Are Singaporean girls changing?
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that explains why you so "unlucky".....Originally posted by Ryan99:I'm making more than 6K per month!! Who are you to talk to me about financial means???
it's not about the money, it's the attitude. Maybe u and your gal is of the same calibre? -
Yes I think they have changed. Its unevitable and a sign of the times. As to what some others have said, I think you already realise some of the changes yourself subconciously from the way you behave.
But what I find puzzling is that you are probably one of those dudes belonging to the "upper class". Rich and educated. For such a successful person which I "presume" you are, why should you allow those shallow women to dicate your life and your feelings.
The more successful you are, the less you should trust women. "Hint,Hint"
The fact is I don't think you should even commit yourself to one person until you are sure of how she is like. Some ladies might regard this as a "low-down" method and a sign of insincerity. But it the playing field is fair and I dare say local ladies also do the same although in a more "subtle" and less obvious way.
Of course if you ultimately really want to find someone who can accept you for who you are, you can simply conceal your $ and your "paper". But you and I know how your chances will stand then
So its up to you. Really. -
I agree with subzero.Originally posted by subzero_baby:that explains why you so "unlucky".....
it's not about the money, it's the attitude. Maybe u and your gal is of the same calibre?
If you are going to flaunt your money all you will attract are those money grubbers who just want to leech off you.
You should let a girl know you and not your money!!!
As well, cool off with the attitude -
It depends on your luck and the attitude you give.Originally posted by Xenthar:Of course if you ultimately really want to find someone who can accept you for who you are, you can simply conceal your $ and your "paper". But you and I know how your chances will stand then
So its up to you. Really.
Girls are very perceptive.
If you give the "I'm a rich bastard with an attitude" vibe, you will still attract the money grubbers.
If you give the "I'm a poor bastard with an attitude" I would say its better off if you stay at home.
Best is to be humble, and down-to earth without the need to flaunt. Anyways the truly rich never flaunt their wealth. They give it to charity and to the needy. -
Hmmm... The things posted on this Forum really gives me an insight of what goes on in the minds of women.. I believe that I'm also wrong on my part.. perhaps I've used the wrong ways in communicating with the opposite sex.. Thanks GUYS!! Keep the messages flowing.. I think I'm learning more day by day..
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Merry Merry Christmas.. Lonely Lonely Christmas.. But felt happy for my friends who are attached...
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perhaps all the women that I met or associate with are too materialistic...I've tried sending my girlfriend to work
, fetching her home,
inviting her parents to seafood resturants on weekends
, buying whatever things that she wants even though it may be really really expensive,
Being there for her whenever she needs a shoulder to cry on,
Picking 9999 love peas for her
BUT Nothing else seems to work out.. I could be Giving up on loving someone already.. Is Loving someone with all my heart wrong? Or is it that I cannot match up to the modern womens' standards?
I'm Confused.. -
Yes Ryan, the girls you have chosen are materialistic...I'm glad you have realised it... we are not all like that!!!Originally posted by Ryan99:perhaps all the women that I met or associate with are too materialistic...I've tried sending my girlfriend to work
, fetching her home,
inviting her parents to seafood resturants on weekends
, buying whatever things that she wants even though it may be really really expensive,
Being there for her whenever she needs a shoulder to cry on,
Picking 9999 love peas for her
BUT Nothing else seems to work out.. I could be Giving up on loving someone already.. Is Loving someone with all my heart wrong? Or is it that I cannot match up to the modern womens' standards?
I'm Confused..
I will say that I am a young and modern as possible woman, I run my own business and live in my own home. Out of all the things you listed that you did for your girl, what would have touched me the most would have been the being there for me and the gift of 9999 love peas...nothing else...I dont think you would have any problems matching up to a modern womans "standards"...I dont think loving someone with all your heart is wrong.....I do think you need to look at your reasons for choosing the type of girls that you have had as girlfriends so far....... -
she's too pampered. if she wants something really really exp she should buy it herself unless it's a special occasion. like your anniversary or sth.Originally posted by Ryan99:perhaps all the women that I met or associate with are too materialistic...I've tried sending my girlfriend to work
, fetching her home,
inviting her parents to seafood resturants on weekends
, buying whatever things that she wants even though it may be really really expensive,
Being there for her whenever she needs a shoulder to cry on,
Picking 9999 love peas for her
BUT Nothing else seems to work out.. I could be Giving up on loving someone already.. Is Loving someone with all my heart wrong? Or is it that I cannot match up to the modern womens' standards?
I'm Confused..
perhaps she's taking you for granted. -
All along I've wanted to treat someone nice and love her with all my heart... I've experienced heartache like never before.. very tired.. but I think I still have the strength to give it one last try.. When I finally choose the correct gal.. I guess its not how I treat a girl, its more of who's the girl that I'm choosing to be good to...
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Is it true that if guys never show that they're angry over something that their girlfriends did to make them angry, their girlfriends may think that the guy is sweet at first but will treat them as wimps if everytime the guy gives in?
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singaporean girl since to me is looking more on foreign country guy as may be they able to made them as high as the sky
