Being a carefree and wandering person, l never expected that l could fall into such situation again. Never ever could l expected.
But l was involved wif a gal recently.
Yesterday when she cried on my shoulder, l feel so loss, jus could only hug her tightly, while stroking her hair.
l ask her, why she choose me? do l look anything special? she told me l give her a form of security.
can any girls here tell me what is the meaning?
time ...
It is time to book a date for ROM !!!!
What happened to her that made her cry?
Are you her confidante or close friend whom she always confides in you?
How long have both of you know each other?
time ...
It is time to book a date for ROM !!!!
if you have to ask, you're not ready for her
For men, we think security means protecting them..
FOr gals, they think security = Money, money, and Money.
So she means you provide her security cuz she knows u can support all her things with your money lol ![]()
Aiyo, U still young is it ? When gal means that, it means she feel safe with u cuz of something u did or anything.. watever..
Could you explain why she cried? ![]()
by security i'd say shes comfortable with you around and willing to talk to you bout anything.. when you get comfortable with someone, you might gradually fall for him/her regardless of his/her looks or whatever.
i use the word 'might' because it's not necessary for one to get comfortable with another and then fall for him/her. but in your case it is and, she likes you
(not sure bout the $$$ part unless you've been showin her the money!
but i guess not for this case....?)
i think it lies with your character.... i guess you must be the type that is er, good to friends, very steady, righteous (pretty impt), easy-goin....? (i dont know because i dont know you
so i only assume nia in your words from your past threads
) but i feel that you're quite an easy person to talk to, well at least in here ![]()
She cried becos she is going to leave here soon. l didnt shower her wif any $$. During the 1st time we met, l jus exchange some words and makes sum jokes around. Then the 2nd time we met, she ask for my number and we jus exchange smses from there. The third time we met each other, she jus hug me tightly. sumhow l do had a feeling whether is it becos l resemble someone that she noe before? perhaps ex bf or wad?
my character isnt that good. u look too well on me le, lorry. But still l must thank u for ur good comments abt me.
l was really in a loss, but sumhow l must admit my feelings are stired up.
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looks like the number of times you and her met can be counted by 5 fingers
i must say you leave her a very good impression then.. ![]()
maybe shes attracted to your friendliness, humor or sth? is she still in sg....? how bout try askin her what you've asked us? guess shes the only one who could give you the answer because by security it could mean in various ways....
my guess is still your character ba.. friendly or sth.. easy-goin
nah don't think so much into it. sometimes it's just the feeling you give others. doesnt mean no shit.
She treat u as her brother =]
Somebody who be can count on.
i think u just happen to be there by her side, dat why she hug u n cry.
she could be just having an infatuation .. i guess you dont do anything first .
act like its normal .
and see how she reacts and stuff ..
U dun seem sure whether u really like her or not.. Is it because the moment she hugged u, u just felt a momentary stirred of emotions?
Other than that, u just treat her like a normal friend? I guess she's fond of u, and she trust u to be a nice guy whom she can rely on.
Are u interested in her or not?
If she`s leaving u better ask urself if u really have any feelings for her a not.
Because having a long distance relationship is not easy.
Cause u cant see each other every other week and even though u guys can talk on the phone everyday it`s still not the same.
Trust me i`ve tired it b4
so wats the agony ?
That means she likes you lah ....Got high potential to be her bf.
What .. you want a girl to kneel down infront of you to profess her love issit ?
Can don't be so dense or not ?
Originally posted by xShevchenkox:Being a carefree and wandering person, l never expected that l could fall into such situation again. Never ever could l expected.
But l was involved wif a gal recently.
Yesterday when she cried on my shoulder, l feel so loss, jus could only hug her tightly, while stroking her hair.
l ask her, why she choose me? do l look anything special? she told me l give her a form of security.
can any girls here tell me what is the meaning?
if she leaving then ask her to stay if u like her... maybe u got bad boy look la...
Originally posted by jojobeach:That means she likes you lah ....Got high potential to be her bf.
What .. you want a girl to kneel down infront of you to profess her love issit ?
Can don't be so dense or not ?
Originally posted by shrekho:
Oh... you will be so surprised how dense we can be.... I missed the chance for a new relationship, as during that period I do not have the courage nor am sensitive enough for the girl. Now I regret, as she is distancing herself from me. For xShevchenkox, perhaps it's time to take the step forward?
Well.. you know..it's never too late to get back what you missed... provided she's not already taken.
It's time you start " wooing".. that lady.. you know.. girls just love to be "chased".
If she don't distance herself from you.. there'd be no sprinting ground for you.
So.. get that regretful butt off that lazyboy couch and get some action going !
Originally posted by Ed11790:sounds like shes up to something…..........
DUH ~ ![]()