How to chose your life partner....
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What are the most important qualities you look for in the opposite sex?
How to tell if the qualities mix?
True Love is all about sacrifice....does your relationship past the test?
How to tell if it is still worth while to carryon....or bailout....?
It's all about responsibilities....to make a marriage work....
Why I will still try again, even if I fail......
Sex outside marriage, what is the real consequences....
Gay/lesbian relationship has no future....I tell you why.... -
Why many smart people are letting their head rule over their hearts....
And turning to agencies to socialise, even matchmake....
Some even pay ten thousands, to get that match as close to perfect....
Because a mistake, you will take a lifetime to correct.....
And how many people are going for instant relationships nowadays..... -
Looking for Love, in all the "wrong" places
If you don't believe me,
You will surely see,
Why love and relationships,
Need to be found and cultivated,
In a right place,
Cause a person's history and background,
Is just as important,
As his beliefs and race,
Only when you know the person's background,
Are you able to clearly see,
All the ups and downs,
All the plus and minuses,
For you to evaluate,
If you are able to compliment each other,
If there really is a future,
By doing the right things today.... -
Happiness can be short lived, or Happiness can be forever...
It depends on what values you chose today...
And the commitment to work thing out...
No matter what come may.....
Everything in life is so short lived,
Becos everyone chose the short way out,
Even if relationships dun last forever,
But family ties are built in your blood,
In your flesh and in your DNA,
They are with you forever. -
the same way how u choose watermelon at NTUC
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How to chose to be what fruit?.... when you are a watermelon for life?.....Originally posted by NT2:the same way how u choose watermelon at NTUC -
He wants to make love to a watermelon.Originally posted by oogle:How to chose to be what fruit?.... when you are a watermelon for life?..... -
"Originally posted by Manager433:"He wants to make love to a watermelon.
What? Dig a hole and scrape for flesh???
Heehee....
Aiya guys got needs know what to do.....
Get rid of it..... -
a simple watermelon can be perverted into this way....
to the thread starter...yahh these kind of people u shouldnt choose -
1. Live.
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Observation counts.....and it all depends on how well you observe...
Fact is, all relationship is the same....
Boy-girl....business....
If the person is not sincere and trustworthy....
Run away as fast as you can....
You got to build a relationship....
So a lot of give....and a lesser of take....
You got find out if that is what you want....
Then to make sacrifice for it....
Actually....Nothing is free in this world....
So the better you observe,
The better you know a person....
And find out all the girl's secrets.....heehee.... -
Have a realistic expectation.....
Most of the time.....
People buy a Hunydai....and expect it to perform like a Ferrari....
Compare the cc of the engine...
Before courtship it is already running like a japanese sedan...
How can it run like a Ferrari????
Before courtship all the bad habits are hidden from one another...
After marriage nobody gives a damn anymore....
Do you expect your wife/hubby who is a teacher
Will suddenly be a Professor overnight?......
Most Singapore girls are very shortsighted...
And some very longsighted until.....
5Cs, 6Cs, 7Cs, 8Cs and even 10Cs....
Look in the mirror and see....
What is your contributions....if you want 10Cs..... -
dont even bother.
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You got to build relationships.....chinese call it "guanxi"
Be it boy-girl relationship or business...
How many people actually make the effort...
To build relationships......
To treasure relationships....
It is taking one step at a time....
To give more than take.....
Wife...if your hubby is not making a ton...
Will you ask for that 5 carat diamond ring?
It is all about making sacrifices...
And who knows....
When one day is payback time....
You might be getting more than your share of
5 carat diamond ring.... -
We christians believe....
If you can't keep your family in order...
And build it on solid grounds....
You will never be successful...when you are running a business...
And there is a Chinese proverb which says...
One when crossing a bridge, over the other side,
Must not turn round, and destroy the bridge....
You may never know...if you got to backoff and retreat....
Human relationships are the same....
Everyone needs somebody sometimes..... -
Ever heard "a rolling stone gather no moss?"
I tell you...Success only comes after a failure...
And after you fail, if you are not able to stand again...
You have already lost the entire battle....
It's the same for human relationship....
Find that someone new....try again...
But "with eyes wider open".....
It is pure stupidity to repeat a mistake..... -
It's a number's game....
The more people you meet...
The better you get to choose.....
And with a deeper understanding of...
Each human habits and lifestyle and values.....
Only commit when you are sure....
When both of you can move the same direction...
It's a lifetime of responsibilities.....
You just cannot dump your children behind.....
Even in a divorce.......
They are still your responsibilities.....
Nowadays...instant divorce....
And then, instant problems...... -
The commercialization of Love and Marriage....
Human relationships is a complicated lot...
And many people find love and marriage...
With very different objectives unlike our forefathers.....
Sit down and seriously think...
What is your objectives, what is hers....
Before you sign on the dotted line...
Or it will bring you a world of misery.....
Marriage is a lifetime commitment.....
And if you are not able to fulfill it....
Then dun get married.....
Or the ones who suffer are your children....
It takes a world of love...
And a lifetime of commitments...
A lifetime of responsibilities...
A lifetime of staying together....
And now people are taking it so easy..... -
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Do you know, what is the happiest moments in one's life?
And have you witnessed it?
It is a vision...by the hospital bed....
The very first born in the family....
The sparkle in the mom's eye's...
Faces of joy in the father's....
And how many people have witnessed it.....
Life is a journey...a journey thru memories....
And the sight of an old couple at death's bed...
Going soon on a journey, never to return...
But something is different here...
There is no tears of sorrow...
But tears of joy...
Of completing a journey....
Into everlasting life..... -
by slapping the watermelon and hear the sound?Originally posted by NT2:the same way how u choose watermelon at NTUC 
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The Sight is so overpowering...Originally posted by oogle:Do you know, what is the happiest moments in one's life?
And have you witnessed it?
It is a vision...by the hospital bed....
The very first born in the family....
The sparkle in the mom's eye's...
Faces of joy in the father's....
And how many people have witnessed it.....
Life is a journey...a journey thru memories....
And the sight of an old couple at death's bed...
Going soon on a journey, never to return...
But something is different here...
There is no tears of sorrow...
But tears of joy...
Of completing a journey....
Into everlasting life.....
You will remember the rest of your life.....
To run a good race....
To achieve the same prize.....
Nothing in the world comes close....
As leaving behind "Pleasant Memories"..... -
Incorporating Values in Life....
A high education is useless,
If it doesn't help us,
To incorporate values in life,
To be discerning,
How to tell right from wrong,
To be tolerant,
And embrace harmony,
Nobody is perfect,
Everything comes at a price,
If you are not willing to sacrifice,
You will never get where you wanna go,
Get what you want,
And give what you're supposed to. -
Everyone tells you, Money is the most important in Life.....
True wealth is found,
When you don't have a single cent,
And you can use everyone's resources.....
If you can be successful this way,
Congratulations, you have found true wealth,
A Fool and his money will soon be parted,
Only a disciplined servant who is faithful with little,
Will be given even more. -
True wisdom is found, when you can unravel the mysteries of the bible....
Why Christ when he sents out his disciples to preach...
Only ask them to only bring only the suit they are wearing....
How God takes care of the lilies in the pond,
Without a worry in the world....
Why Christ when asked about riches in heaven,
Ask the rich man to sell everything and follow him.....
(P/s I am not asking u to do so....I'm not Christ....)
And why it takes a camel to go thru the eye of a needle.....
When u know everything, you will know God's plan,
U will get God's resources to do God's work.....
And if your relationship is like the seed that fall on good soil,
It will flourish and bloom.....