Freeloader
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i feel terrible about bitching behind her back over here. like a coward who doesnt dare tell her her faults and instead come over here to complain. so im deleting the post.
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Bring less cash on outings. Hi jay!!
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hey prataboy! haha! hi!!!
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its either she treats u guys as 'cai tao'
or she is reli poor but pretending to be rich man's daughter?
i think she might be faking her nice side to u n frenz.
wake up!
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i think that's too cautious already.
if u guys are good friends, then obviously she is contributing to the relationship in some way.
some things cannot be measured by money, ya?
maybe she just doesn't know. so lovingly share with her, her personality quirks, if it's so irritating to you.
or else... be more giving lor.
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wah she buay paiseh ah. abit over leh. cannot take advantage until like that ma.
pardon me cause i come from poor family
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eh rich ppl sumtimes really more niao one.
I tink gope things must have limit la. Cannot 1 packet of fries not u pay still gope until left 5 fries for the person who pay those kind.
TS is it beri serious? Like she gope 90% of whatever u all buy?
Maybe u can hint her nxt time. Like :" Eh, go buy urself leh, not enuf eat liao"
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prata boi! lols
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wealthier family doesnt mean more pocket money..
friends only ma..
i also everytime treat my frens just for fun one.. not like she ask u to buy her a meal wad then say u give me wad why u take
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hi jay, good and close friends are hard to come by. From the way you described it, maybe your friend has some personal issue, esp finance. As she is your close friend, some time its quite pai seh to bring such matter up. Maybe you should look beyond the materialistic factor and show concern to her as a close and concern friend. Like you can casually pop her a question when she want to borrow some money for you.
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If she turn out to be a real cheapo, at least you have shown your concern as a close friend, and you have to live with it then.
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actually i realized it's kinda true, it's hard to tell a friend that she's eating us off. no choice lo. either do wad prataboi said, bring lesser cash, if not whenever next time wanna pay money, make sure to ask her first.
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you call this type of gal close frens?? then you need to re examine yourself on how to define frens and as close frens. Or on the other hand, dun tell me you like this gal but not willing to part with your money on her?? Money/allowance is in your pocket, dun spend your parents' hard earned cash on frens that are not willing to share and yet you define them as close frens. Wake up yr idea ya.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
you call this type of gal close frens?? then you need to re examine yourself on how to define frens and as close frens. Or on the other hand, dun tell me you like this gal but not willing to part with your money on her?? Money/allowance is in your pocket, dun spend your parents' hard earned cash on frens that are not willing to share and yet you define them as close frens. Wake up yr idea ya.
You then wake up your idea lar......not everything about friends is about $$. -
Originally posted by 16/f/lonely:
You then wake up your idea lar......not everything about friends is about $$.
Exactly, i told ts to wake up his/her idea cos his classmate which he claim to be close fren is a freeloader, how then can a freeloader be a close frens. I am not talking about $$. You got a problem?? -
Originally posted by angel7030:
Exactly, i told ts to wake up his/her idea cos his classmate which he claim to be close fren is a freeloader, how then can a freeloader be a close frens. I am not talking about $$. You got a problem??
A free-loader can still be a friend.Or are you just small-minded?
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no money still go starbucks
go coffeeshop la
70cent just nice 1 cup of kopi.
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maybe she'll make a good wife ....
such penny pinching women would be very good with the treasury ...
can consider neh ...
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not juz you, everyone else hates to go out with freeloaders too
if u are realli her close fren, then u shld let her noe the prob, if not she'll suffer when she steps into the society nxt time
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I teach u. Be proactive. Ask her to treat. Say you treat her so many times. Just say. I am sure u r right what.
I face similar problem too. My cousin kinda always say poor. BUt in malaysia, Proton wira. I really make excuse. When we order drink, they coming to pay. I always go toilet. make him him. Just tell her. Hey, Go on DUTCH. I not rich. Say the truth.
If she choose to ignore you, Jolly well forget her. If not she will pai seh, just screw her.
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Originally posted by Fatum:
maybe she'll make a good wife ....
such penny pinching women would be very good with the treasury ...
can consider neh ...
meow meow freeloader meh
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no la. shes a very nice person. but maybe she just doesnt feel like she's freeloading. maybe shes not aware of it. or maybe she thinks we dont mind. ok maybe im stingy. i dont like to be so calculative about money but it just bothers me.
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Originally posted by jaydunkfull:
no la. shes a very nice person. but maybe she just doesnt feel like she’s freeloading. maybe shes not aware of it. or maybe she thinks we dont mind. ok maybe im stingy. i dont like to be so calculative about money but it just bothers me.
good that you consider that she might not know that she's offending you all.
whatever it is, it is always good to share lovingly.
sit down, in private so she won't feel embarrassed or feel like u are out to humilate her. assure her of your friendship and whatever you do is what you feel is best for her etc.