i let her down...

• mink77

  15 Jul 05, 03:27

  i m a pinocchio in the making. today, she has found out the truth. and no, its not because of infidelity but i wont elaborate further. many chances she has given me but once again and again, i let her down. i know i dont deserve her forgiveness and neither do i have the courage to face her. a sudden of mixed feelings now mainly because i really do not want to lose her and yet, i do not want her to suffer along with me. there's nothing for me to hide from her anymore. everything has been unlocked. the person whom she entrusted her life with has disappointed her. her swaroski heart is broken into pieces. nothing that i do can appease her. compromise and trust is what a couple should practice but i have failed to do so.
  right now, i m at a loss. i fear of losing her. will she leave me? will she talk to me again? let fate decide. all i can say is "I'm sorry"
• drx

  15 Jul 05, 03:36

  if she loves you no matter what you do she will not leave you.
  
  If her love for you is gone she will not even want to look at you.
• mink77

  15 Jul 05, 07:38

  Originally posted by drx:

  if she loves you no matter what you do she will not leave you.
  
  If her love for you is gone she will not even want to look at you.

  i sincerely hope so...
• starblue

  15 Jul 05, 10:03

  say sorry to her. not us. but i think first and foremost, you gotta decide whether you want to make it an effort to change so u will not disappoint her again, or you think letting her go and not be stuck with a failure like yourself is wad u want.
• dcx

  15 Jul 05, 10:05

  Originally posted by drx:

  if she loves you no matter what you do she will not leave you.
  If her love for you is gone she will not even want to look at you.

  Not very true for the 1st statement.
  
  True for the 2nd statement.
• koshboi

  15 Jul 05, 10:07

  Wats the use of knowing yr mistake..... and thikin abt it..
  
  If you wan her to stay, you better be firm on yourself, make a better change, no words needed to persuade her to stay if she can see that you are improving...
• dcx

  15 Jul 05, 10:09

  Originally posted by mink77:

  i m a pinocchio in the making. today, she has found out the truth. and no, its not because of infidelity but i wont elaborate further. many chances she has given me but once again and again, i let her down. i know i dont deserve her forgiveness and neither do i have the courage to face her. a sudden of mixed feelings now mainly because i really do not want to lose her and yet, i do not want her to suffer along with me. there's nothing for me to hide from her anymore. everything has been unlocked. the person whom she entrusted her life with has disappointed her. her swaroski heart is broken into pieces. nothing that i do can appease her. compromise and trust is what a couple should practice but i have failed to do so.
  right now, i m at a loss. i fear of losing her. will she leave me? will she talk to me again? let fate decide. all i can say is "I'm sorry"

  What i can say to you is that "Cherish whatever you've now. Don't regret".
  
  You're lucky.
• SoonKeong

  15 Jul 05, 10:10

  Originally posted by mink77:

  i m a pinocchio in the making. today, she has found out the truth. and no, its not because of infidelity but i wont elaborate further. many chances she has given me but once again and again, i let her down. i know i dont deserve her forgiveness and neither do i have the courage to face her. a sudden of mixed feelings now mainly because i really do not want to lose her and yet, i do not want her to suffer along with me. there's nothing for me to hide from her anymore. everything has been unlocked. the person whom she entrusted her life with has disappointed her. her swaroski heart is broken into pieces. nothing that i do can appease her. compromise and trust is what a couple should practice but i have failed to do so.
  right now, i m at a loss. i fear of losing her. will she leave me? will she talk to me again? let fate decide. all i can say is "I'm sorry"

  If you dare to things liddat then you should accept your punishment. Its you yourself who lead to the consequences of today. You can give reason like "i never thought things will lead to this ending", but what's worst then lying and keep everything from your gf?
  
  Please dun go back to your gf, or even think of savaing the relationship.
  
  A relationship without trust never last long.
• M©+square

  15 Jul 05, 10:11

  You're confused and contridicting yourself.
  Make a stand what you want. Take time off and think thru.
  
  Give you afew days to sort things out.
• dcx

  15 Jul 05, 10:14

  Originally posted by SoonKeong:

  If you dare to things liddat then you should accept your punishment. Its you yourself who lead to the consequences of today. You can give reason like "i never thought things will lead to this ending", but what's worst then lying and keep everything from your gf?
  
  Please dun go back to your gf, or even think of savaing the relationship.
  
  A relationship without trust never last long.

  
  
  You dun tell what he shld do....it's his decision...he shld decide for himself....For i never see that there's no chance of him salvaging their relationship...
  
