obesity unpopular?
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heh...domo arigatoOriginally posted by applesweetgirl:kawaii yo! ^^ -
http://joventinolove.ytmnd.comOriginally posted by alkaiden:if a gal is fat, den she has to make it up with personality...
i dun mind being frens with a fat chick
but to be honest, i would rather die than to go on a date w a fat chick
Alfran: When was the last time you saw a chick with C cup? Fat chicks which technically.. Aren't chicks.. -
about half a yearOriginally posted by applesweetgirl:he's a nice guy indeed! how long have u all known each other? -
well, to the original thread starter,
i think, you shouldn't care so much about what he thinks.
what matters is what you think.
sounds shocking? i know. but, i think that it all begins with yourself.
have confidence in yourself. being fat isn't the end of everything.
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Not true... My partner's little chubby, but to me, he's drop dead gorgeous.
And in my eyes, No other guy can compare.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by borntolive:hmmm is it the first time he ask u out? if it is then cant judge wether he is interested in you...but go for it.... at least be gd friends first
n btw u r not the only one with image probs....i m sure gals look for slim, althetic or preferably musclar type of guys rite....some guys who r overweight also face same prob as u which is lack of confidence...i m also like u lack of phy confidence but me is completely opposite of u..i m too thin n tiny
if u r not confident of yr look why not do something about it? at least u got try n u wont regret yr decision.. -
*makes note to try attend future AA outings*Originally posted by FeowFeow:Not true... My partner's little chubby, but to me, he's drop dead gorgeous.
And in my eyes, No other guy can compare.
FeowFeow -
Hiya Fey Mae, which century do you come from?
Kidding. This is 2006 already, my dear. Guys asking girl pals out to cruise with them is No biggie, & it's Not a given that just because they ask to cruise, means that they're interested in the girls!
Many of my friends are guys, & we go out to dinner, or just cruise, & we're still platonic friends. Thinking way too much or speculating way too much puts you at risk of spoiling what could be a great friendship.
People doubt that platonic friendships exist, but perhaps because I don't think so much nor read so much into it, I've managed to keep my friendships platonic & long term
Don't read too much into things. Sometimes, the best way to take things is at surface level. You dig too deep, you may lose your balance & fall into the hole.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Fey Mae:ya....he never hint anything, just talk about general things, stuff he does, a bit about his family etc. but im wondering if hes just picking me up as a friend. normally if a guy asked a girl out maybe he is interested, that is usually how i would intepret IF the girl he's asking is my slim friend.
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Sure, please come!
Tao Yan, you wanna be matchmade to Pink Jie izzit?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by alexkusu:*makes note to try attend future AA outings* -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:Sure, please come!
Tao Yan, you wanna be matchmade to Pink Jie izzit?
FeowFeow
I always believed younger guys should go out with older girls.. so they can 'check out' together -
There seems to be a trend towards this nowadays. My nephew told me that his friends all like older girls now
Oh well, I'm Not about to try this out. My guy makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world
FeowFeowOriginally posted by alexkusu:
I always believed younger guys should go out with older girls.. so they can 'check out' together -
that sounds nice. At most, I make every girl I meet feel like the most wonderful person on earthOriginally posted by FeowFeow:There seems to be a trend towards this nowadays. My nephew told me that his friends all like older girls now
Oh well, I'm Not about to try this out. My guy makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world
FeowFeow -
Hint: It's Not just telling a woman, "I think you're beautiful". It's about the way you look at her, your yan shen
FeowFeowOriginally posted by alexkusu:that sounds nice. At most, I make every girl I meet feel like the most wonderful person on earth -
Well, i can relate to Fey on several of her issues.
I was never the girl who had hordes of guys lapping her up, but i was definitely the witty one who always had something amusing to say and that helped my popularity, though it was platonic amongst the guys.
This continued all the way through secondary school and junior college. From 60 kg in primary school, i jumped to 100 plus post-JC time.
However, i did meet one guy, a punjabi fellow. Just a quick digression, punjabis are those north indians from punjab (duh), who have naturally colored eyes, are milky fair and are TALL! So yes, they are bloody good looking and it's all in their genes.
Anyway, i'm fat. And he's a rugger serving his NS in the Naval Dival Unit in the Navy. Now for those who don't know, they are bloody fit. And he's good looking to boot with hazel brown eyes and then some.
