Getting dumped
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wat was the worst way u got dumped by your ex...
mine was like this my gf house no phone , only way to contact her is her hp .. then hp lost for past few wks always call me using public phone .. as non of her family members in her house got hp ..... so every time go down to call me .. she stay 3rd floor den below got 7-11 ... all of a sudden one day . she for the whole day nv call me , so i find it very weird , the day b4 no qurrel but like talk to me also cant be bother ,(period mah) den after 1 whole day nv call i tot maybe sick or wat resting at home , den next day also no call , de third day also no call , each time my hand ring i will jump up hoping to see at hp caller id , private no . or some no. i nv see b4 , means its her la , but its always my friend , after 5 days at last i stop cheating myself and tell myself .. hey dude u got dumped ... feel so sad , i did everything for her , was always behind her supporting her , everything gave up so much for her ... and de way she dumped me was so sweet ......hahaha..... !!! , anyway after 2 wks my friend inside bus , saw her sitting at bustop waiting for bus , so its means she nv die or kena kinapped or wat so ever , cos i know ppl with in this forums will give me weird ans ... ... but wat she did was very irreponsible , so forumers pls dont do this , even if u dont love the person , he/she will be very heartbroken as how i was .. if u dump a person like this , call and tell the person u wan break up and explan why also ... dont just drop a person and run !!! -
y u no go her place and find her?
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i also wanted to , but her father is one farking guai lan arshole gangster , one whole body ang kong , not that im scared of wat la , cos i scared wait he fark me i would fark him off back , cos of my gf , i respect him , last time when send her home , her father stare me , den i look at him abit smile at him , he ask me wat i looking at ? lol i wanted to fark him off but my gf pull me away ask me to relax ... anyway on third day i waited down her blk from 7 am till 11pm luckly at about 2 pm my friend came down and accompany me , soon 5 other friends join in , and by 7 pm we were drinking beer down de blk lol , at last at around 11 pm we went back
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Hm... not informing is truely bad.
My situation is that me and my ex had some quarrel, broke up in Jan. Then i chased her back, cosrt of like wanting to patch back. So in May, I asked her for a patch which she agreed.
But guess what?? The nxt day she sms me to say she did not wan to patch cos she feels that she wasnt ready so commit her self in a rls and also she wans freedom! I was in camp that day and it was a Monday! Super Monday blues siah!
I think that she was playing with my feelings cos I ever told her if she not ready, dun accept anything.
One year later wh en I went into Uni, I saw her with another guy holding hands. Upon confirmation from frens, told me she was attached sometime ago. I realised what she told me was actually a pack of lies.
So besides informing the guys, pls also do tell them the true reasons. -
Actually the method she is used is wat we call the slient breakup method.
The method works this way.
She will not call you and she will try to avoid you at all cost.
Used by people who do not wish to face the other party or quarrel during breakup.
I feel you put too much into this realtionship.
my advise for you.
1) go and find her and ask her what she wants.
2) forget about her. -
dumping and getting dumped is part and parcel of life.
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My 1st ex. Back then was still VERY GREEN. Didn't know what was happening. As quickly as it started, there was a COOLING PERIOD (for no obvious reasons at all..). No phone call, no reply, nothing. I went to her workplace to look up for her. She wanted a break up. I demanded a reason. At 1st she couldn't give me one. Then she said I was too sweet to her. And then she said I'll understand one day...Originally posted by gUms:wat was the worst way u got dumped by your ex...
After we broke up, we continued to correspond on mails for a while... Today I understood liao. She's a flirt, and was just out to 'play' me.
I didn't understand then, and was still trying to help her with her relationshipS problems...
Anyway, I saw her not too long back at Citylink HMV. With another guy? Well.. She's not the type I would even be interested in anymore...
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Awww, poor thing...
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Devil1976:My 1st ex. Back then was still VERY GREEN. Didn't know what was happening. As quickly as it started, there was a COOLING PERIOD (for no obvious reasons at all..). No phone call, no reply, nothing. I went to her workplace to look up for her. She wanted a break up. I demanded a reason. At 1st she couldn't give me one. Then she said I was too sweet to her. And then she said I'll understand one day...
After we broke up, we continued to correspond on mails for a while... Today I understood liao. She's a flirt, and was just out to 'play' me.
I didn't understand then, and was still trying to help her with her relationshipS problems...
Anyway, I saw her not too long back at Citylink HMV. With another guy? Well.. She's not the type I would even be interested in anymore... -
Nay... There's always a start to everything?Originally posted by FeowFeow:Awww, poor thing...
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my bf broke up with me while we were attending lecture together. he was just seated right behind me with another gal and he sms me to say "we are better off without each other..." i felt like turning around and slapping him on the face but i had to forget it. what a corward!
i heard his new gf drives to school. i have not seen the car yet. he was such an idiot!!! i bought him whatever he wants when we go shopping, brought him to nice restaurants, i should say i was a very nice gf to him.
but why did he choose to leave me??? and break up with me in such horrible way?? he have been avoiding me since then.. why are men so mean and crap!!!
just like the michael character in temptation insland!!