ways to show someone u love how much u care and love her/him
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well we talked, she was a nice girl...Originally posted by OrdinaryGuy:ehhh...then how about ure other thread about "have u ever felt like giving up"
sounds like u had a gf
i screwed everything up...
then i couldn't talk to her anymore... game over... -
hehe........Originally posted by OrdinaryGuy:lol @ boyishboy
up to you lor
actually if u're really in love, no need to see this also i'm sure u do some of the things without being asked
treat every gf you have as if they are you're first gf
thats how it is for me
though i only had 1 gf so far hehe
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/me pat patOriginally posted by kopiosatu:well we talked, she was a nice girl...
i screwed everything up...
then i couldn't talk to her anymore... game over...
There there, she ain't the only durian tree in the forest... -
durian?? lmao!!
thats a stinky way of representing gals -
i know my head like durian, no need to say until so obvious mah~!Originally posted by xavier1979:/me pat pat
There there, she ain't the only durian tree in the forest... 
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Hmm.... this is what I think...Originally posted by OrdinaryGuy:1) Always tell her/him how much u love and how much she/he means to you
# Never let her know your feeling and how much you love her, keep her guessing and in suspense.
2) Send sweet smses/voice msgs frequently
# Ok but not to frequent.
3) Always ask of her well-being
# No comments...
4) Surprise her with gifts and presents now and then
# Ok, but not necessary expensive stuff... The thought and effort will mean more.
5) Compliment her/him on anything/everything (eg: looks, attitude, sports, clothes)
# Give more bad comments, compliment only once in the blue moon... This will keep her on her toe, and she will always try to do things to draw your attention.
6) Everyday treat her as she is a princess
# This will only spoilt her... So don't!!!
7) Always remember special dates/occasions (eg: annivasary, first kiss, birthday)
- Plan this occasion in advance and not last minute. Think of what she likes alone, and be romantic and original.
# This is ok..
Follow her when she goes shopping (even for women's clothes) and don't stay outside the shop and wait. Be earnest and patient, and tell her your opinion on what looks good/doesn't suit her.
# No comments...
9) leave love notes/poems in her handbag/bag without her knowing
# Ok...
10) Don't give excuses when u make a mistake (eg: late for a date), but apologize and tell her how inconsiderate you are and that you'll never do it again.
# apologize... is ok... don't try granmother story..
11) Whenever you have an argument, try to be understanding and considerate, and NEVER bring up PAST mistakes that might help you prove your point/
# Agrees...
12) Always be there for her when she has a problem or going through a tough time (eg: someone close died, studies isn't going to well), but give her enough space when she wants to be alone.
# ok...
12) When she/he is sharing you her/his problems, sit quietly and patiently and hear them out. If you went through similar problems, share with her/him on how u felt and what u did to deal with it.
# ok...
13) When she/he has alot of work/assignments to do, lend her/him a hand. (eg: help her/him in research, run an errand)
# to only certain extend...
14) Everything you do, do it because you love her WITHOUT expecting something in return
# no comments..
15) NEVER pressure for sex. Respect her and her decision (This is especially for the guys )
# Ok..
These are some of my ways, but if you wanna add in and share other ways pls do so. I hope this helps some of you shy ppl out there -
Hmm.... this is what I think...Originally posted by OrdinaryGuy:1) Always tell her/him how much u love and how much she/he means to you
# Never let her know your feeling and how much you love her, keep her guessing and in suspense.
2) Send sweet smses/voice msgs frequently
# Ok but not to frequent.
3) Always ask of her well-being
# No comments...
4) Surprise her with gifts and presents now and then
# Ok, but not necessary expensive stuff... The thought and effort will mean more.
5) Compliment her/him on anything/everything (eg: looks, attitude, sports, clothes)
# Give more bad comments, compliment only once in the blue moon... This will keep her on her toe, and she will always try to do things to draw your attention.
6) Everyday treat her as she is a princess
# This will only spoilt her... So don't!!!
7) Always remember special dates/occasions (eg: annivasary, first kiss, birthday)
- Plan this occasion in advance and not last minute. Think of what she likes alone, and be romantic and original.
# This is ok.. Follow her when she goes shopping (even for women's clothes) and don't stay outside the shop and wait. Be earnest and patient, and tell her your opinion on what looks good/doesn't suit her.
# No comments...
9) leave love notes/poems in her handbag/bag without her knowing
# Ok...
10) Don't give excuses when u make a mistake (eg: late for a date), but apologize and tell her how inconsiderate you are and that you'll never do it again.
# apologize... is ok... don't try granmother story..
11) Whenever you have an argument, try to be understanding and considerate, and NEVER bring up PAST mistakes that might help you prove your point/
# Agrees...
12) Always be there for her when she has a problem or going through a tough time (eg: someone close died, studies isn't going to well), but give her enough space when she wants to be alone.
# ok...
12) When she/he is sharing you her/his problems, sit quietly and patiently and hear them out. If you went through similar problems, share with her/him on how u felt and what u did to deal with it.
