Can guy and girl be close friends?? I mean real close ones

• jsf

  21 Sep 03, 13:16

  used to have a very close gal friend. i always claimed that we are juz good frend, nothing else. but as she's chio, alot of guys always bio her and some try to jio her. when i saw or know, i'll feel uneasy, maybe that's jealousy. so do u think i like her?
  anyway, my point is, guys will surely have a crush on chio frends one. cannot hide, cannot prevent.
• abterror

  22 Sep 03, 11:14

  Originally posted by fun_seeker24:

  hi everyone..
  found this forum very active and fun.
  
  well as shown on the subject, wat do u think of this??
  Wat i mean by close is not physically.. but say... emotionally
  wat do ya think?

  The mind is strong,
  but the body is weak.
  Evil(D*** & Feelings or illusions) might rise and take over the rational side of ya
  
• iori8888

  23 Sep 03, 04:07

  Yes, I think itÂ’s possible. IÂ’m having a female friend nowÂ… besides my best friend, sheÂ’s now the closest to meÂ… we even hug and sleep together, change in the same room, use the toilet togetherÂ… not as in bath together but like example one brushing teeth, the other is peeingÂ… so far although no real problems yet and no one had complained but I know there is a lot of people not happyÂ… I donÂ’t know in future, IÂ’m not a fortune teller but, from what see is that if she can be more open to me, there wonÂ’t be any problems.
• abterror

  23 Sep 03, 14:59

  Originally posted by iori8888:

  Yes, I think itÂ’s possible. IÂ’m having a female friend nowÂ… besides my best friend, sheÂ’s now the closest to meÂ… we even hug and sleep together, change in the same room, use the toilet togetherÂ… not as in bath together but like example one brushing teeth, the other is peeingÂ… so far although no real problems yet and no one had complained but I know there is a lot of people not happyÂ… I donÂ’t know in future, IÂ’m not a fortune teller but, from what see is that if she can be more open to me, there wonÂ’t be any problems.

  there is a limit to friendship over relationship.
  perhaps both of u are more open to certain things.
• boy in blues

  23 Sep 03, 15:13

  Originally posted by fun_seeker24:

  hi everyone..
  found this forum very active and fun.
  
  well as shown on the subject, wat do u think of this??
  Wat i mean by close is not physically.. but say... emotionally
  wat do ya think?

  you can because you know your intention..but others don't.
• iori8888

  23 Sep 03, 20:23

  Originally posted by boy in blues:

  you can because you know your intention..but others don't.

  Huh
• boy in blues

  23 Sep 03, 20:35

  Originally posted by iori8888:

  Huh

  i mean you may say you want platonic so you yourself know..but you cannot prevent other people suspect otherwise..your girlfriend and her boyfriend cannot look into your heart.