i sincerely hope so...Originally posted by drx:if she loves you no matter what you do she will not leave you.
If her love for you is gone she will not even want to look at you.
Not very true for the 1st statement.Originally posted by drx:if she loves you no matter what you do she will not leave you.
If her love for you is gone she will not even want to look at you.
What i can say to you is that "Cherish whatever you've now. Don't regret".Originally posted by mink77:i m a pinocchio in the making. today, she has found out the truth. and no, its not because of infidelity but i wont elaborate further. many chances she has given me but once again and again, i let her down. i know i dont deserve her forgiveness and neither do i have the courage to face her. a sudden of mixed feelings now mainly because i really do not want to lose her and yet, i do not want her to suffer along with me. there's nothing for me to hide from her anymore. everything has been unlocked. the person whom she entrusted her life with has disappointed her. her swaroski heart is broken into pieces. nothing that i do can appease her. compromise and trust is what a couple should practice but i have failed to do so.
right now, i m at a loss. i fear of losing her. will she leave me? will she talk to me again? let fate decide. all i can say is "I'm sorry"
If you dare to things liddat then you should accept your punishment. Its you yourself who lead to the consequences of today. You can give reason like "i never thought things will lead to this ending", but what's worst then lying and keep everything from your gf?Originally posted by mink77:i m a pinocchio in the making. today, she has found out the truth. and no, its not because of infidelity but i wont elaborate further. many chances she has given me but once again and again, i let her down. i know i dont deserve her forgiveness and neither do i have the courage to face her. a sudden of mixed feelings now mainly because i really do not want to lose her and yet, i do not want her to suffer along with me. there's nothing for me to hide from her anymore. everything has been unlocked. the person whom she entrusted her life with has disappointed her. her swaroski heart is broken into pieces. nothing that i do can appease her. compromise and trust is what a couple should practice but i have failed to do so.
right now, i m at a loss. i fear of losing her. will she leave me? will she talk to me again? let fate decide. all i can say is "I'm sorry"
Originally posted by SoonKeong:If you dare to things liddat then you should accept your punishment. Its you yourself who lead to the consequences of today. You can give reason like "i never thought things will lead to this ending", but what's worst then lying and keep everything from your gf?
Please dun go back to your gf, or even think of savaing the relationship.A relationship without trust never last long.
I agree with dcx. Its his decision on what to do, we can only wish him luck.Originally posted by dcx:[/color]
You dun tell what he shld do....it's his decision...he shld decide for himself....For i never see that there's no chance of him salvaging their relationship...
Looks more to me like letting his feelings known n out...juz a place for him to vent out whatever's in him....he doesn't needs any explaination for he has already know what he has done...we can't explain his situation anyway becoz he, himself knows the best of what's happenning...Originally posted by SoonKeong:I feel people comes AA forum is to attain answer from people, ok perhaps not answer, but some form of explaination.
I see himself in a very delusionated form where it resulted in a fallen relationship, and from what i learn and feel, fallen relationship dont last.
Will be harsh on this situation, sorry if i did.![]()
Originally posted by dcx:Not all fallen relationship don't last...in fact, you'll be surprised abt the amt of fallen relationships that actually last....
Originally posted by dcx:Not very true for the 1st statement.
True for the 2nd statement.
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If damage has not been done, what's sorry?Originally posted by browniebaobao:I'm sure 'sorry' is the last words that she ever wants to hear. when damage is done, what is 'sorry'?
since damage has been done, can 'sorry' make up for everything? NEVER!Originally posted by dcx:If damage has not been done, what's sorry?
If sorry can't make it up, why the existence of "sorry"? It always depends on the damage level done...For sure, if the damage is extremely high, definetely "sorry" will not do the job...Originally posted by browniebaobao:since damage has been done, can 'sorry' make up for everything? NEVER!
Originally posted by dcx:If sorry can make it up, why the existence of "sorry"? It always depends on the damage level done...For sure, if the damage is extremely high, definetely "sorry" will not do the job...
Definetely saying the word "sorry" is not going to do the magic...a sorry with sincerity....and sincerity with sincerity.....Originally posted by browniebaobao:
In other words, u mean if sorry can make up for it, then juz saying 'sorry' will do?
absurdly late for every dates?Originally posted by mink77:i m a pinocchio in the making. today, she has found out the truth. and no, its not because of infidelity but i wont elaborate further. many chances she has given me but once again and again, i let her down. i know i dont deserve her forgiveness and neither do i have the courage to face her. a sudden of mixed feelings now mainly because i really do not want to lose her and yet, i do not want her to suffer along with me. there's nothing for me to hide from her anymore. everything has been unlocked. the person whom she entrusted her life with has disappointed her. her swaroski heart is broken into pieces. nothing that i do can appease her. compromise and trust is what a couple should practice but i have failed to do so.
right now, i m at a loss. i fear of losing her. will she leave me? will she talk to me again? let fate decide. all i can say is "I'm sorry"
You've a problem?Originally posted by Lonelykid:sorry no cure lah you cheebye!