• setokaiba

  15 Jul 05, 10:34

  Originally posted by dcx:

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  You dun tell what he shld do....it's his decision...he shld decide for himself....For i never see that there's no chance of him salvaging their relationship...
  

  I agree with dcx. Its his decision on what to do, we can only wish him luck.
  
  I duno much abt the actual situation co cant give much of a help. Just wana say that, do take some time to think things out (but not too long). Gd luck!
• SoonKeong

  15 Jul 05, 10:52

  I feel people comes AA forum is to attain answer from people, ok perhaps not answer, but some form of explaination.
  
  I see himself in a very delusionated form where it resulted in a fallen relationship, and from what i learn and feel, fallen relationship dont last.
  
  Will be harsh on this situation, sorry if i did.
• dcx

  15 Jul 05, 10:56

  Originally posted by SoonKeong:

  I feel people comes AA forum is to attain answer from people, ok perhaps not answer, but some form of explaination.
  
  I see himself in a very delusionated form where it resulted in a fallen relationship, and from what i learn and feel, fallen relationship dont last.
  
  Will be harsh on this situation, sorry if i did.

  Looks more to me like letting his feelings known n out...juz a place for him to vent out whatever's in him....he doesn't needs any explaination for he has already know what he has done...we can't explain his situation anyway becoz he, himself knows the best of what's happenning...
  
  Not all fallen relationship don't last...in fact, you'll be surprised abt the amt of fallen relationships that actually last....
  
  
• SoonKeong

  15 Jul 05, 11:11

  Originally posted by dcx:

  Not all fallen relationship don't last...in fact, you'll be surprised abt the amt of fallen relationships that actually last....
  
  

  
• Devil1976

  15 Jul 05, 12:56

  Originally posted by dcx:

  Not very true for the 1st statement.
  
  True for the 2nd statement.

  
• Devil1976

  15 Jul 05, 12:59

  Originally posted by SoonKeong:

  

  Hehheh...
• browniebaobao

  15 Jul 05, 13:06

  I'm sure 'sorry' is the last words that she ever wants to hear. when damage is done, what is 'sorry'?
• dcx

  15 Jul 05, 13:08

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  I'm sure 'sorry' is the last words that she ever wants to hear. when damage is done, what is 'sorry'?

  If damage has not been done, what's sorry?
• browniebaobao

  15 Jul 05, 13:30

  Originally posted by dcx:

  If damage has not been done, what's sorry?

  since damage has been done, can 'sorry' make up for everything? NEVER!
• dcx

  15 Jul 05, 13:48

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  since damage has been done, can 'sorry' make up for everything? NEVER!

  If sorry can't make it up, why the existence of "sorry"? It always depends on the damage level done...For sure, if the damage is extremely high, definetely "sorry" will not do the job...
• browniebaobao

  15 Jul 05, 13:57

  Originally posted by dcx:

  If sorry can make it up, why the existence of "sorry"? It always depends on the damage level done...For sure, if the damage is extremely high, definetely "sorry" will not do the job...

  
  In other words, u mean if sorry can make up for it, then juz saying 'sorry' will do?
• Lonelykid

  15 Jul 05, 13:59

  sorry no cure lah you cheebye!
• dcx

  15 Jul 05, 14:01

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  
  In other words, u mean if sorry can make up for it, then juz saying 'sorry' will do?

  Definetely saying the word "sorry" is not going to do the magic...a sorry with sincerity....and sincerity with sincerity.....
• aCid_rAIn

  15 Jul 05, 14:17

  Originally posted by mink77:

  i m a pinocchio in the making. today, she has found out the truth. and no, its not because of infidelity but i wont elaborate further. many chances she has given me but once again and again, i let her down. i know i dont deserve her forgiveness and neither do i have the courage to face her. a sudden of mixed feelings now mainly because i really do not want to lose her and yet, i do not want her to suffer along with me. there's nothing for me to hide from her anymore. everything has been unlocked. the person whom she entrusted her life with has disappointed her. her swaroski heart is broken into pieces. nothing that i do can appease her. compromise and trust is what a couple should practice but i have failed to do so.
  right now, i m at a loss. i fear of losing her. will she leave me? will she talk to me again? let fate decide. all i can say is "I'm sorry"

  absurdly late for every dates?
• dcx

  15 Jul 05, 14:20

  Originally posted by Lonelykid:

  sorry no cure lah you cheebye!

  You've a problem?