But yet he always tells me how beautiful i am to him and how he accepts me the way i am if i complain to him how fat i am and stuff. He does encourage me to exercise but yet at the same time he tells me it's my decision and he'll love me whatever way i am. I for my part, do exercise though results are wayyy too slow and i also dress to look good & feel good. Plus i am thankful for having met a guy who's not shy to show me off to his friends and does not have a family where it's "custom" not to have a fat girlfriend. Rolls eyes.
I think what's most important is that even though i am fat and i accept it, i make an effort to look good. It's one thing to be fat, yet pleasant looking and another to be fat AND ugly. Dress to hide your flaws, yet flaunt your plus points. Take care of your hair and skin. And make up always helps, though it should enhance and not change your face.
Singapore hasn't yet accepted that asians DO come in extra large sizes and most apparel cater to the itsy-bitsy ones. But there are a few upcoming stores that bear us plus sizers in mind. Take the effort to look good and you'll definitely feel good. That's what matters most! -
wow..hazel brown eyes..just like me.Originally posted by sassysapphire86:Well, i can relate to Fey on several of her issues.
I was never the girl who had hordes of guys lapping her up, but i was definitely the witty one who always had something amusing to say and that helped my popularity, though it was platonic amongst the guys.
This continued all the way through secondary school and junior college. From 60 kg in primary school, i jumped to 100 plus post-JC time.
However, i did meet one guy, a punjabi fellow. Just a quick digression, punjabis are those north indians from punjab (duh), who have naturally colored eyes, are milky fair and are TALL! So yes, they are bloody good looking and it's all in their genes.
Anyway, i'm fat. And he's a rugger serving his NS in the Naval Dival Unit in the Navy. Now for those who don't know, they are bloody fit. And he's good looking to boot with hazel brown eyes and then some.
But yet he always tells me how beautiful i am to him and how he accepts me the way i am if i complain to him how fat i am and stuff. He does encourage me to exercise but yet at the same time he tells me it's my decision and he'll love me whatever way i am. I for my part, do exercise though results are wayyy too slow and i also dress to look good & feel good. Plus i am thankful for having met a guy who's not shy to show me off to his friends and does not have a family where it's "custom" not to have a fat girlfriend. Rolls eyes.
I think what's most important is that even though i am fat and i accept it, i make an effort to look good. It's one thing to be fat, yet pleasant looking and another to be fat AND ugly. Dress to hide your flaws, yet flaunt your plus points. Take care of your hair and skin. And make up always helps, though it should enhance and not change your face.
Singapore hasn't yet accepted that asians DO come in extra large sizes and most apparel cater to the itsy-bitsy ones. But there are a few upcoming stores that bear us plus sizers in mind. Take the effort to look good and you'll definitely feel good. That's what matters most!
Looks like you got yourself a nice fellow. Make sure you hold on to him
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haha. And the abs, OMG, the ABS. Lol.Originally posted by alexkusu:wow..hazel brown eyes..just like me.
Looks like you got yourself a nice fellow. Make sure you hold on to him -
erm its the way he acts also. he wouldnt flirt or compliment any other girl in my presense and occasionally complimented on my appearance. he said im rare species cos he thinks girls like me (meaning my personality) is rare.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Hiya Fey Mae, which century do you come from? Kidding. This is 2006 already, my dear. Guys asking girl pals out to cruise with them is No biggie, & it's Not a given that just because they ask to cruise, means that they're interested in the girls!
Many of my friends are guys, & we go out to dinner, or just cruise, & we're still platonic friends. Thinking way too much or speculating way too much puts you at risk of spoiling what could be a great friendship.
People doubt that platonic friendships exist, but perhaps because I don't think so much nor read so much into it, I've managed to keep my friendships platonic & long term
Don't read too much into things. Sometimes, the best way to take things is at surface level. You dig too deep, you may lose your balance & fall into the hole.
FeowFeow lately hes acting a little flirtatious to me i think, i dunno if im overimagining things though. -
Seriously if i have to choose a girl who is bigger than me and looks like a superheavy weight powerlifter and a girl who is ugly but with a nice figure, i would choose the latter. I know i am immature but guess what, i am not the only one. When u see girls whose legs are bigger than mine(especially when i squat and deadlift a lot) then u will feel a bit disgusted.
