19 and nv dated before

• klaha81

  27 May 08, 22:59

  i am really a big fat loser??

  i always feel so depressed when i see couples so happy together

   

  Female friends also not many..

• ifish

  27 May 08, 23:04

  wad u need is not a gf but a counsellor for ur self esteem

• Agenda

  27 May 08, 23:07

  Define dates, I don't have any girlfriends before but alot of flings. I don't see a need to get tied down now actually, I'm also 19 year old

   

  isn't it better? its like having romance but don't need spend much money, no commitments, can flirt with all the girls you want.

• caleb_chiang

  27 May 08, 23:08

  you haven't meet the right person, that's all...

• xavier1979

  27 May 08, 23:35

  I have close friends of my age who have yet to date too.

• Midlusionz

  28 May 08, 09:41

  Sometimes it's a blessing not to date

• Kuali Baba

  28 May 08, 09:43

  If your self-worth is dependent on your relationship status, it's better for you not to date at all.

• fudgester

  28 May 08, 09:45

  Originally posted by klaha81:

  i am really a big fat loser??

  i always feel so depressed when i see couples so happy together

   

  Female friends also not many..

  I believe the main issue here is your self-esteem, not your relationship status.

• Hanagata

  28 May 08, 09:48

  Originally posted by klaha81:

  i am really a big fat loser??

  i always feel so depressed when i see couples so happy together

   

  Female friends also not many..

  
  i'm also in my 20s.... i'm also single and never date before... am i beh kan also?

• BangHong

  28 May 08, 10:54

  must slim down, and try to be presentable to girls. therefore they will be "interested" in you

• RedizAlertz

  28 May 08, 11:47

  Nonsense!  Big Fat loser does not = nvr dated b4.  There are oso so many others who hav nvr dated til older age, for instance, mine came after 21 & was a rotten r'ship some more!  For now, jus focus on increasing ur worth & life values.  Who u r is who u ll attract.

• Uncertain

  28 May 08, 12:03

  I am 22 yrs old, nv date before, nv got gf....

   

  Am I a caveman? o.O

• jay_rocks

  28 May 08, 12:24

  Wait till u work and earn la.. Now having gf is like another huge investment on ur money.

  There ain't only you who havent dated with a girl be4 in this world

• N0body

  28 May 08, 18:36

  my first gf is when i am 24. 3 yrs already since we started and we planning to get married in 2 yrs time. commit only when u met the right one.unless u jus wan play ard which i dun see the pt in hurting one another in the end.
• Karma88

  28 May 08, 19:13

  Relac .

  Wats yours will be yours .

  I also not a lot of girl - friends .

  U`ll find your special one someday

• Q.C.Pak

  28 May 08, 19:24

  Originally posted by Karma88:

  Relac .

  Wats yours will be yours .

  I also not a lot of girl - friends .

  U`ll find your special one someday

  
  I agree...

• MS

  28 May 08, 21:44

  Originally posted by klaha81:

  i am really a big fat loser??

  i always feel so depressed when i see couples so happy together

   

  Female friends also not many..

  
  Can I ask...

  What are you doing now as a career?

  Can you communicate with total strangers and socialize in mass outing events or do you even participate in the first place?

   

  What I advise you to do now is to concentrate on your studies and clear your national service. Then concentrate on your career. Get a stable income first before you think of girls.

• rainbowshine

  28 May 08, 23:14

  haha no you aint. i am 18 (just one year younger) and i wasnt in a r/s before too. and so do many of my friends!:D

• pigsticker

  28 May 08, 23:28

  i'm 27, single with 2 kids.. but i also neber date before...

• ChiBet

  29 May 08, 10:16

  Originally posted by pigsticker:

  i'm 27, single with 2 kids.. but i also neber date before...

  
  wtf ???? what happen? one night stands?

• ChiBet

  29 May 08, 10:26

  25 I am big and fat also but already have multiple relationships but i am kind of a jerk and a pig. no children (that I am aware of)

  Trust me friend, being single has nothing to do with being big and fat.

  and there are no losers in life as it is only your inactions that make you seem like a loser.

  its more of a matter of self esteem.

  I am about 1.75m tall and 120kg

   

• BadzMaro

  29 May 08, 10:29

  lol.. i knew someone gonna post a topic like this soon.

  Cause.. last week i know a guy. Just graduate law. 25 yrs old. NEVER had a gf before. LoL

  I think thats maybe why he became so cynical. hahah

  kLaha82 .. dun worry. Time is aplenty. heh

• iwishiwilliwould

  29 May 08, 13:26

  its okay man! all my friends have got boyfriends except me. that doesnt make them more successful than me in anyway, just that they met the right one earlier.
• angel7030

  30 May 08, 16:02

  Dun worry, leave it to me, you want a date rite, i can match up one for you, but first, show me your money.

• eagle

  30 May 08, 16:04

  dating very expensive one leh...