# ok...
13) When she/he has alot of work/assignments to do, lend her/him a hand. (eg: help her/him in research, run an errand)
# to only certain extend...
14) Everything you do, do it because you love her WITHOUT expecting something in return
# no comments..
15) NEVER pressure for sex. Respect her and her decision (This is especially for the guys )
# Ok..
These are some of my ways, but if you wanna add in and share other ways pls do so. I hope this helps some of you shy ppl out there -
all of them
she's that good.
i will do anything to see her smile always.
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lol @ weiwei2004
ure #1 and #5 sometimes can make gals tired of you wan leh
ntu slacker - sometimes that means giving her up -
seems like a puppet to her in my point of view.., but wad if she dun reprociate?Originally posted by OrdinaryGuy:1) Always tell her/him how much u love and how much she/he means to you
2) Send sweet smses/voice msgs frequently
3) Always ask of her well-being
4) Surprise her with gifts and presents now and then
5) Compliment her/him on anything/everything (eg: looks, attitude, sports, clothes)
6) Everyday treat her as she is a princess
7) Always remember special dates/occasions (eg: annivasary, first kiss, birthday)
- Plan this occasion in advance and not last minute. Think of what she likes alone, and be romantic and original. Follow her when she goes shopping (even for women's clothes) and don't stay outside the shop and wait. Be earnest and patient, and tell her your opinion on what looks good/doesn't suit her.
9) leave love notes/poems in her handbag/bag without her knowing
10) Don't give excuses when u make a mistake (eg: late for a date), but apologize and tell her how inconsiderate you are and that you'll never do it again.
11) Whenever you have an argument, try to be understanding and considerate, and NEVER bring up PAST mistakes that might help you prove your point/
12) Always be there for her when she has a problem or going through a tough time (eg: someone close died, studies isn't going to well), but give her enough space when she wants to be alone.
12) When she/he is sharing you her/his problems, sit quietly and patiently and hear them out. If you went through similar problems, share with her/him on how u felt and what u did to deal with it.
13) When she/he has alot of work/assignments to do, lend her/him a hand. (eg: help her/him in research, run an errand)
14) Everything you do, do it because you love her WITHOUT expecting something in return
15) NEVER pressure for sex. Respect her and her decision (This is especially for the guys )
These are some of my ways, but if you wanna add in and share other ways pls do so. I hope this helps some of you shy ppl out there -
love at its purest doesn't expect any reciprocationOriginally posted by milkshake:seems like a puppet to her in my point of view.., but wad if she dun reprociate?
though it may sound puerile, i subscribe to that thinking
sigh... i miss her so much -
I believe that would be what we call AGAPE love.Originally posted by ntu slacker:love at its purest doesn't expect any reciprocation
though it may sound puerile, i subscribe to that thinking
sigh... i miss her so much
unconditional love =) -
Unconditional love in a conditional world... Hardest thing of all to achieve in this world.Originally posted by alienara:I believe that would be what we call AGAPE love.
unconditional love =) -
lol, that kind of love would be God's loveOriginally posted by xavier1979:Unconditional love in a conditional world... Hardest thing of all to achieve in this world.
unfortunately in the world we're living, there is no such thing as a perfect love.
so try to make the best out of what you have at the moment
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If you use this ways, there's is no doubt that you'll lose your girlfriend in no time. It's no different from ass kissing. A girl needs a man who have a backbone, not a slave!Originally posted by OrdinaryGuy:1) Always tell her/him how much u love and how much she/he means to you
2) Send sweet smses/voice msgs frequently
3) Always ask of her well-being
4) Surprise her with gifts and presents now and then
5) Compliment her/him on anything/everything (eg: looks, attitude, sports, clothes)
6) Everyday treat her as she is a princess
7) Always remember special dates/occasions (eg: annivasary, first kiss, birthday)
- Plan this occasion in advance and not last minute. Think of what she likes alone, and be romantic and original. Follow her when she goes shopping (even for women's clothes) and don't stay outside the shop and wait. Be earnest and patient, and tell her your opinion on what looks good/doesn't suit her.
9) leave love notes/poems in her handbag/bag without her knowing
10) Don't give excuses when u make a mistake (eg: late for a date), but apologize and tell her how inconsiderate you are and that you'll never do it again.
11) Whenever you have an argument, try to be understanding and considerate, and NEVER bring up PAST mistakes that might help you prove your point/
12) Always be there for her when she has a problem or going through a tough time (eg: someone close died, studies isn't going to well), but give her enough space when she wants to be alone.
12) When she/he is sharing you her/his problems, sit quietly and patiently and hear them out. If you went through similar problems, share with her/him on how u felt and what u did to deal with it.
13) When she/he has alot of work/assignments to do, lend her/him a hand. (eg: help her/him in research, run an errand)
14) Everything you do, do it because you love her WITHOUT expecting something in return
15) NEVER pressure for sex. Respect her and her decision (This is especially for the guys )
These are some of my ways, but if you wanna add in and share other ways pls do so. I hope this helps some of you shy ppl out there -
are u a girl or a guy?Originally posted by Stream:If you use this ways, there's is no doubt that you'll lose your girlfriend in no time. It's no different from ass kissing. A girl needs a man who have a backbone, not a slave!
i dont expect everyone to follow ALL of these ways, but some of it are quite important.
A girl needs a man who makes her feel special and being loved. Not someone who is controlling and unsensitive