How not to be guai lan?

• 4794

  8 Apr 08, 17:50

  Hi all,today my fren said something to me that really affect me a lot.....he said that many of my seconday school mates don like me cause the way i speak is guai lan....but i don talk to them at all and how they know whether i talk guai lan a not......i admit that i am quite a joker in the class and i like to tease my classmates but its just for the sake of fun and they will also tease me back.....

  So now,how not to be guai lan cause i am in poly and had made new friends,i don wan them to think that i am guai lan

  Any suggestion is greatly appreciated,thnx

• bcloud23b

  8 Apr 08, 18:33

  maybe is ur cb face.

• ShrodingersCat

  8 Apr 08, 18:38

  next time if you got nothing nice or good to say, try not to talk loh.

• angel7030

  8 Apr 08, 18:43

  lan guai guai good mah, why, u got problem with your lan?? wee boys will be boys

• 4794

  8 Apr 08, 18:57

  Originally posted by bcloud23b:

  maybe is ur cb face.

  wow,i see.....cb face huh?

• LatecomerX

  8 Apr 08, 19:10

  Originally posted by 4794:

  Hi all,today my fren said something to me that really affect me a lot.....he said that many of my seconday school mates don like me cause the way i speak is guai lan....but i don talk to them at all and how they know whether i talk guai lan a not......i admit that i am quite a joker in the class and i like to tease my classmates but its just for the sake of fun and they will also tease me back.....

  So now,how not to be guai lan cause i am in poly and had made new friends,i don wan them to think that i am guai lan

  Any suggestion is greatly appreciated,thnx

  Take note of the way you tease your friends. It might have been offensive and you didn't realize it all along.

   

• YuutoFlow

  8 Apr 08, 19:12

  Mayb its nt ur fault mayb its ur friends fault ...

• caleb_chiang

  8 Apr 08, 19:15

  You don't talk at all?

• 4794

  8 Apr 08, 19:20

  Originally posted by LatecomerX:

  Take note of the way you tease your friends. It might have been offensive and you didn't realize it all along.

   

  Maybe...guess now i have to really think hard on what i am going to say to my frens

• guaiboiboi

  8 Apr 08, 20:41

  Originally posted by 4794:

  Hi all,today my fren said something to me that really affect me a lot.....he said that many of my seconday school mates don like me cause the way i speak is guai lan....but i don talk to them at all and how they know whether i talk guai lan a not......i admit that i am quite a joker in the class and i like to tease my classmates but its just for the sake of fun and they will also tease me back.....

  So now,how not to be guai lan cause i am in poly and had made new friends,i don wan them to think that i am guai lan

  Any suggestion is greatly appreciated,thnx

  
  then be a bad person be kind to people lo smile to them girl,boy also can eat.help people when people need help.donate to less fortunate people. 

• me_a_clone

  8 Apr 08, 21:08

   

   

  when u talk, your body language is also very impt. dont swing here & there or speak loudly.. Try to minimise vulgarities in ur sentences. Dont act hero, dont act smart.

  try to be humble. Do not provoke/joke unless u know where is thin line is.

  just my 0.02 cents.

• 4794

  8 Apr 08, 21:12

  Originally posted by me_a_clone:

   

   

  when u talk, your body language is also very impt. dont swing here & there or speak loudly.. Try to minimise vulgarities in ur sentences. Dont act hero, dont act smart.

  try to be humble. Do not provoke/joke unless u know where is thin line is.

  just my 0.02 cents.

  i see,my sentence always start and end with vulgarities,my voice always been loud....what u mean by don act hero or don act smart?

• magical_wen

  9 Apr 08, 11:49

  sometimes,

  jus shut ur mouth

• seotiblizzard

  9 Apr 08, 12:00

  If u cant say or think of 3 good things of a person.

  Shut up and dun say something bad.

  Cos its harder to say something good then something bad.

• Zarks

  9 Apr 08, 12:06

  no need to think la..

  just ask them why dont like u.. then u said u hope u can change..

  then u finally said. CB u all, dont like, dont like la..I know u jealous of my cb face

• Miss Tiny

  9 Apr 08, 12:21

  Some ppl said I got guai lan face cos I seldom smile, but they dunno my character well at all. Damnit.

  But since they said that the way u spoke is guai lan, then maybe when u speak, u dun spare feelings for that person. Be more tactful, in other words, think before u speak, even if it's meant to be a joke.

  It may be a joke to u but ppl may think otherwise.

   

• Hanagata

  9 Apr 08, 12:26

  diam diam let pple eat roh...

• dumbdumb!

  9 Apr 08, 12:44

  the only way to be guai lan is to be sarcastic lor. think b4 u talk?

• gunner77

  9 Apr 08, 16:29

  be more sia lan

• Yuki~!

  9 Apr 08, 16:51

  Nothing nice to say, stfu, srsly

• Eragon

  9 Apr 08, 17:00

  hazi, a spoiled brat...

• Lefti68

  16 May 08, 11:42

  Be urself. So what? U r guai-lan, then be it. Be nice 2 those who are nice 2 u. The rest can be ignored....

• Midlusionz

  16 May 08, 12:47

  Joke at the right time ..

• SquarePants

  17 May 08, 00:20

  u must be an arrogant sarcastic fool

• xavier1979

  17 May 08, 00:21

  Maybe your sense of humour doesn't agree with the rest of the human population?