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u r one of the few gals left in SPoreOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Not true... My partner's little chubby, but to me, he's drop dead gorgeous.
And in my eyes, No other guy can compare.
FeowFeow -
Originally posted by Pullup Addict:Seriously if i have to choose a girl who is bigger than me and looks like a superheavy weight powerlifter and a girl who is ugly but with a nice figure, i would choose the latter. I know i am immature but guess what, i am not the only one. When u see girls whose legs are bigger than mine(especially when i squat and deadlift a lot) then u will feel a bit disgusted.
..i deadlift n squat too but trying to reduce cause my leg getting too big...not muscles but fats -
Girl, is he sweet to u or is the flirting sexual.......?Originally posted by Fey Mae:erm its the way he acts also. he wouldnt flirt or compliment any other girl in my presense and occasionally complimented on my appearance. he said im rare species cos he thinks girls like me (meaning my personality) is rare. lately hes acting a little flirtatious to me i think, i dunno if im overimagining things though.
Its important.. cuz sometimes guys just wanna have a make out gal..
someone they wont be too serious with basically someone to pass time time and sexual frustration with.
be careful dont get hurt.....
Guys in general rater go for slimmer girls... for a number of reasons.....
Feels a little better cuz they feel that they can protect u. i mean if a gal outweighs the guy, or os bigger than the guy then the guy just wont feel rite...
Another thing is that some fat gals a re really sloppy. Guys like demure girls who can take care of them selves.. cuz we cant ake care of our selves.
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I dont discriminate when it comes to looks and i consider myself quite openminded and flexible... but seriously i can never go out with a huge gal...i somehow dosent feel right..
maybe im shallow? but i think im not alone... -
a bit of both. mostly hes just a sweet guy, which makes me think he's just being friendly and all, he does seem like a nice person. its just that there is the occasional sexual overtone, which the very next minute went off again that set me wondering.Originally posted by headset:Girl, is he sweet to u or is the flirting sexual.......?
Its important.. cuz sometimes guys just wanna have a make out gal..
someone they wont be too serious with basically someone to pass time time and sexual frustration with.
be careful dont get hurt.....
Guys in general rater go for slimmer girls... for a number of reasons.....
Feels a little better cuz they feel that they can protect u. i mean if a gal outweighs the guy, or os bigger than the guy then the guy just wont feel rite...
Another thing is that some fat gals a re really sloppy. Guys like demure girls who can take care of them selves.. cuz we cant ake care of our selves.
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I dont discriminate when it comes to looks and i consider myself quite openminded and flexible... but seriously i can never go out with a huge gal...i somehow dosent feel right..
maybe im shallow? but i think im not alone...
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Ok then form what i gater this guy might be interested in u for the right reasons. I guess he just dosnt know if he can be serious with u....Originally posted by Fey Mae:a bit of both. mostly hes just a sweet guy, which makes me think he's just being friendly and all, he does seem like a nice person. its just that there is the occasional sexual overtone, which the very next minute went off again that set me wondering.
have u met his firends?
If you have, how did he introduce u to them? As a friend or does he flirt with u in their presence -
maybe u jus wait..n see how...
sometimes..it would be betta to be good frenz than BGR -
well i knew him through his friend so I already knew some of his friends, but not all of them too well - he does spoke of some people and tell them about me at times. he invited me along to some of the group outings, and they seemed to give him sly winks about me. he did not deny at their "suggested interest" in me though to me he does not exactly court/woo me, except to tease me flirtatiously at times - which is probably a joke. hes a rather jovial fellow. i dont know but I am still thankful he treats me like a lady rather than some "fatso" whom seemed not to even be entitled the rights to be respected.Originally posted by headset:Ok then form what i gater this guy might be interested in u for the right reasons. I guess he just dosnt know if he can be serious with u....
have u met his firends?
If you have, how did he introduce u to them? As a friend or does he flirt with u in their presence
actually he flirted more when his friends are around, like probably deliberately, i'm not sure if its because he was goaded on. -
By this time, I cannot resist my temptation to say this...
What is the difference between the phrases of 'fat hope' and 'slim chance' ?
Got difference?