  
  Cheers!
  LGO

  u saw last sun straits times??..got 3 bachelor go viet find wife..wah, also can kanna 4D!!!....
  
  so maybe u can consider lar...got one guy only 28yo leh..
• deBaser

  10 Jun 03, 20:49

  Giving up? Gotta be kidding rite? Life begins at 30!
• greyskymorning

  11 Jun 03, 07:20

  me pass 30...still single, unattach
  no woman no cry
• connoisseur

  11 Jun 03, 09:13

  I was 30 years old when I started dating my wife. So why give up at 30?
  Don't give up.
  
• Xiao Long Nu

  11 Jun 03, 09:24

  dn giv up.....mus remember after bachelor u can do master
• Gallen1616

  11 Jun 03, 09:33

  Originally posted by bus:

  
  
  Any comments from Gallen1616? U seem to be disppeared from this forum.
  
  Anyone can also chip in to give your valuable comments

  Yes, you are absolutely right!
  Looks plays some part for both guys and gals regardless of what has been proposed to the contrary.
  
  I'm sure everyone wants to be with someone whose face you like to see for the rest of your life.
  No matter, keep trying guys! We will lose bachelorhood someday
  
• Inzaghi

  11 Jun 03, 09:34

  Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:

  dn giv up.....mus remember after bachelor u can do master

  also must go for PHD also....
• lifegoeson

  11 Jun 03, 15:14

  Originally posted by greyskymorning:

  me pass 30...still single, unattach
  no woman no cry

  I guess I will be joining you soon....
• lifegoeson

  11 Jun 03, 15:17

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  also must go for PHD also....

  Aaaaa....paper chase don't seems a good solution.....
  
• bus

  11 Jun 03, 19:10

  
  
  Sometime no matter how hard I try, the gals just won't be there for U lah..............
  
  It is wise to get a "bigger piece" of paper as gals DO SEE what qualification U have before they "like" U -- so fake right?
  
  I am not that bad looking but I just seemed to not to have that "lady's fate" --- there are guys who are so so & did U observe that he is already surrounded by gals..... I just don't know why but there is a saying "Nu Ren Yuan" --- I think I lack of that.
• the Bear

  11 Jun 03, 19:43

  aww, c'mon, you know what that means?
  
  

  Originally posted by greyskymorning:

  no woman no cry

• bus

  11 Jun 03, 20:47

  
  
  My life is always surrounded with the same scenarios
  
  1. Gals who fancy me are those types that I really don't like although they are nice to me
  
  2. Gals that I like are those
  a. attached (always seemed the case), their BF is just sooo sooo nabey, how come I always too slow.
  
  b. play hard to get & when I give up on them, they will come back but I am already lost interest in them
  
  Why Why Why Why Why Why Why Why Why Why
  I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo unlucky........... always....arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggg.........
• lifegoeson

  11 Jun 03, 23:14

  Hi,
  I second some of your scenarios..but me do not even have gals that fancy me..or gals which come back to you even when you give up..in that sense you are better off man...
  cheers
  
  

  Originally posted by bus:

  
  
  My life is always surrounded with the same scenarios
  
  1. Gals who fancy me are those types that I really don't like although they are nice to me
  
  2. Gals that I like are those
  a. attached (always seemed the case), their BF is just sooo sooo nabey, how come I always too slow.
  
  b. play hard to get & when I give up on them, they will come back but I am already lost interest in them
  
  Why Why Why Why Why Why Why Why Why Why
  I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo unlucky........... always....arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggg.........

• wuming78

  11 Jun 03, 23:21

  Originally posted by bus:

  Did U all single guys out there observed that sometime when U seen a couple along the road, please take a look at the guy, U will observe that the guy with that gal might be even worst looking than U! (no joke) and the gal is of a rather good looking type. I can only say that these guys are blessed with good luck.
  
  I believed in luck with the gals. U need this special thing to make things happen. Agree with me?
  

  lemme tell u my 2 theories of relations!
  
  1. everyone in this world has a partner that is meant for him/her. so no matter how ugly, fat, handsome, poor, etc.. there will be someone out there who will take a liking on you.
  
  2. those people who u think r more cannot make it than you (maybe uglier, worse character, watever) usually are attached earlier than you!
  
  wat u think?
• bus

  12 Jun 03, 00:25

  One of my ex-classmate (a gal) who is plump & not pretty type is married to a rather nice looking guy!
  
  Did U all observed that most of the pretty gals' husbands are those that are not that good looking & those handsome men's wives are those that are not that pretty!!!
  
  Is this call compromise in life?
  
  One of my friends in my company is nice to me & does express interests to me but I don't really fancy her. I told her we are still friend & we still keep in contact.
• bus

  15 Jun 03, 00:32

  
  
  Any comments from the others who are still single by now(no choice or forced by circumstances)?
  
  Gallen1616 where are U?
• Si|verGer

  16 Jun 03, 18:43

  Originally posted by bus:

  
  
  Hi, single guys out there...will U give up hopes of getting someone when U are after 30 years old??
  
  Any views on this issue?? How U all counteract loneliness/bordom when most of your friends are attached/married?

  i think u shld keep trying.. no harm mah.. as long u r not over 40?
  thik as guy age they r more attractive..
  anyway,just lower ur expectation abit lor..
• Si|verGer

  16 Jun 03, 18:46

  Originally posted by choco B:

  The upside is that it's genetically easier for men to lose weight and stay in shape than women.
  
  

  it's juz so unfair!
• Si|verGer

  16 Jun 03, 18:49

  Originally posted by bus:

  
  
  Well U will not find those type of gals U want in SDU/SDS...know what I mean. Most of the gals there are already past their sell by date. I was told most of them are in their 30s.....
  
  One of my friends went for the activities & was disppointed .
  
  Is there any other activities (not thru SDU/SDS) where U can met up with those young gals? Please do not tell me about chatroom/chatline etc. I am not interested in all these. Thanks

  wad ur fren disappointed abt?
  not meeting e rite ger or dat isn't any chio ger?
  well,i mean if u r going for any outings,meetups,dinners, actitives or SDU/SDS, u shld maintain a positive relax attitude..
  it juz like going dat to knw more frenxs & not going dat to meet e rite ger straightaway... if u maintain a mindset of meeting more frenxs i dun think u will be disappointed lor..